Discussion -> Woman using Alcohol for an excuse

[JohnChops]

I just dont get this ... okay I do get this. What I do/dont get is why do women think they need to say things like "im drunkkkkkk", " im soooo drunkkkkkkk come over " to have sex .... do they need alcohol and them being drunk to make up for their so called sluttiness? Do they think theyll be less of a slut because theyre drunk? What do you guys think of this. Im making this thread because I had plans with a girl last night and I was so tired , when I laid down I feel asleep on accident and slept until 6 am this morning. Totally flaked on this girl, lol. I woke up to this:

Her : Hey we had plans !
.....
Her (Again) : you should answer because im mega drunk right now <--- obviously implying she wanted sex .

Just a discussion lemme know what you guys think.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I have reason to believe that they use alchool to not being considered accountable for their behaviour so part of the conseguences are exactly what you talked about, something like:

"I was drunk so Im not a slvt if there was a blow job session with that guy"

While at the same time, they use it as a mean to keep their "power" toward you because if a girl has sex with you its given that at least a little bit she likes you and if she likes you she no longer has the "independant, above the stars, unavailable girl aura" so they actually say by using alchool that they had sex with you but they were not in control, therefore you cannot dare to think that they care about you.

I know it seems contorted but the more I deal with women, the less I get surprised from the mindfvck they can create.

It's not different than when you bang a fat chick and blame alchool if you friends make fun of you, you blame the alchool so nobody can accuse you of falling down from your league.

So yeah alchool allows them to save their slvtty face and keep their ego pumped, liking a guy apparently is such a sign of weakness for girls nowadays.

 

[eddiedelgado]

I think no matter what, alcohol is not an excuse, for nothing. The alcohol just losen them up and then those girls tell you what she wants. If she would be sober she would never ask you.

 

[bigneil]

You don't know her unless you've had sex with her when she's straight. It lowers inhibitions to a remarkable degree.

That said, I can't stand when they say "I said/did that? I must have been drunk." Or when they say they blacked out (which I assume means they got gang banged by a bunch of black men).

Young girls do the "Get me drunk" thing but they usually smarten up over time. They start saying "I don't mix alcohol anymore" and "I don't drink (during xyz) anymore" and then eventually "My friends think it's so cool to go out drinking but I'm over that".

Try sharing a bottle of good wine (meaning $15-$20 white or $25+ red).

 

[pdx1138]

I know it seems contorted but the more I deal with women, the less I get surprised from the mindfvck they can create.

ha ha, not contorted at all....reality!

 

[Solomon]

You don't know her unless you've had sex with her when she's straight. It lowers inhibitions to a remarkable degree.

That said, I can't stand when they say "I said/did that? I must have been drunk." Or when they say they blacked out (which I assume means they got gang banged by a bunch of black men).

More indirect racism eh....

How are you're 2012 cuckold dreams going for you?

 

[Who Dares Win]

More indirect racism eh....

How are you're 2012 cuckold dreams going for you?

I guess he talked about being ganged from black guys because the girl used the word "blacked out", so that black comes from blacked.

Solomon I dont know how to tell you but nowadays there is no conspiracy againt black men, the most powerful man is in fact black and he has been voted from whites as well, and the biggest continent of whites (Europe) support him as much as his own nation.

Mate, Im white and if there was a conspiracy they would have tell me I guess, they would have send me a memo just like the ones we both got for the conspiracy againt women.

 

[thevilittletroll]

it is without a doubt an excuse women use to make them feel like they're not sluts. i'll give you another example....halloween costumes are always slutty. the girl is not a slut, she's just wearing the uniform. the bottom line is that if more women didnt give a f-uck if other women viewed them as sluts it be a lot easier to get laid in this world. or you could just move to europe where they are all sluts.

 

[VladPatton]

It's liquid courage and something to blame a sore vaj on the next morning.

 

[Alvafe]

I will repeat here what I said several times before

what you say drunk is what you think sober,

like some say, liquid courage, it lower inibition, work both ways you could drink just a little to make you go and hit on womans, but take notice if a person is a pain in the ass drunk they are a pain in the ass sober, only diference is how well you know each other.

and like OP said its a excuse, remember what excuses are, words who make you feel better, not the one you are saying it to

 

[floydb25]

Its just a cop-out to place all the blame and responsibility on you, if anything were to happen. They usually arent "wasted", and can still think clearly. I had a girl try to cheat on her boyfriend with me (which she denied being with). She was well aware of everything that happened; initiated everything; drove home without a hitch (because she was never drunk) - then, in a moment of guilt, or whatever - told her boyfriend that she was too drunk to remember anything. But she was moving and speaking clearly, drove perfectly, etc.

Ive had a lot of these instances happen. Theres always an excuse or lie to save face - then they usually blame the boyfriend THEYRE CHEATING ON for not sympathizing with them, believing their lies, letting them cheat, etc. Now theyre such jerks for not tolerating their guilt-induced LIES.

But other LInES include: "I dont know how he got there" (in her apt, on her bed, sleeping besides her), "I didnt invite him" (after calling and asking when I was coming, AFTER inviting me days prior, with the sole intention of having sex - all initiated by her), "nothing happened", "we're just friends / I'm not interested" (as theyre pushing for sex constantly, in private).

There's definitely some sleazy *****es out there - who WILL cheat on you with a "hot" guy - while lying to everyone involved. Not many get away with it, though, and most of them end up getting dumped - only to ask where all the nice guys are, because all they date are jerks. Which usually just means a naive, gullible, inexperienced dumbass who will tolerate all their immoral crap - like cheating. The so-called jerk isnt stupid and has boundaries and options, is all. The only player / user / ***** is them. And they never reciprocate or remain faithful to the nice guy, either.

I never heard a genuine good girl make these claims (through incessant, unbearable whining) - it was always the trash asking where all the good men were - literally while whoring around, acting like ****s, etc.

What were we talking about again? :crackup: