Deciphering the mind of a woman

[Fatal Jay]

I use to hear that a woman mind is too complicated to understand, is that true or pure horse$hit? I feel like the mind of a man is more advance then a woman that's how the creator designed us men to lead the woman, so how have we lost touch of this, how did we become afc in the first place when naturally we are suppose to be the ones that can decipher the good ones from the bad?

I was inspired by one of brads post, because he f@cking narrowed down women into two types, givers and takers and if you sit back and think, in the end that's very true, maybe we are the last guys on the planet who are still using there brains against these women, and using the knowledge to our advantage, I mean since I been on this board I have sharpen my skills I can see signs and red flags and it makes me laugh because I'm thinking there are not complicated at all in fact most are very simple to understand and the ones who jump from **** to **** destroy themselves in the end.

Your opinions please.

 

[Voice]

STOP trying to logically figure out the mind of a woman. They aren't logical, they are driven by their emotions. When you consciously or subconsciously know how to play with these emotions THEN you have the upper hand. Even then they can be completely unpredictable.

In terms of attraction I think Pook has the right idea. Just be a man and don't give 2 fvcks about "understanding the mind of a woman". If you are trying to logically figure out woman then you are doing it wrong.

 

[Fatal Jay]

you didn't even read my thread

I said decipher not understand,which I mean seeing the signs and flags which is not hard at all to see

women are simple, because the good and the bad always do the same things and its not at all hard to figure out

their are signs within a first day if you know a chick is interested or not

 

[Bokanovsky]

I use to hear that a woman mind is too complicated to understand, is that true or pure horse$hit? I feel like the mind of a man is more advance then a woman that's how the creator designed us men to lead the woman, so how have we lost touch of this, how did we become afc in the first place when naturally we are suppose to be the ones that can decipher the good ones from the bad?

The premise of your question is wrong. A woman's mind is hard to decipher, that much is true, but not because it's more "advanced" than a man's mind. Women are emotional and prone to acting in an irrational manner, which makes it impossible to analyze their behavior through rational thought.

 

[penkitten]

its all horse **** jay.
we spend our whole lives trying to figure out your mindsets too.
when in fact, some people are smarter than others, some are more emotional than others, but for the most part... no one is too complicated in the end.
don't worry so much about what goes on in the mind of anyone else. it is not worth the trouble.

 

[Fatal Jay]

i see your guys points

 

[SgtSplacker]

Wanna know how a woman thinks?

Try this:

Think of how you think of women....

Remove sex drive, and consider it like a massage. Not really necessary but fun to do. Don't you love a good masseuse? You like playing video games but your not addicted to them right? Kinda be addicted to massage=sex... but wait massages are only for the opposite sex. Man but they feel so good! And this person wants to give you massages. Well maybe if nobody is looking it's ok.

Now look at her like as if you were interviewing a potential parent (opposite sex) as if you were an orphan (relatively young) or something but you did all the picking.

Want your parent to be fun right? and cool?
Don't ever wan't to see them compromised in any way right?
They need to have money so you can do fun stuff right?
Don't want some wimpy person leading your house hold right?
Wouldn't it be cool if they wanted to massage you all the time right? What a connection!
But not too much, that's a little creepy right? and bothersome! Give me some space! But I still wan't to be #1 tho!!!!
If you see them among their peers they have to be accepted by them also right? Don't wan't some looser parent right? Anyways you are not a very good judge of character so it helps if everyone accepts them as proof of their coolness.

Now this parent is going to kinda control your life a bit after you pick them by making decisions for you. So you definitely want someone you look up too. Maybe someone you think is so cool and attractive you are just drawn to their charisma for some reason. I mean you are not gay but if you could chill with this person a little bit more you would definitely be able to pick up some cool points right? Remember the coolest dude in HS? everything they did was funny. Man so and so is a trip! kinda like that. They can almost do no wrong...

But waitaminute! your friends have to like them too though! Why not!? They have to fit into your life perfectly... well almost perfect. If they liked the same sports as you, well that would be a plus!

Now you definitely don't wan't some boring parent that's going to be tripping on your homework all night, they have to be cool but functional. And definitely not uptight... hmm cool but not so much to be a member of a biker gang or something. Someone that will smoke a little herb but not be doing coke all weekend sounds perfect.

OK i'm a horrible judge of character, but I have to pick a parent! WHAT DO? Well from looking at all the other orphans they seem to all like this one parent over there. Whatever they look cool enough, they have iphones I mean WTF!? right? They will do!

Now consider that women are much more capable of accepting someone to order them around. All our lives we have been taught to stand up for ourselves. Well just forget about that for now. Lets just say that it's cool to be ordered around but we want to find the right person to do it. Try to wrap your head around that.

Woman mind!

How I see it at least...

I'm tired of writing anyways I hope you get the picture...

 

[Mike32ct]

Not to be blunt, but its pure horse$hit, its really easy to figure them out. The way you figure them out is to hang out with them.

I'm on this camp.

I think it takes a little longer to understand women because they are more complicated, but it's not that hard. They can be understood.

Overall, I don't think women are that hard to figure out.

I might not agree with 70% of what they do, but if I look at the whole picture, I can see why they do things.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

The problem most guys have when trying to understand women, is that they try and relate to them like their men. But having conversations with women is completely different from men because the way in which their brains make them respond to stuff, as well as their responses, is different from men.

