Did I make a mistake

[Jeremymichael]

Last night I was drinking in my local bar and socializing. There is a
girl who works there who I get on with. She buys me drinks and vice versa. Anyway at the end of the evening after we have played pool I gave her kiss on the head when leaving (pub was closing). Anyway this morning I feel silly to have done this. Do you
think this may put her off me, or is it possible it may arouse her?.I
was very drunk..

 

[dionysius_d]

Apparently kissing on the head is a no-no.. its patronizing for some.

If she likes you , you can try again.. aim better next time.

 

[squirrels]

Yeah... a kiss on the forehead...that's more something I'd expect for a parent-child relationship.

See if she'll call you "Daddy."

 

[Jeremymichael]

what should I say next time I see her?- feel stupid now

 

[MisterAl]

You might be OK. Next time you see her don't bring it up. Since you mention you "get on with" her, maybe she's waiting for a move from you. Hard to tell since you haven't mentioned her body language at all, and you say she works there. Get her digits if you don't have them and take her out somewhere that is not a bar or club.

When you kissed her on the head, did you have your arms around her like a hug, or was this just out-of-the-blue? Is she short?

I really like giving girls kisses on the top of the head because of the male-dominant role it suggests. I do this to my girl often.

I wouldn't use it on its own as a first move though and only after a kiss on the lips. I think it's especially nice to use during a good-bye hug.

 

[xblitz44x]

Relax, man. I kiss on the forehead. Who cares? If she likes you it won't make a difference. Think about it, if she kissed YOU on the forehead one night would you not want to fvck her anymore? Do what you want, when you want. Kissing her on the head won't increase or decrease her interest in you, but your attitude towards it will.

-Blitz

 

[Starman]

What about kissing the hand?

Ive done this a few times in a drunken slurrr

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Before you decide to go further, consider what would happen if something happened with this woman. Now consider it not working out. Now if that happened, would you still be able to go to that bar if she still worked there and the two of you were not on the best terms?

Just something to think about.

 

[Jeremymichael]

good point- can't help feeling a plonker though. Cute blonds have this effect on me. Hate waking up with a hangover, sun shining through the window, and that horrible sinking feeling of embarrasment. Still I will forget it happened. hope nobody saw me..

 

[becker]

I've done this before with the first GF that I ever had. We started seeing each other exclusively, and I didn't kiss her for like the entire 1st week that we were together, but I did kiss her on the forehead, do kino, all that other stuff. She was very religious and told me up front that no sex was going to happen between us because she wanted to wait until she was married.

Anyways, I made no moves, and one day apparently she couldn't take it anymore and kissed me, then after that, things just got more and more heated between us. She went from "no sex" to the point where all she wanted to do was screw around with me. I held myself back and we never had actual sex because I knew that with her background she would never let me break up with her peacefully, and that's what I wanted to do at the time because I just didn't think we were compatible. Good thing too, because it was hard enough getting her off my back with just the little that we did do. It would have been nice I guess sex-wise, but I was really looking for more.

I guess it can't be a bad thing all the time, so don't worry about the kiss on the forehead.