I'm convinced in many ways he is and Rollo has said this before as well despite Destiny's shortcomings.
The guy makes bank, has social status, is surprisingly
masculine in the sense he is adamant in standing behind his beliefs (even when wrong), will call others out and is not afraid of resulting repercussions. He also went across the world (while leaving behind his son
) and went after a hot swedish girl a decade younger than him.
Where he fails is his deference to women and engaging in emotionalism ad nauseum. He has no frame, no backbone, no understanding of boundaries and views women as holier than hoe. He is too bull headed to admit when he may be wrong on an idea and has too much ill founded pride. He doesn't not believe in hypergamy and thinks a woman's past irrelevant. To get this man to genuinely 'unplug' there needs to be a catalyst and like many guys who become rp aware it starts with a traumatic event.
I've heard his toxic fanbase say:
"doesn't this prove RP wrong"?
Nope, it proves it right.
It shows a pretty clear picture of a man who epitomizes the beta bux concept and is a nice guy with covert contracts as result of not having firm boundaries in place. Destiny showcases how important frame is and leading in a relationship is and not getting trampled over.
"But she left for a lower value man"
She left for a guy who despite appearances apparently has game and is machiavellian/manipulative in Destiny's own words (aka dark triad). It seems people take RP ideas at face value and misconstrue that everything is based around income and status when it isn't. Just because Destiny may perceivably be a higher value guy in some ways, he lacks in other ways tremendously. What man shares his wife? What man goes to great lengths to defend sex work? What 'man' allows his wife to actively distance herself away from him and move in to the arms of another man?
Hopefully he wakes up a bit, but he reaped what he sowed. Personally, i'm still on the fence as to whether this is all some psyop bait