Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
We men tend to think that we can be universally attractive to women just as women can be to us. This is a fallacy. An attractive woman is almost universally attractive to EVERY man. All she needs to do is cover her real looks with makeup, wear nice clothes and ... well, that's about it. In today's market she certainly doesn't need character.
Not so with men. We can only be attractive to a certain subset of women, depending on personal preference and personality. Even Brad Pitt is not attractive to many women.
But I've been thinking that there are certain essentials that men must, absolutely MUST posses in order to be attractive to many women. I propose that we discuss the essentials, the qualities that are absolutely mandatory.
For starters, if a man wants to be attractive he must be working out. This is a non-elective, gentlemen. Working out not only improves your physique in the obvious sense but it also affects how you carry yourself and what you project to the world. If you are pudgy, you might as well stop dreaming about all those pretty girls walking by because they won't give you a second glance. You absolutely cannot be attractive to large numbers of decent looking women if you're not in shape.
As with any rule there are a few exceptions (such as the pudgy man whose outgoing personality overcomes his lazy-looking body) but these exceptions are rare and statistically insignificant.
Working out and staying in shape also gives you the belief that you are attractive, which is all-important. Not one of you who is out of shape thinks he is attractive deep down inside. It's impossible unless you're totally delusional. You don't need to be super-muscular; not by any means. However you must be reasonably in shape via a combination of weight lifting and aerobic exercise.
One of the biggest problems of men is that they're puzzled why attractive women won't give them the time of day, when their bodies are simply lumps of asexual flesh. Lazy men are continually looking to attract women who take the time and effort to look good and who are light years out of their league.
I repeat - Getting into good shape is MANDATORY. Being in shape cries out to the world, "I am a man who respects himself and is therefore to be respected by others".
I could go on and on about other qualities that are absolute essentials, but I'll let you guys have a go at it.
What are the outer qualities that a man MUST possess in order to be considered initially attractive to women? Not preferences, not sophisticated, nuanced qualities, but the basic absolutes that must be in play.
Not so with men. We can only be attractive to a certain subset of women, depending on personal preference and personality. Even Brad Pitt is not attractive to many women.
But I've been thinking that there are certain essentials that men must, absolutely MUST posses in order to be attractive to many women. I propose that we discuss the essentials, the qualities that are absolutely mandatory.
For starters, if a man wants to be attractive he must be working out. This is a non-elective, gentlemen. Working out not only improves your physique in the obvious sense but it also affects how you carry yourself and what you project to the world. If you are pudgy, you might as well stop dreaming about all those pretty girls walking by because they won't give you a second glance. You absolutely cannot be attractive to large numbers of decent looking women if you're not in shape.
As with any rule there are a few exceptions (such as the pudgy man whose outgoing personality overcomes his lazy-looking body) but these exceptions are rare and statistically insignificant.
Working out and staying in shape also gives you the belief that you are attractive, which is all-important. Not one of you who is out of shape thinks he is attractive deep down inside. It's impossible unless you're totally delusional. You don't need to be super-muscular; not by any means. However you must be reasonably in shape via a combination of weight lifting and aerobic exercise.
One of the biggest problems of men is that they're puzzled why attractive women won't give them the time of day, when their bodies are simply lumps of asexual flesh. Lazy men are continually looking to attract women who take the time and effort to look good and who are light years out of their league.
I repeat - Getting into good shape is MANDATORY. Being in shape cries out to the world, "I am a man who respects himself and is therefore to be respected by others".
I could go on and on about other qualities that are absolute essentials, but I'll let you guys have a go at it.
What are the outer qualities that a man MUST possess in order to be considered initially attractive to women? Not preferences, not sophisticated, nuanced qualities, but the basic absolutes that must be in play.
