thejuice
Master Don Juan
Directing the conversation is very important if you want to direct a girls thoughts. Anybody can talk aimlessly about anything without a specific goal in mind but for us getting laid, we have a different plan
When talking to a girl, you should have a goal in mind. Do you want to get her number? Ask her out? Get her naked? Convince her that you can eat ten hot dogs in one sitting? Wait...i wouldnt go for that last one (unless she looks like Jabba the Hut). If you have a plan, you have a better chance to accomplishing something that you want because you stay focused on the prize that youre going after
If you're the type of guy that dosen't have a specific strategy, you may find that you dont get what you want as often as you like. You often get strayed from what you want in the end. You're happy just letting the conversation stride and let whatever is going to happen just happen
But if you're like me, you have a plan and a strategy to getting to the point without forgetting why you're talking to her in the first place! Sorry, i get emotional when i talk about this stuff.
Now lets talk about this strategy...
THE STRATEGY
Having a strategy is not a hard thing to do. First, you must be able to keep a conversation flowing. If you have that down, then you have a lot of it done already
The second part is the most important. This is knowing what to say that will get her thinking the way you want her to think. Does that sound confusing? Well, it is actually a really simple thing to do. All you have to do is talk about things that she likes to talk about and put yourself in them
Lets take an example of a girl i know from class. She sits next to me and i know that she likes to go out dancing. If you're a clueless guy, you wouldn't know that this is very valuable information! By knowing that, i know about something she likes
The next part is making her associate me with what she likes
Let me explain how i did that. On a day when we got our test results back for our sociology class, i asked her how she did. She said that she had gotten a C which is something she expected. For those of you thinking what i was thinking, that is some more free information. Exploit it. Why does did she expect that grade? Should she be in a remedial class? (in a teasing way)
Her response is going to be irrelevant as you will soon find out. If she responds with i didnt study enough or I just can't seem to remember everything even if i studied answers, it won't make a diference. All that i need to remember is that she likes dancing and tie that up with the current situation. Draw a conclusion and put yourself in it
I took a light approach to it and said that it must have been all that partying. Before i let her respond, i said that she should invite me because it's rude not to invite me because she knew that loved dancing (she didn't know and she didn't know i knew she liked dancing). I knew she would laugh at what i would be saying because i was being silly with her
This the part where i put the imagery in her head. Once i had her visualize general ideas, i then proceeded to put more specific thoughts in her head. I left off at the thought of me being invited ny her to go dancing. She had an option of replying with yes or no. I don't think she would have said no seriously if she would have but i would still have had the same outcome
When she said yes, i said that i would go out with her (notice i changed going out to party to going out) if she could keep up with my dancing. I then went on to say that i was "the lord of the dance". Girls always laugh at that comment...lol...
If she would have said no, i would have looked at her and pretended like i knew why she said that...and that is that shes intimidated of my dancing because i'm...etc.
If you see what i mean by strategy now, then you know that whatever she would have said would not matter with my goal. my goal was to get her number...i got it at the end of class that day and we went dancing that weekend
After talking about dancing (which initially statred as a topic regarding the test) i went ahead and told her to write down the number for me and i would give her a call to let her know if i would be able to got out that weekend. It's just procedure my friend
Directing her thoughts can be applied to almost any situation
To come up with some topics that you know how to control (i call these control topics), you must first think about something generic to use in any case. Try coming up with a topic to use in the library with a girl thats looking for a book...or a girl sitting by herslef at a cafe...it's easy
It's better to know the subject first though. If you know something about a girl before hand, then you can use that as a tool to sway her emotions in your favor
Now that yo know how directing the conversation directs her thoughts, try making up topics where you can control sequences to a common outcome
Post some of your ideas
thejuice
When talking to a girl, you should have a goal in mind. Do you want to get her number? Ask her out? Get her naked? Convince her that you can eat ten hot dogs in one sitting? Wait...i wouldnt go for that last one (unless she looks like Jabba the Hut). If you have a plan, you have a better chance to accomplishing something that you want because you stay focused on the prize that youre going after
If you're the type of guy that dosen't have a specific strategy, you may find that you dont get what you want as often as you like. You often get strayed from what you want in the end. You're happy just letting the conversation stride and let whatever is going to happen just happen
But if you're like me, you have a plan and a strategy to getting to the point without forgetting why you're talking to her in the first place! Sorry, i get emotional when i talk about this stuff.
Now lets talk about this strategy...
THE STRATEGY
Having a strategy is not a hard thing to do. First, you must be able to keep a conversation flowing. If you have that down, then you have a lot of it done already
The second part is the most important. This is knowing what to say that will get her thinking the way you want her to think. Does that sound confusing? Well, it is actually a really simple thing to do. All you have to do is talk about things that she likes to talk about and put yourself in them
Lets take an example of a girl i know from class. She sits next to me and i know that she likes to go out dancing. If you're a clueless guy, you wouldn't know that this is very valuable information! By knowing that, i know about something she likes
The next part is making her associate me with what she likes
Let me explain how i did that. On a day when we got our test results back for our sociology class, i asked her how she did. She said that she had gotten a C which is something she expected. For those of you thinking what i was thinking, that is some more free information. Exploit it. Why does did she expect that grade? Should she be in a remedial class? (in a teasing way)
Her response is going to be irrelevant as you will soon find out. If she responds with i didnt study enough or I just can't seem to remember everything even if i studied answers, it won't make a diference. All that i need to remember is that she likes dancing and tie that up with the current situation. Draw a conclusion and put yourself in it
I took a light approach to it and said that it must have been all that partying. Before i let her respond, i said that she should invite me because it's rude not to invite me because she knew that loved dancing (she didn't know and she didn't know i knew she liked dancing). I knew she would laugh at what i would be saying because i was being silly with her
This the part where i put the imagery in her head. Once i had her visualize general ideas, i then proceeded to put more specific thoughts in her head. I left off at the thought of me being invited ny her to go dancing. She had an option of replying with yes or no. I don't think she would have said no seriously if she would have but i would still have had the same outcome
When she said yes, i said that i would go out with her (notice i changed going out to party to going out) if she could keep up with my dancing. I then went on to say that i was "the lord of the dance". Girls always laugh at that comment...lol...
If she would have said no, i would have looked at her and pretended like i knew why she said that...and that is that shes intimidated of my dancing because i'm...etc.
If you see what i mean by strategy now, then you know that whatever she would have said would not matter with my goal. my goal was to get her number...i got it at the end of class that day and we went dancing that weekend
After talking about dancing (which initially statred as a topic regarding the test) i went ahead and told her to write down the number for me and i would give her a call to let her know if i would be able to got out that weekend. It's just procedure my friend
Directing her thoughts can be applied to almost any situation
To come up with some topics that you know how to control (i call these control topics), you must first think about something generic to use in any case. Try coming up with a topic to use in the library with a girl thats looking for a book...or a girl sitting by herslef at a cafe...it's easy
It's better to know the subject first though. If you know something about a girl before hand, then you can use that as a tool to sway her emotions in your favor
Now that yo know how directing the conversation directs her thoughts, try making up topics where you can control sequences to a common outcome
Post some of your ideas
thejuice
