did no fapping help you?

[pyros]

Hi,

Im just curious, did not fapping help you in order to get more girls?
Im reading all these opinions that proclaim that if you do not fap, your testosterone levels increase, and this makes you more sexually aggressive towards females, makes you more social...and that females perceive this so they 'like' you more and want to get close to you.


Thanks.

 

[TheException]

Looks great on paper from a scientific point of view. When you dont "release" your sexual energy...it will come out in other forms. Drive, ambition, gym, etc. I do recall being slightly more motivated in life in general, but it could have just been like a placebo effect....

At the very least it will be a test of your will...so that is a positive. Whats better than no fap is to fap.....but never finish. Do that for a week or 2 and youll at the very least have built up some damn willpower

 

[HedoRick]

NOFAP is the one of the best things you can do for yourself.

The first week will having you feel a little crazy, but after that point you become more focused and aggressive.

My personal story is that I felt more driven to go out and meet women, and find a job.

Also another thing that was beneficial for me is that I stopped caring about things. In the past I was easily offended, but after I started NOFAP, I feel like everything just rolls off my shoulders. It's the best feeling in the world.

 

[Elephant]

For me, it made me feel better about myself because I felt more in control. When you feel good about yourself the rest seems to fall into place. I became naturally more social, less nervous, and happy.

Fapping is a poor substitute for women; it acts as a crutch and doesn't leave you fully satisfied, and when you stop and realize you can still be happy any desperation you have seems to disappear. You no longer want to do things with girls that would otherwise bore you except for the fact she is there (ie dull talking, doing her favors, ect), but instead you want to do things actually you enjoy with her.

These benefits were most likely psychological, and will probably vary based on each individuals opinion of fapping.

Additionally, i agree with TheException in that the energy has to go somewhere even if that is just being more sexual.

 

[TheFapPrince]

No.

 

[Zarky]

I was very irritable for the past week. Last night a girl made me come and today I feel much more relaxed. Not sure I'd like to go without ejaculation, whether it's by girl or by me.

 

[TheCWord]

After reading all this no fap stuff on SS I've cut back - maybe once or twice a week. Been doing that for 2-3 weeks and notice that, during those stretches of no fap, I feel great. Even after I do fap, I still feel pretty damn strong. It's only when I get into a mini-marathon where I again feel like some of my masculine energy has been depleted.

The only reason I'm suspect of doing this long term is the effect it will have on my performance in the bedroom. In the 2-3 weeks I've been trying this, I haven't had sex, but in the past whenever I've gone, say, a week without masturbating and then have sex - I reach orgasm far too quickly. Makes sense, too much has been pent up and it needs to be released ASAP...

But I don't have much interest in being a larry c-um early. I enjoy foreplay and always make sure the girl has an orgasm before penetration, but that doesn't make up for an abridged performance of the main event.

I'm sure these guys on here who go for long stretches without fapping walk around with a lot of confidence and masculine energy - I'll bet they'd stand out in a crowd... but I also wonder if when they do bed a girl, they're minute-men.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I stopped fapping for 2 weeks and I noticed more confidence less brain fog and more women flocking....I use to be badly addicting to fapping, I am a sex addict and I am one kinky dude. I just love women and if I see a girl in some yoga pants or leggings my mind wanders my legs shake and this made me not talk to the girls because I seemed so horny and needy so I would FAP. I am going on 3 days no fap.....after I messed up the 2 week no fapping

 

[Iceberg]

Hi,

Im just curious, did not fapping help you in order to get more girls?
Im reading all these opinions that proclaim that if you do not fap, your testosterone levels increase, and this makes you more sexually aggressive towards females, makes you more social...and that females perceive this so they 'like' you more and want to get close to you.


Thanks.

It always ends up with people talking about how it makes them "feel" better, but I rarely ever hear any stories about how it led to them acquiring a rotation of 3-4 girls.

 

[TheCWord]

It always ends up with people talking about how it makes them "feel" better, but I rarely ever hear any stories about how it led to them acquiring a rotation of 3-4 girls.

See, that's the thing. I scanned the No Fap thread in the DJ Tips section, all 5 pages of it - because I wanted to know the answer to my above question: doesn't this make for an embarrassingly brief performance when you're with a girl...

