Defeating the "Girls Night Out" Pack

Grey Fox

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You know what I'm talking about, there's a group of them in every bar. They have watched way to much "Sex in the City" and they are on a "Girls Night Out." Normally you would aviod them all together, too much liability and trouble for you to contemplate. Seperate they're nothing you can't handle, but as a group they'll work against you. You know its a shame cause a couple of those girls in that group turn out to be quiet attractive.

Now whats the greatest obstacle success when dealing with this pack of women. Its quiet simple, numbers. You'd never play 5 on 1 basketball because you know'll lose everytime. Those 5 oppenets don't have to be the 1992 Chicago Bulls, just 5 people are enough to through up obstacles and other forms of harassment to keep you from sinking an easy basket. So to even the odds you draft your own team to even the numbers and odds.

So here is what you do, the next time your with some friends in a bar and you spot a pack on a "Girls Night Out." You all decide who gets what girl to work on, if there is an ugly one to deal with draw straws or buy your friend a couple of free beers. But whatever you do its important that you not double or triple team a girl cause you know what happens to AFC when they try it. With every girl occupied they can't be busy with trying to derail your efforts or that of your friends, so it will be easier for you to get her digits for later. Oh and if your in a situation where its say 5 of you and 6 of them, ignore the hottest girl. Sounds crazy, but think about it, she probably gets all the attention when they normally go out. Women can be jealous little creatures, so when the hot one gets ignored for the first time in her life her friends aren't gonna come running to her aid, cause for once they are getting the attention they "deserve."(Sides the hot one's need to be taken down a peg every once and awhile for everyone's own good.)

Well I've tried to cover it as best I can, nothing is perfect but I thought it was worth sharing an insight I had.

Grey Fox
 

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Go over and talk to them by yourself. They'll think you have balls because you weren't afraid to approach a whole bunch of them. Then slowly introduce them to one or two of your friends. If you go over "5 on 5" it'll look like a planned ambush, not spontaneous. Not saying it will surely end up in a bust but I would go up and talk to the bunch of them. Ask them what they're talking about. :eek:
 

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Dude.....these hot girls that run in packs are usually strippers that are bi sexual and will only open themselves up to guys that they really want.. or just hot chics that chill together.....they get off playing the guys in the bar ...they love the attention and power of all the horny dudes checking them out...Check to see who they are looking at..what kind of guys ..etc...that will give you the info yo need..
 

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I have found, going solo, the way to infiltrate groups is to get in with one, because once you get in with one, you are in with them all. Go light a girl's cigarette, for example, and then do your thing.
 

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Solo is the way to go, at least initially. A group of women will get very defensive if you approach in a group, but they'll more easily dismiss the "threat" of a lone wolf. Just start by dealing with them purely as a group, and then give each of them equal amounts of individual attention. If one seems to be into you more than the others, start focusing more on a different one (or, if she's the ugly one, just humor her). Likewise, if there's one in particular you really want, give her the least attention. Women are naturally competitive when it comes to guys; use this to your advantage.
 

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I was thinking about this topic last night. I posted my true feelings above but I did think of a way the "5 on 5" approach might work: If you all go over at the same time and each begin talking with one of the girls individually. If each of you occupy one girl's attention, I can see it working out. The way I pictured it from your post was going over all 5 of you and one of you begin a conversation with the 5 girls. Anyway I still think the best way is solo, then you can choose which one you like best after talking with them for a bit. :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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approach one at a time, if theres 2 or 3 of me and my mates out, sometimes one of us will just spontaneously go over and chat to some girls in a group. Once we've seen that hes not been ignored completely we'll turn up and join the conversation, then you just see where it goes, sometimes you end up having a big group discussion (fine just remember to approach one of the girls singly later on) and other times some of you seem to pair up, you've just got to watch for if theres a girl getting no attention and give her some occasionally otherwise she'll try and drag her mates away.
 

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Originally posted by MrNiceGuy
approach one at a time, if theres 2 or 3 of me and my mates out, sometimes one of us will just spontaneously go over and chat to some girls in a group. Once we've seen that hes not been ignored completely we'll turn up and join the conversation, then you just see where it goes, sometimes you end up having a big group discussion (fine just remember to approach one of the girls singly later on) and other times some of you seem to pair up, you've just got to watch for if theres a girl getting no attention and give her some occasionally otherwise she'll try and drag her mates away.
This guys got it on the nose. :D
 
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