I used to work with a guy who did the whole lying bit. He would go to victoria's secret, and start chatting with the sales woman about how he needs to buy something for his girlfriend. He'd tell her whatever size his imaginary girlfriend was, and she'd show him around, and he'd buy something.
Fast forward a week later, he'd show back up to return it. He'd say that she cheated on him, or for some other reason that wasn't his fault, they broke up. He'd then get the girl's number from the store, and take her out. This worked for him all the time.
The guy was a great DJ, but damn, that's just WAY too much work. Such an elaborate lie, I don't think I could keep it up. So there's one example for you.
But, as a DJ, shouldn't you have the confidence that you're an awesome dude, that you don't NEED to lie to women?