different between UB and HB

[david90]

what can u say to help me get over my fear of approaching HB? I have no problem with HB7 or or 8 but 9 and 10 still give my anxiety.

Isn't a girl just a girl regardless if she is a 7 8 9 or 10?

 

[PeeGee]

Do what I do -- don't give women the rating of a 9 or 10. Unless you live in LA or something, that is.

 

[The Rev]

One of the guest speakers in David DeAngelo's advanced series had a great idea about this.

He basically claimed that the whole 1-10 system was the worst thing for guys.

He said that what the real system should be is 1 or 0. 1 - she's good enough for you. 0 - she's not.

Maybe that will reframe the situation and change your perspective.

 

[Disconnect]

1 or 0 ... whoa. Nice.

 

[Gold Heart]

^ nice.


HB10 or not, all girls sh!t, eat, sleep, get angry, burp, fart, have problems, etc.

A girl is a girl. A man is a man. Don't let a girl's pvssy control your emotions.

 

[KiInCollege]

I know a HB 9 who is very picky and available. Many of the men she meets is not a DJ and screws up somehow. Since we're kind of friends, sometimes I get to hear about it.

I don't know if she read the rules, but she follows many of the principles. She'll belong to the next DJ she meets, but until then, she's a hot girl who's single. They're out there. If I were not in a LTR and my girl wasn't hotter, she would be mine.

Keep practicing your DJ skills. I like the 1-10 classification, since I don't feel that a 10 is out of my level. Maybe a similar mindset would help you?

 

[Six-String Samurai]

I don't know if the 1 or 0 thing really works for me. I prefer Ladder Theory, which breaks it down into "girls I'd sleep with and admit to it", "girls I'd sleep with and not admit to it", "girls I'd sleep with drunk and admit to it" and "girls I'd sleep with drunk and not admit to it" (anything else not even being on the ladder).

And PeeGee... I do live in L.A. D'OH!!!

 

[chicksrock]

i like 1 or 0 too!
otherwise we're making things way too complicated for ourselves

 

[diplomatic_lies]

Why is it that guys on this board always say HB7-HB10, but never anything lower?

Somehow its as if everyone here lives in a world where 7 is butt ugly and 10 is just average, since every single poster seems to hook up with HB10s every night.


Weird ain't it

 

[The Rev]

IMO attaching a rating system to women assumes that some are better than others, and therefore that some will be "harder to catch" than others. It presupposes that an "HB10" is some sort of rare, heavenly creature (looks-wise) and that "HB7" is an pretty attractive woman, therefore automatically assigning a value to the higher rated women. Doesn't fit well into the true "DJ" mindset.

 

[SealTeamSix]

DD must got it from matrix idea ..

But i really like this idea too .. "the one" or zero ..