differences between male/fem DJs

[shagnscoob]

ok i was thinking about this, and i realized, that girls who sleep around, are basically girls that are DJs that dont have to do any of the work and research because sex is always openly available to them.

does it make sense to say that guys who are DJs and bang all the hottest women are basically man sluts? because the only difference is that you have to try, and practice this kinda thing, where as a female slut can just do it because shes got guys all over her all the time anyway...


thoughts?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

the term DJ does not apply to women not only because don juan is a guy don is a male title and mostly the fact that the principals are about being domininant and in control which is the guys role not the girls.

 

[shagnscoob]

thats a fair point, but the issue remains the same...

whats the difference between a girl that sleeps around and a guy who has sex with just as many partners?

 

[AgonyUncle]

Shes probably more honest than the rest of em. Way I see it, these days attractive women are very sexually active, but tend to lie about the amount of sexual partners they have had, at the risk of being labeled a slut.

Dont label a women with a high sex drive. Shes probably more honest than the girl next door you are comparing her too.

 

[diplomatic_lie]

Reminds me of some quote, "I'm a female player. There's another name for us, but it's not as positive as pimp."

 

[Engetsu]

Originally posted by AgonyUncle
Shes probably more honest than the rest of em. Way I see it, these days attractive women are very sexually active, but tend to lie about the amount of sexual partners they have had, at the risk of being labeled a slut.

Dont label a women with a high sex drive. Shes probably more honest than the girl next door you are comparing her too.

I disagree. Girls who sleep around are sluts, period. If you don't know about it, then she's a lying slut, which is worse.

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by Engetsu
I disagree. Girls who sleep around are sluts, period. If you don't know about it, then she's a lying slut, which is worse.

(Assuming you've had sex before) what does that make you? After all, you are on a site dedicated to nothing but learning how to better seduce women... Double standards really bother me - sex is meant to be enjoyed, plain and simple.

 

[Albion4]

There are VERY few women who could be catagorized as "DJs". those are women who prey on weak men for some reason other then love. Typically men are the predator and women are the prey, it's just not in their nature to be like that. I know it sounds like I am putting them down but I am not.

Women who sleep around are not DJs, it's just the only way they know to get a man's attension. They figure the more they want to have sex the more men will want them. It's to bad that's completely counterproductive. Any guy will sleep with a girl like this, but no guy would ever consider spending any real time with her. After all a slut is just a slut.

Now be very very careful, there is a difference between women who dress the part and women who act the part. Under the same premise as above there are women who think that acting slutty without offering the deed will get them attension also. It does get them attension but it labels them a tease.

But in the end it's all about the prey getting the attension of the predator. After all, who notices the girl who dresses bland, wears no makeup and hides herself in the corner all day?

-Al

 

[AverageFC]

Yes, they have a name. It's *****.

And ladies ain't pimps too. I hate that Jay-Z line especially when I see idiot white girls dancing to that. (yes I'm white)

 

[shagnscoob]

Originally posted by diablo
(Assuming you've had sex before) what does that make you? After all, you are on a site dedicated to nothing but learning how to better seduce women... Double standards really bother me - sex is meant to be enjoyed, plain and simple.

well thats why i posted the question, im wondering what other people think about the double standard.

alot of people are critical of someone who goes around doing lots of girls just because 'sex is meant to be enjoyed' and it kinda sucks, im sure some other people here have been accused of being a manwh0re, or whatever

 

[AverageFC]

There is no double standard.

It is an established fact that most, if not every, woman wants a more experienced man.

It is an established fact that most, if not every, man wants a relatively pure woman.

For men to be more experienced, they have to sleep around a bit.

Women want man-wh0res. Men don't want female-wh0res. There is no double standard.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by AverageFC
There is no double standard.

It is an established fact that most, if not every, woman wants a more experienced man.

It is an established fact that most, if not every, man wants a relatively pure woman.

For men to be more experienced, they have to sleep around a bit.

Women want man-wh0res. Men don't want female-wh0res. There is no double standard.

that can be true but i know plenty of girls, that say they dont want a 'player' although i do not go around asking i do not recall girls saying to me they do want a player.

 

[shagnscoob]

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
that can be true but i know plenty of girls, that say they dont want a 'player' although i do not go around asking i do not recall girls saying to me they do want a player.

i didnt think a girl wanted a player because then she wont be 'special' ya know>?

 

[undesputable]

i wouldnt want to hook up with a female player. But then again if you think about it, most hot girls that dont have a bfs are players

 

[shagnscoob]

so wtf? girls definately dont want players, maybe an 'experienced' guy but not a player, and when you send of the player vibe...

i quote the words of a girl who is speaking of me to her friend---

"definately not cool"

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

Originally posted by Engetsu
I disagree. Girls who sleep around are sluts, period. If you don't know about it, then she's a lying slut, which is worse.

why the hell are you criticizing girls who like to have fun in the same way that we do? grow up

 

[Engetsu]

Originally posted by A&F Brand Cologne
why the hell are you criticizing girls who like to have fun in the same way that we do? grow up

First of all, not because my opinion differs from yours that I need to grow up. Second of all, don't put me in the same bag as you. I am against ONS, and all types of sexual easiness.

Get a clue dude.

 

[AverageFC]

that can be true but i know plenty of girls, that say they dont want a 'player' although i do not go around asking i do not recall girls saying to me they do want a player.

You don't have to be a player to have lots of sex experience.

 

[shagnscoob]

Originally posted by AverageFC
You don't have to be a player to have lots of sex experience.

well alot of this website is dedicated to helping guys become players. although the eventual goal is hide that.

 

[AverageFC]

I'd say it's dedicated to helping guys become better men