A bit of background:
I work as a musician and I'm supposed to play a piece with a female violnist in 10 days.
I got her number, but we chatted for a bit and she seemed to brag about herself: that's she's a fast learner, doesn't have any stage anxiety, won numerous competitions and so on
I kept it light and funny, but right when I was about to exit the room I said:
"Don't worry about the piece then, you'll need about 30mins. to learn it.....if you're really THAT good" in a joking manner.
She seemed a bit surprised by my response and said "Hey....I didn't say that!"
I wasn't trying to put her in her place, just didn't care much at that point. Was it ok on my part?
I work as a musician and I'm supposed to play a piece with a female violnist in 10 days.
I got her number, but we chatted for a bit and she seemed to brag about herself: that's she's a fast learner, doesn't have any stage anxiety, won numerous competitions and so on
I kept it light and funny, but right when I was about to exit the room I said:
"Don't worry about the piece then, you'll need about 30mins. to learn it.....if you're really THAT good" in a joking manner.
She seemed a bit surprised by my response and said "Hey....I didn't say that!"
I wasn't trying to put her in her place, just didn't care much at that point. Was it ok on my part?