Democracy in action....

[dax]

Ok...everyone,....I've got the girl eating out of my hand, ....slept together, but it's been over a week, blah blah blah, and it's only been about a month and a half since we've been seeing each other....she's wearing me down, and I feel like a made an error, by telling her that I would be there for her if she needed me....blah blah....CRINGE! She came to my work today, and I told her that I would stop by and see her late tonight since we haven't seen each other for a while, but she didn't ask me too ( but she did ask last night) and I was busy...and she was like ok...kind of excited.....should I cancel without explanation or a phone call, just to keep her on her toes???????????? Sort of damage control for the I'll always be there line? Or should I show up tonight...(minding you I haven't talked to her the rest of today)....
What say you?

 

[WestCoaster]

Show up

You said you show up, do show up. A man's word should be honest and true. I haven't read anywhere on this site where lying is encouraged.

You're over-thinking everything, should I do this, I said this, she said that, what do I do? What you do is act instinctual. You said you'd be there, she was excited, show the f-ck up at her place.

Quit worrying about being over-AFC, you're not. You said you'd be there, show up. Be a man, that is being a man of your word.

If she's a b-tch and is playing games, that's a different issue. Doesn't sound like she is. There's keeping a gal on her toes and there's being honest.

Take it from some who has been stood up way too many times in my life -- it's not fun. Don't be a pr-ck, be a MAN. Show up and be glad you're there. If you're showing up every night, that's another thing. You're not.

Be a man of your word ... which is usually not encouraged by a bunch of alleged PUA's on this board who are guaranteed to be future married AFCs, like 99.9 of most PUAs in this world.

Stay true.

 

[dax]

Appreciate the words...I AM AN HONEST MAN...and I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....

 

[manuva]

Originally posted by dax
I will show up...with a six-pack in hand....

Of condoms I hope...