Hoping some of you guys can help me here deal with a girl who is being a little flaky to say the least! We were meant to get together and do something on the weekend but about 6 hours before our date she txted me some lame excuse about having to do some stuff for college.
This girl was the one who wanted us to get together and she suggested it when we saw each other the weekend previous. When I try to organise something she is the one who flakes out of it.
We have both been seeing other people - I know she is seeing another guy but she has no idea I have been seeing another girl. I am betting she spent the weekend with the guy she is seeing and therefore had to flake on me as a result. Plus someone local saw me with this other girl on the weekend so no doubt she will find out I have been seeing someone else as well as pursuing her soon.
Obviously there are some big time games at play here with both of us. I know I have a huge advantage as the guy she is seeing lives so far away.
Any advice on what action to take here? How do I get control of this situation and make her pursue me?
This girl was the one who wanted us to get together and she suggested it when we saw each other the weekend previous. When I try to organise something she is the one who flakes out of it.
We have both been seeing other people - I know she is seeing another guy but she has no idea I have been seeing another girl. I am betting she spent the weekend with the guy she is seeing and therefore had to flake on me as a result. Plus someone local saw me with this other girl on the weekend so no doubt she will find out I have been seeing someone else as well as pursuing her soon.
Obviously there are some big time games at play here with both of us. I know I have a huge advantage as the guy she is seeing lives so far away.
Any advice on what action to take here? How do I get control of this situation and make her pursue me?