What I saw was a lot of posts about guys having wet dreams but none about the amazing sex they had with all the women they're picking up now.

P.S. I don't care who you are or how good you feel, having wet dreams after puberty is NOT okay.

 

[Gunner26]

I did it once the year before last for about 3 months - September through December as a fresher at university.

I didn't really feel any change, only a slight one after the end of the first week. I was pretty much the same throughout the period, I didn't have wet dreams as frequently as I thought either. Maybe I just have low levels of testosterone, who knows.

But yeah, I didn't really see the point in it. Although I can see the benefits of not going everyday, I try to go once a week these days, and I try not to wack to porn if I can help it.

Gunner

 

[mr. kennedy]

No fap lowers my sex drive so I started fapping again.

Each time I stop fapping for a period of time I feel I become asexual (no more sex drive, no more morning erection, etc.).

Maybe I'm different but no fapping did not work for me.

 

[TheCWord]

Maybe I'm different but no fapping did not work for me.

You could say, different "strokes" for different folks.

....I'll show myself out.

 

[VladPatton]

No fap lowers my sex drive so I started fapping again.

Each time I stop fapping for a period of time I feel I become asexual (no more sex drive, no more morning erection, etc.).

Maybe I'm different but no fapping did not work for me.

I agree with this, same for me. Otherwise, it is a placebo effect. You had a realization that fapping is bad for you and by not doing it you're thinking you're improving your life. All you're improving is the diameter of your nuts.

No fapping without a girl is like going on a diet while starving.

But hey, whatever works for ya.

 

[SeymourCake]

Yes. It makes you more aggressive and more outgoing.

Actually, I don't agree with it making you more aggressive. If you're becoming more aggressive, then I would think that is a withdrawal symptom. I gave up no fapping/no porn for 4 months now (and still going) and I am more cool calm collective and assertive. Then again, I release my aggression in the gym and I also meditate so I may be a different case.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Didnt wank for two months in a row, its great the first 3 weeks then I notice that libido goes down, even if I get a girl here and there the lack of stimulation from pornograpy have an effect.

My loads were bigger than usual but didnt have as many morning woods as usually.

I did the same experiment last summer by no porn no wank for 2 months and had the same result, I guess at least once a month you should take a day free.

From my experience the sweet spot is to fap once a month.

 

[HedoRick]

In my case, I have gotten laid more. I'm not saying that nofap is a magic pill or anything, but my aggression has gone up, and I go out and hit on more women, so therefore this "drive" gets me in front of more women, thus leading to more lays.

I do not advocate it as a cure all for approach anxiety, but in my particular case it seems to work. But your mileage may vary, as everyone has a different body chemistry.

 

[HedoRick]

Didnt wank for two months in a row, its great the first 3 weeks then I notice that libido goes down, even if I get a girl here and there the lack of stimulation from pornograpy have an effect.

My loads were bigger than usual but didnt have as many morning woods as usually.

I did the same experiment last summer by no porn no wank for 2 months and had the same result, I guess at least once a month you should take a day free.

From my experience the sweet spot is to fap once a month.

And I may try the once a month free day. There was a study done somewhere that after a week of NOFAP, your testosterone peaks and doesn't really get that much higher. So MAYBE every once in awhile it won't hurt things.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Your goal should be fvcking girls for months allthewhile inbetween the fvckings not mbing or rarely mbing (I mean like once a months tops).. It's the end-all be-all of supreme manhood, just only getting your release from the touch of a woman, cause you're kissing, you're touching, sucking t!tties, licking pvssy/ass, the works, you're extended on a plane of comfort with yourself always. You're a selfish beast, who licks his chops after a meal (sex with a woman, and NOT sex with your hand Godforbid).

 

[HedoRick]

"Ejaculation results from masturbating to the point of orgasm. According to a study published in the "Journal of Zhejiang University," ejaculation may set off a subtle hormonal cycle. Ejaculation that is followed by 6 days of abstinence may contribute to peak testosterone levels on the seventh day of after ejaculation. The Zhejiang University researchers discovered that abstaining from ejaculation for 6 days after orgasm has little effect on testosterone levels, but testosterone levels reached approximately 146 percent on the seventh day."