So I'm feeling my lowest at the moment .. Last year I was made redundant and went self employed .. But that isn't working out so I'm now jobless back at my parents and not spinning many plates oh and I'm broke. At the age of 31 I don't things can get any worse. So really need to sort my life out ... Stuck in a rut.
Line up your problems and your stressors, and work on each one in a methodical fashion until you make progress. Without a job you need something to get you going. Try to get a job in a call center, they make around $12-$18/hr and get you into contact with large corporations.
For stress problems and confidence, it helps to start a workout regiment. Working out bleeds out stress and eats negativity. You will get a better body, and gain confidence in self.
Longer term plan to put you back into a proper career path.
Girls and females can wait, but it would be cool if you had a low stress friend who could occasionally provide conjugal priviledges and not use too much of your time.
Don't drink or smoke weed while you are in the hole. Work your way out.
If you gotta get a car, get like an older camry or Altima. You can spend $2000-$4000 and have reliable transportation to get you to and from work.
Don't spend too much time helping friends and relatives because you have "nothing" to do since you don't have a job.... Pepole will do that and use up all your time. Your job is looking for a job during the days.
While you are out, it's a great time to get in awesome physical shape. Plan your come back so that you are better than when you left off.
Do some productive reading on confidence, esteem, motivation and your business interests.
Put good food in your body.
