dissapointed @ married sisther smh

[Jair213]

so my married sister just told me that she wanted to go out with her female co workers later today for a girls night out but there all single and shes married..

smh


she told me that she told her her husband about it and he didnt say anything that he just got serious about it.

wat do you guys think about this?

 

[TheException]

so my married sister just told me that she wanted to go out with her female co workers later today for a girls night out but there all single and shes married..

smh


she told me that she told her her husband about it and he didnt say anything that he just got serious about it.

wat do you guys think about this?

I have zero problem with it. Sounds like a perfect time for him to round up his boys and either have a guys night out, or cards and drinks.

 

[foreverAFC]

its all downhill from here

 

[In2theGame]

its all downhill from here

lol yup... I co sign this. This is exactly how it starts.

 

[Nn877]

Keyword "co workers" they are not going stop going out and always going to be in her ear abt how fun it was when they went out etc.

 

[Bokanovsky]

A married woman should be going to a "girls night out", period. Did you express your disappointment and disapproval to your sister?

 

[VladPatton]

So what if she wants to go out with the slores from work??? Look, if she's going to cheat, upgrade, or bang around, she's gonna do it in such a way that no one is going to know about it. People who wanna cheat go into a James Bond/Jason Bourne-like mode. It's part of the excitement. It's part of the rush. It's part of the satisfaction of cheating without getting caught.

A guy giving his wife a pissy fit about it is not gonna stop her from doin jack.

 

[VikingKing]

With every breath a woman has, there is a possibility she would cheat. My ex invited me to go have dinner with one of her Chinese male friends. I didn't want to but told her she could go, and she did.

This is called being secure.

The fact that I just let her go do what she wanted showed I wasn't afraid to lose her, which she perceived as me caring less. and I wasn't, I knew she was all about me.

She was back with in 40 mins, and brought me half of her food.

She also would hang out with her Chinese circle, and always, always invite me. I never wanted to go. But I told her she could, its ok.

She would hang out with chinese guys somtimes. After I taught her how to properly drive like a sane, grown up , adult, she even taught her chinese male friend to drive, he kept failing his driving test.

Her other chinese male friend named bo, she really just spent time with him a couple of times, like when she need a ride to somewhere (because I totalled her car, but wasn't my fault)

I also got him to drink his first drink.

One time I took her to an irish pub, we were playing darts (and she kicked my ass) I went to go pee came back 2 mins later, some dude was standing there next to my woman, with my darts in his hand. As I walked up, he nodded his head down, handed me the darts, and walked away. RESPECT.

If you have a girlfriend or wife, who is good looking, men will always being trying to hit on her, pick her up, bla bla bla.

I've seen it countless times.

If a woman is going to cheat, its because you've either been acting insecure and jealous, or letting her walk all over you.

It's fine if your brother in law has a strong frame.

A woman who has high interest in you will be calling you all night anyways when she is out with her friends from my experience.

 

[Vidrio]

If a woman is going to cheat, its because you've either been acting insecure and jealous, or letting her walk all over you.

I don't think this is true. Of course it applies to alot of situations but this type of thinking is essentially placing the blame of a woman cheating solely on the male.

I think it's very possible for a man to be completely secure, and not a pushover, but still get cheated on.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I don't think this is true. Of course it applies to alot of situations but this type of thinking is essentially placing the blame of a woman cheating solely on the male.

I think it's very possible for a man to be completely secure, and not a pushover, but still get cheated on.

I'm going to have to respectfully disagree,

When men start realizing that a woman cheating is usually their fault that's when men will stop this emasculation, and take the power back.

Accountability.

A woman cheating is at fault of the man, IMO. If a woman indeed respects you, sees you as higher value, sees you in the dominant role, and is aware of the fact your not afraid to lose her, she will NOT cheat.

What causes a woman to cheat?

In my experience I find it to be one of two things.

1. Your Actions/Behavior
2. She's a slut and/or has psychological issues (which you should've of screened for anyway)

It's when you start beta backsliding

When she begins to sense that insecurity

When she begins to take you for granted

Those hamster tingles stop

Your frame begins to slip

You get too comfortable

Regress back into that ole beta

& you begin supplicating

THATS when she cheats.

So if your secure, not a pushover, with a good frame & a chick which values you?

Nah, she could go out all night and wouldn't let Jesus smash.

Getting pissy and upset cause she goes out won't do anything, its your job as the leader in the relationship to set the boundaries and the precedent of what the b1tch can and can not do.

Besides, like everyone said:

If shorty wants to cheat, she GONE cheat.

 

[RagingBalls]

A woman cheating is at fault of the man, IMO. If a woman indeed respects you, sees you as higher value, sees you in the dominant role, and is aware of the fact your not afraid to lose her, she will NOT cheat.

