Disciples King Mentality Summed Up

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I believe that The King mentality is one of the most important posts someone should consider.

Unfortunately, it is a long read(like 20 pages all together). So I just took notes and key points.

I am doing the same with Weapons of Mass Seduction, I will post that soon time.

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King Summed Up:

- Hotties want a man to put their ass in check. They will only submit to people with more power than them.

- Essentially, a Princess will never submit to anyone lower than herself to get with someone who is below her.

- As a King, I take charge and put hotties in check(Kings are dominant, they do not act as servants!).

- As a King: NO ONE IS ABOVE ME.

- As a king, I have a Kingdom(All aspects of my life). I am always seeking to improve my Kingdom.

- I don’t care about anything that does not directly effect my kingdom.

- As a king, I put my own interests AND that of my kingdom above anything else.

- Any girl wishing to be in my Kingdom will be treated as a subject. She must acknowledge my dominance

- I do not treat her disrespectfully because she is below me in terms of power.

- Any disrespect or rebellion, and they are exiled from my kingdom.

- I will only settle for the best(food, drinks, entertainment, clothes), and of course pu$$y.

- People will call me stubborn, difficult or will tell me my ego is out of control. I don’t listen to any of this ****.

- I treat my time as money and only invest it in things that are important.

- I am not concerned with trivial things in other peoples lives. MY TIME IS TOO PRECIOUS. I focus on important things that directly affect myself and my life.

- I figure most of **** out on my own because I don’t need to be dependent on other people.

- I have advisors to counsel me but I ultimately make my own decision without anyone else’s interference or influence. There are very few people I can trust, everyone has their own agenda.

- I AM HIGHER UP THAN ANY WOMAN no matter how much of a queen or princess she thinks is. I WILL NEVER, EVER, Place myself lower than any hottie. EVER.

- I conduct all my affairs as a king would.

- When a hottie starts giving me signals such as eye contact or glances, then it is my cue to see if she would make a welcomed addition.


- This is a PRIVILEGE for HER. If she abuses her privilege, she is unworthy and is forgotten.

- My Kingly dominance is a state of mind and is conveyed externally at all times. This is natural and should not require effort.

- I call the shots, I am in control.

- Just because I am King, does not mean that I walk around like everyone is insignificant.

- Even a King needs someone else at some point.

- Everyone serves a purpose.

- I Do not TRY and give a positive aura. Instead, I practice, think and act as a king would conduct himself in all my life’s activities.

- By doing this in everything I do, I will gradually see myself think and act differently until it becomes my nature.

"Just remember that first you have to learn to BE what you need to be and your aura will shine naturally and on its own."(As you think, you shall become).

- As King, I have a winning mentality that leads to success with not only women, but life in general.

- A King must develop charisma. A King can relate to all around him, and all around him can relate to his King! I will make even the most common person feel comfortable and not threatened.

- I am a benevolent king, not a tryant.

- I am like the lion, I only bear my teeth when challenged or dis-respected. I am powerful and I know who I am. That is enough.

"Because of my laid back, easy going attitude, my body language is naturally open and relaxed because I am at ease with myself and my surroundings."

- I need not prove anything because I am powerful inside. My greatness speaks for itself.

- If anyone comes at me the wrong way, I will put them in their place and send the message that I am cool, but will not be ****ed with. This goes for ANYONE.

"You're here for no one other than yourself. You're only mission in life is to design it as you want. If a woman doesn't buy into the "kingdom" you're building to rule over, she has blatantly stated she's not a worthy queen. As much as women are heralded as having an "ability" to see the "bigger picture, in my experience, that's pure BS. If that was true, then why, women being such emotional creatures, would they resort to outbursts over such trifling things, or even dump a guy who's going place in life for one that isn't? "

As a king, I am not ACTING like I am higher up then a women, I am acknowledging and appreciating my natural dominance and kingly status as a man.

- This does not mean that I act like ‘the ****.’

When I am with a woman, I am the leader who shows boldness, assertiveness and decision making skills and other traits of a good leader.

“A woman wants a man that SHE can look up to.

How can she look up to you if are below her?


That is about an hour of reading saved!
 

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You summed everything up pretty well.

I'm in the final stages of completing part 3 of this trilogy of posts.

Coming very soon.
 

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Good job but i would recommend to any aspiring DJ that you read disciple's posts in their unabidged version. I have read them several times and each time a new insight is gained. There are some very powerful concepts in that post-the strongest of which is simply that no matter how hot or seemingly "out of your league" the girl is, you are better than her and she has to earn the right to be a subject of your kingdom.

From personal experience the root of all insecurity with women is simply thinking that the girl is better than you. Disciple's post helps you overcome this faulty thinking.
 

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OK well you probably don't like me because of my sarky comment on another thread, but just wanted to say: great post.
 

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I'm feeling a bit like an outsider here.. can anyone tell me where to find the original post(s)?
 

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Never mind, found it.
 

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you have gone way to far, after a while here you realise that so much of what is written is deeply flawed.

re-read it, although many of the principals such as the fact the HB's will only submit to some one above them. is correct, look at what it is telling you to do, it is saying to not care about stuff that doe not affect you and to always put your needs first.

do you really think girls like shelfish people. NO.

eventualy you will learn that there is a diffrence between alpha male who has the power, and a power crazy guy that is too slef centered for any one to like and only looks out for himself.

lets talk about who in my veiw is the most popular guy in my school, well when we walk to the shops he always asks me can i get you anything. I needed to borrow some money, he gives me it and i say i will pay him back tomorow and he says dont worry aobut it.

seems very AFC doesnt it,, like hes trying to buy freinds, well hes cool and every one likes him, he not some wuss either, hes 1 of the strongest if not the strongest in the year. I have never heared him say a bad word about anyone. People just love to be around him. NO 1 disrespects him, hes lan alpha male but is he ever self centered, no does he try and use his power for his own good manipulating others, no never.

i hope this helps you understand that being an alpha male and in control does not mean being selfish and self centered and it does not mean you have to try and control others.

isnt it odd that just about the only person no 1 had ever saud anytihng bad about even behind his back, is also just aobut the only person who never says anything bad about any one else even behind there back.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk

you have gone way to far, after a while here you realise that so much of what is written is deeply flawed.
re-read it, although many of the principals such as the fact the HB's will only submit to some one above them. is correct, look at what it is telling you to do, it is saying to not care about stuff that doe not affect you and to always put your needs first.
do you really think girls like shelfish people. NO.
The purpose of my post is not to tell guys to be selfish, self-centered egotistical bastards with a "**** everybody else, it's all about me" attitude.