Perfect example: when a man is going through something, he's more likely to want to spend time alone, really concentrate on the problem, and try to fix it as soon as possible. Meanwhile, women will do the opposite: they will find friends so they can talk about the problem, and don't really care if they find a solution at the moment, so long as they FEEL that someone else understood what they were going through.

Learning how the female mind works is like taking a language course. If you've ever taken Spanish, for example, it can be quite daunting to understand everything when you first start taking it. "Hola" and "hello" are the same thing?? Get the heck outta here!! BUT, the more time you spend really understanding the connections between their language and your language, the easier it is to decipher what's being said. And, even if you can't fully understand a Spanish conversation, you get to the point where you can get the gist of what's being said, even if you don't understand every single thing coming out their mouth.

And so it is with women. They have a different way of doing things at times, but once you've been around women enough, studied up the whys and hows behind their thinking patterns and rationales, and - most importantly - learn to stop taking how women treat/react to you so personally, you'll be able to understand how they function and proceed accordingly.

Hope this helps!

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Just some things I've come to believe about how woman think (differently from men).


Women are more emotional than men. This most men and women will admit. This doesn't mean women fail at using logic, it is just that feelings come first.


As a corollary to the first, one thing that frustrates men about women is that they treat emotions as information and knowledge.


So, as they say, don't change her mind, change her feelings.


In terms of dating, girls just want to have fun. Be fun and be interesting...as both spike emotions.


Women establish relationships through conversation, sharing ideas, feelings, etc. So, in interacting with them, you cannot get them attracted through discussing facts or abstract philosophies.


One thing I first found distressing about women when I first thought of it but over time it has actually helped me in seduction, is that most women never mature past the teenage stage. Yes, they get more experience as they age, but at core they are all little girls at heart. Treat them as such. Tease them. Make them giggle. Don't take them seriously. Always think about this when interacting with hot girls and your nervousness drops, they get turned on, and your confidence goes up. Women will hate to read something like that, but experience says it's true (watch a good seducer or guy the chicks dig...he'll tease them all the time and they will giggle like school girls).


But the flip side to them being like little girls is the myth of their emotional maturity. They are not emotionally mature. They act on whims. Just read up about girls cheating on their boyfriends on this forum.


Women are not as intellectually curious as men. Studying hard and thinking deep are not fun or easy. Hot women--many of them at least--have the world handed to them and are not accustomed to having to work hard for what they have. The problem, of course, is that intellectual guys don't turn most women on. So, in seduction, leave the high-flying smart-talk at home.


The hamster. Women feel, act, then rationalize said behavior. If the action made no sense, neither will the explanation of it. This is why they seem so illogical to us. Stop trying to decipher women as if they are guys with different sex organs.


Lacking the ability to physically overpower most men, women specialize in what is available: overpowering men with sex appeal, emotion, and the mind. They invented game and know it instinctively. Us men are about 10,000 years behind.


How to deal with them? Don't worship their looks. Don't act stunned by their sexinessness. Talk to them like they are your bratty little sister. Look them in their eye like you are the boss and they the employee. Don't fall for emotional outbursts. Never overreact. Remain calm and in control of your emotions. Feed them good feelings when necessary.

 

[Fatal Jay]

Not to be blunt, but its pure horse$hit, its really easy to figure them out. The way you figure them out is to hang out with them. Have female friends and it will start to click how the majority of them think and the feminine vibe they exude.

that was my point in this thread, that even the hot ones are simple, all of them good or bad hot or ugly, all have the same ways of thinking same actions.

the ugly ones have their ways of thinking, and same for the hotties they have their ways, and both are not complicated.

 

[Voice]

that was my point in this thread, that even the hot ones are simple, all of them good or bad hot or ugly, all have the same ways of thinking same actions.

the ugly ones have their ways of thinking, and same for the hotties they have their ways, and both are not complicated.

In my experience, if they already like you then they may only SEEM to be much less complicated. I could fart in front of my girlfriend and she would think it's the cutest thing ever. In other words I think you're kind of saying "It's easy man just be likeable". The problem is the majority of guys don't know how to be likable hence message boards like this one. Personally I've just given up on trying to figure girls out and have just focused on getting what I want.

Ask any guy who has been married over 10 years and he would disagree that women are simple and easier to decipher.

 

[pdx1138]

STOP trying to logically figure out the mind of a woman. They aren't logical, they are driven by their emotions. When you consciously or subconsciously know how to play with these emotions THEN you have the upper hand. Even then they can be completely unpredictable.

+1

Trying to decipher the mind of a creature driven by emotions is like deciphering quantum equations.
Your head will spin trying it.

However, if you know what to look for the behavior is quite predictable. (as others said and especially what HalfPUAHalfAFC said)
A BPD ex of mine, the last year of our seeing each other I could predict when she would call me and want it
and when she would be distant and cruel, with high accuracy.

I got a HUGE kick out of that.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Women are not complicated at all. They just lack morals and honesty when it comes to relationships with men.

Women know its not in their best interest for men to understand them too well. Knowledge is power. Women are deliberately confusing and wishy-washy with men to keep control in the relationships. Its really that simple.

Women either want men for sex or a relationship. If she just wants you for sex she will bang you right away and move on with her life. She might come back occasionally for more sex, but she will stay emotionally detached.

If she wants a relationships she will try to make sure she can control you and claim you. She will try to break you down and build you up so you see her as better than all the other women. The best you can get.

Ironically.. if she gets too much control, she loses all interest.

Also, women will attack behavior they participate in to show you off. They will say how they hate "games" and "lies" and "cheating" when they participate in all three.

Understand that women are rarely honest and you will not be confused anymore.