Dealing with Poor Attitudes

[Uncharted]

Women are moody and sometimes I don't want to deal with it.

This happened last night. I picked up the girl I've been dating for a few weeks. In the car she starts complaining about her job and some other stuff with people she works with. I interrupted her:

Me: Look, I wanted to have a fun night with you - but if you're going to be like this then I'll just drop you off and go home.
Girl: Oh. Sorry. I'm done complaining.

Then we had a great night and she was her normal flirty self. I was really just not in the mood to hear her sh!t. The old me would have sat there and listened and said "oh that sucks" because I would be worried that telling her off would lose her.

I've noticed that when I do this early in the relationship, girls know that I expect them to be in a better mood and minimize the complaining.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

Well handled.

The types that constantly complain like that almost every time you see them aren't worth the trouble. They'll bad mouth co workers, classmates, and friends about the most trivial things. Then they'll broadcast personal conflicts on social media to stir up more drama. Any problems they have with their boyfriend will get told to the very friends she loves to b*tch about.

Hopefully she's not like this, but just be careful.

 

[Stugots26]

That which you fear, you attract. These women with bad attitudes create self-fulfilling prophecies.

Women are made bitter by previous encounters with men, and so they fear future such encounters with men. So they start to treat future men like the men who have not treated them how they wanted to be treated in the past, and are shocked when the reactions of these future men seems to prove their bitter views of men in line with the treatment by previous men. They come to resent men and male sexuality.

Women with great attitudes want men to be men and love male sexuality. They don't lump all men together with a misandrist attitude, and thus get the best men have to offer. This is because they don't act on their fears and insecurities about what mistreatment they might get from future men based on past encounters.

Oh yeah, and the trick to dealing with poor attitudes is not to deal with them. You screen out a lot of the bad attitudes by taking hardline stances and setting boundaries on how much you'll extend yourself in pursuit of a woman. Women with bad attitudes will not swallow their pride and will probably be more likely to expect to be chased or pursued. Women with good attitudes will understand that a man is not expected to chase or pursued and that they'd actually be repelled by such behavior, so they are more willing to pursue themselves.

Women with good attitudes actually understand themselves and women better than women with bad attitudes.