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Digital Deception And Dating

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Deception has seen a surge in recent times, primarily due to advances in computer technology. The search for authenticating someone or something is a growing concern, which in turn triggers a slew of solution options. Deception has been around since the begining of time, Push-up bras are great examples of false advertising.

Today background checks have become more extensive, plagiarism detectors are commonplace in educational institutions, currency authenticator devices are everywhere, I.D. verification has drastically changed since 9-11, credit card scams have increased exponentially, internet fraud, bots, illegal downloads, search for cracks/hacks are abundant and currently digital deception has reached epidemic proportions (anti-piracy software, virus protection, firewalls, email authenticators, facial recognition programs, etc).

Fast tracking the truth has always accompanied resistance variables such as deception deflection. People who choose to incorporate some form of deception do not want to be in the spotlight. Example: Investigate 3-4 people simultaneously and allow them to stew unsupervised for several minutes and watch the guilty person(s) remain quiet while the others are anxious to get it over with and voice their opinion. Some go out of their way and create a diversion in an attempt to throw investigators off the trail and deflect possible accusations. Politicians often refer to this as plausible deniability, we call it B.S.

Online we see a small but growing percentage of people who "doctor" thier pictures with programs like photoshop, use out-dated or "glamour shot" photos, angle pics with just their face, all to gain "virtual attraction" so they can make it to the next round. Women who post a cleavage shot DRASTICALLY INCREASE their fan mail. But in the real world, this deception enticement acts like INSTANT REJECTION once they see "the real you".

FAKE PROFILES-date bait, email harvesters, porn re-directing links have infected most dating sites, so be on the look out for quick responses, model pictures, killer bodies, too good to be true profiles ususally have a hidden agenda.

We also see some alteration in profiles, specifically INCOME LEVELS, JOB TITLES, HEIGHT, MARITAL STATUS, etc. Again all this stuff is difficult to keep up if you continue to see that individual.

SYNTAX-wording has become a little more creative. Look for keywords which easily translate. Examples: A FEW EXTA POUNDS, CURVY, AVERAGE all basically translate to FAT.

TMI-too much info, when new people (aka strangers) want to know your last name, your address, where you work,your home phone number, etc Two thoughts should appear;

1) they are way too cautious and lets face it chics like this are rarely any good between the sheets.

2) they are more attracted to extracting your hard earned money.

Being able to spot, weed out, expose: fakes, liars, con artists, scams, flakes, etc will save you a lot of time & energy not to mention frustration. DECEPTION DETECTION (digital or infield) should be in EVERY PICKUP ARTISTS TOOL KIT!!!!!!!!. A VALUABLE SKILL INDEED.
 

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I'm really more interested in finding the chicks who put out fast. I don't care if they give me a fake name or age.
 

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COD said:
Deception has seen a surge in recent times, primarily due to advances in computer technology. The search for authenticating someone or something is a growing concern, which in turn triggers a slew of solution options. Deception has been around since the begining of time, Push-up bras are great examples of false advertising.

Today background checks have become more extensive, plagiarism detectors are commonplace in educational institutions, currency authenticator devices are everywhere, I.D. verification has drastically changed since 9-11, credit card scams have increased exponentially, internet fraud, bots, illegal downloads, search for cracks/hacks are abundant and currently digital deception has reached epidemic proportions (anti-piracy software, virus protection, firewalls, email authenticators, facial recognition programs, etc).

Fast tracking the truth has always accompanied resistance variables such as deception deflection. People who choose to incorporate some form of deception do not want to be in the spotlight. Example: Investigate 3-4 people simultaneously and allow them to stew unsupervised for several minutes and watch the guilty person(s) remain quiet while the others are anxious to get it over with and voice their opinion. Some go out of their way and create a diversion in an attempt to throw investigators off the trail and deflect possible accusations. Politicians often refer to this as plausible deniability, we call it B.S.

Online we see a small but growing percentage of people who "doctor" thier pictures with programs like photoshop, use out-dated or "glamour shot" photos, angle pics with just their face, all to gain "virtual attraction" so they can make it to the next round. Women who post a cleavage shot DRASTICALLY INCREASE their fan mail. But in the real world, this deception enticement acts like INSTANT REJECTION once they see "the real you".

FAKE PROFILES-date bait, email harvesters, porn re-directing links have infected most dating sites, so be on the look out for quick responses, model pictures, killer bodies, too good to be true profiles ususally have a hidden agenda.

We also see some alteration in profiles, specifically INCOME LEVELS, JOB TITLES, HEIGHT, MARITAL STATUS, etc. Again all this stuff is difficult to keep up if you continue to see that individual.

SYNTAX-wording has become a little more creative. Look for keywords which easily translate. Examples: A FEW EXTA POUNDS, CURVY, AVERAGE all basically translate to FAT.

TMI-too much info, when new people (aka strangers) want to know your last name, your address, where you work,your home phone number, etc Two thoughts should appear;

1) they are way too cautious and lets face it chics like this are rarely any good between the sheets.

2) they are more attracted to extracting your hard earned money.

Being able to spot, weed out, expose: fakes, liars, con artists, scams, flakes, etc will save you a lot of time & energy not to mention frustration. DECEPTION DETECTION (digital or infield) should be in EVERY PICKUP ARTISTS TOOL KIT!!!!!!!!. A VALUABLE SKILL INDEED.
The irony is PUA are fakes themselves and will lose out to real men every time
 

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well ummm this post was to reveal how digital deception is gaining momentum, and basically how to spot B.S, liars, cons........again a valuble tool.

women who tend to put out as you call it............differs with each individual........back in the day it was chics who smoked, had tramp stamps, etc..........TODAY those stereotypes dont really apply.

I wrote an article (check my old posts) on TWO DATE MINIMUM.........OR wait for my current post SAME NIGHT LAYS........ONLINE VS BARS
 

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REAL MEN............lol............ya okay.........thats a little vague.

U do know this site WAS DESIGNED BY A PICK UP ARTIST RIGHT?...........U ARE AWARE THAT YOU ARE ON AND POSTING ON THIS SIE RIGHT....which is flooded with PROFESSIONAL PICKUP ARTISTS and wannbe social artists correct.

REAL MEN, be yourself, just be confident...........all generic advice and really serves no purpose other than to perpetuate your own ego.

I shall refer you to what the definition and PURPOSE of a pick up artist actually is............and i WOULD THINK........many would desire to become that individual. Not sure if THE WORD FAKE embraces this forum in the best light.

Mystery is not the only PUA alive.........and just cause he sports a fur hat, etc does not ensue a falsehood.

Women wear make up, push up bras, give out fake #'s, wear high heels, seduce men with BS all the time.

U call it irony I see a lack of the fundamental comprehension of the whole pua community.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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I've noticed tons of deception. That's why I hack their email if I get suspicious. The first girl I hacked wasn't bad. But the second chic, I found out she was banging at least 3 other guys while she was telling me she wasn't seeing anyone else.

It was messed up.
 

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Bluntmaster said:
I've noticed tons of deception. That's why I hack their email if I get suspicious. The first girl I hacked wasn't bad. But the second chic, I found out she was banging at least 3 other guys while she was telling me she wasn't seeing anyone else.

It was messed up.
Let me get this straight - you notice deception in girls

so you then secretly hack into their e-mail account
 

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Let me get this straight - you notice deception in girls

so you then secretly hack into their e-mail

That's not how it was. I dated them for a few months and got to know them. Then things got shady, so I decide to try and take a peak.

Lo and behold, the girl used a dumb security question. So I can't resist and get in and find out all sorts of things I really shouldn't know.
 
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