Before I go on any further, why should a guy who is working on improving his kingdom (life) put his focus on his life and his affairs and not focus on things that don't directly effect his life?

The answer is surprisingly simple.

How can you improve your sh*t when you're worried about what the next guy is doing or even worse comparing your sh*t to someone esle?

Think about it, the whole purpose of becoming a true Don Juan is one of SELF-improvement and you cannot improve anything unless you put your mind's focus on it.

Now I'm not saying to pretend like your an island and that you don't need anyone else or don't need to interact with other people.

In fact, what the hell are we doing right now?

I'm interacting with you and everyone else on this forum by posting and responding to posts.

I've learned alot on this forum and website and I'm giving back by sharing my experience and knowledge with others.

Now if what you are saying is true and I'm telling others to be selfish, then why do I take time of my schedule to post ideas and answer questions when I see someone needs help.

If that is selfish, then I guess I'm selfish.

What would really be selfish was if I just came here, read all the good posts, took all the wisdom in, improved my own game, and then said the hell with these guys and never tried to share anything or help anyone.

I think you misunderstood the point I was trying to make and maybe I should have worded that idea in my post a little differently.

Speaking of women, I never said to be selfish toward women.

If you met a good woman and she became part of your life (kingdom) then she is part of your life.

That means that you have to give her a certain amount of consideration just as you do other aspects of your life and I also said not to treat a woman badly just because you are the king and she is a princess or queen and you are more powerful.

I never said to disrespect a woman and abuse your power.

If I remember correctly, I said to be a benevolent king, not a tyrant.

I think you need to go back and re-read what I wrote very carefully because you misunderstood some points I was conveying.

I also said not to treat other people like sh*t because everyone serves a purpose and you shouldn't act like others are insignificant.

All of what I just said is in the original thread and I don't think that sounds like I'm telling a guy to be a selfish, self-centered bastard as you may think.

I just want to say something else about what you said about not caring about other people's sh*t.

If you go back to the original post, I told guys not to look at some other guy who has a flashy car and chicks on his sh*t but instead to focus on your life and on improving it.

That is true and I'll tell you why.

A true man is not concerned with what the next guy has or doesn't have, his focus instead is on taking care of his business and making his own great life.

Sitting around being concerned with what someone else has breeds jealousy, envy, and insecurity, all of which makes you weak and petty.

A Man focuses on building positive qualities in himself and on self-improvement and that builds inner strength, confidence, and self-reliance all of which makes you strong and actually makes it easier to deal with other people because you come from a position of strength rather than weakness.

A man like that is a man others respect (including hot women) and without respect there can never be good relations between any two people.

So no, don't be selfish toward others but don't sit around staring at the next guy's sh*t and neglect to improve your own.
 

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Another thing about selfishness and being self-centered.

How can you help others unless you FIRST your own sh*t together?
 

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Originally posted by disciple

How can you help others unless you FIRST your own sh*t together?
I was typing fast and meant to say, How can you help others unless you FIRST GET your own sh*t together?

Couldn't help correcting my myself.
 

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i read your post a few months aog, i do not rmember what you wrote in any detail but i do rmember liking it. Im not sure if this post is an acurate dipiction of oyur post but many of the key points mentioned on this one are flawed because it is just based on being self centered (no i didnt say you where self centered, i dont know you) where as it should be based on just being in control. Sure you have ot focus on yourslef but you can not forget about others.

the point that really got me was when you should not care about what is not directly affecting oyu and trust me that will not go down well.

now im going to re-read or at least skim through your post to see how acurate this dipiction of it is.
 

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so i was reading your post disciple and thinking this seems good, and the sum up of it has not depicted it well.

then to my shock i see the line i hated

Also, stop caring about anything that doesn't directly have to do with you and your kingdom (life).

then i realised this sum up of that mixed up your words! it gives the impresion that you are saying do not give a dam aobut any on else.

but when i went on to read past this i realise you ment to do not be bothered aobut what the guy you see in the street is doing because it does not matter to you.

this is ture, so i must agree with your post and like i said i tohught id liked it when i saw it some time back.

this depiction of it on the overhand, does a poor job of summing up what you are trying to say, i think maybe the guy who wrote it got mixed up.

guys if you want to learn anything go see the real post not this one.
 

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disciple,
you are one of three people here that i actually learn from. Confidence is the key here. And it is built within yourself and the confidence you possess will attract others. That's the character of a true man.

I like the part where you build your own kingdom. It should be like this. You take no shyt from people. And same time you don't have to be shytty to them or mean and degrading them. You're kind and you respect people. In return you receive respect from people.

You're the MAN.
 

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discipline: ur my hero:D
 

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Its a SUMMARY...Hence, its shortened form. I am not quite sure what kind of impression you get when you read a summary, but it is meant to briefly remind people of key points... Its shorter, and by virtue of this, there is omitted info. Check Mate, good call on re reading the article, this is just to remind someone of the key arguments.
 
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