[/B]

This i agree.
Women will disrespect a man and take him for granted because he is not willing to walk away when she is giving him a lot of redflags.

Men should act like a MAN. Not boys crying over toys.

 

[TheException]

So what if she wants to go out with the slores from work??? Look, if she's going to cheat, upgrade, or bang around, she's gonna do it in such a way that no one is going to know about it. People who wanna cheat go into a James Bond/Jason Bourne-like mode. It's part of the excitement. It's part of the rush. It's part of the satisfaction of cheating without getting caught.

A guy giving his wife a pissy fit about it is not gonna stop her from doin jack.

With every breath a woman has, there is a possibility she would cheat. My ex invited me to go have dinner with one of her Chinese male friends. I didn't want to but told her she could go, and she did.

This is called being secure.

The fact that I just let her go do what she wanted showed I wasn't afraid to lose her, which she perceived as me caring less. and I wasn't, I knew she was all about me.

She was back with in 40 mins, and brought me half of her food.

She also would hang out with her Chinese circle, and always, always invite me. I never wanted to go. But I told her she could, its ok.

She would hang out with chinese guys somtimes. After I taught her how to properly drive like a sane, grown up , adult, she even taught her chinese male friend to drive, he kept failing his driving test.

Her other chinese male friend named bo, she really just spent time with him a couple of times, like when she need a ride to somewhere (because I totalled her car, but wasn't my fault)

I also got him to drink his first drink.

One time I took her to an irish pub, we were playing darts (and she kicked my ass) I went to go pee came back 2 mins later, some dude was standing there next to my woman, with my darts in his hand. As I walked up, he nodded his head down, handed me the darts, and walked away. RESPECT.

If you have a girlfriend or wife, who is good looking, men will always being trying to hit on her, pick her up, bla bla bla.

I've seen it countless times.

If a woman is going to cheat, its because you've either been acting insecure and jealous, or letting her walk all over you.

It's fine if your brother in law has a strong frame.

A woman who has high interest in you will be calling you all night anyways when she is out with her friends from my experience.

I'm going to have to respectfully disagree,

When men start realizing that a woman cheating is usually their fault that's when men will stop this emasculation, and take the power back.

Accountability.

A woman cheating is at fault of the man, IMO. If a woman indeed respects you, sees you as higher value, sees you in the dominant role, and is aware of the fact your not afraid to lose her, she will NOT cheat.

What causes a woman to cheat?

In my experience I find it to be one of two things.

1. Your Actions/Behavior
2. She's a slut and/or has psychological issues (which you should've of screened for anyway)

It's when you start beta backsliding

When she begins to sense that insecurity

When she begins to take you for granted

Those hamster tingles stop

Your frame begins to slip

You get too comfortable

Regress back into that ole beta

& you begin supplicating

THATS when she cheats.

So if your secure, not a pushover, with a good frame & a chick which values you?

Nah, she could go out all night and wouldn't let Jesus smash.

Getting pissy and upset cause she goes out won't do anything, its your job as the leader in the relationship to set the boundaries and the precedent of what the b1tch can and can not do.

Besides, like everyone said:

If shorty wants to cheat, she GONE cheat.

So nice to see men thinking this way....

We need to stop embarrassing ourselves as a sex. We have to take control and responsibility. You dont do that through yelling and confrontation like a 9 year old who doesnt get his way. Men with the attitude above(the prize mentality) have women who realize we will walk right out of their life if they ever were to mess up......they dread that. These women will spend all night texting you on "girls night out"....then afterwards beg to come over and get railed.

 

[zekko]

I think it's very possible for a man to be completely secure, and not a pushover, but still get cheated on.

I have to acompletely agree with this.

Guys here seem to want to believe that they can have 100% control over everything - if only I can become the perfect alpha, no woman will ever cheat on me. But real life doesn't work that way.

With every breath a woman has, there is a possibility she would cheat. My ex invited me to go have dinner with one of her Chinese male friends. I didn't want to but told her she could go, and she did.

This is called being secure.

The fact that I just let her go do what she wanted showed I wasn't afraid to lose her, which she perceived as me caring less. and I wasn't, I knew she was all about me.

Not saying you did anything wrong here, if those are your boundaries, those are your boundaries. Everybody is different. But when I read things like that, I always think of things like this:

"She told me she wanted to go spend the night at her male friend's house. I just grunted in half interest. She said they would be sleeping in the same bed, and they would probably have sex multiple times. She said he always gives her the best orgasms. I just told her to go and have a good time.

That is called being secure. This showed that I was not afraid to lose her and that I was the one who cared less. This showed her that I was not a beta chump, but a true alpha male that she would have to respect and admire. So what if she was spending the night with this dude? She'd be coming back to ME in the morning, and I knew it."