Dealing with Ex. . . Check this situation out.....

guambombO

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Hey all. . .

So about 3 weeks ago, I left for a different state for a great job. During this, my GF broke up with me once but then decided to stick with me, (we've been off and on for 11 1/2 months). 2 weeks into it she breaks up with me saying that we just arent working out. Recently shes been hanging out with a friend of mine, we're not close friends but you catch my drift. They have spent evryday together but she swears that she has no feelings for him. He calls her every 5 minutes, tells her he likes her soooo much, buys her things. She seems to be loving it. She told me she pecked him because he asked if he could kiss her.

We broke up 3 months ago because she found out I went to a strip club without telling her and I was talking to other girls.

Keep in mind, this guy acts afc but has had sex with a few different girls, he comes off nice but all he wants is in her pants.

My Ex is an attention *****, she loves the attention he gives her but goes up and down when I ask if she likes him.

Would do I do to get her back? The more I appear busy, the more she turns to him for attention. I will be gone for about one more month but I see her on weekends. She spend the whole week with him. She even went clubbing with him and her friends last night.

Im not appearing jelous, she had sex with me on my first night back. But it bothers me you know. I dont want to be one of the guys shes juggling around. Help a brother out, thanks!
 

Krassus

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guambombO said:
Would do I do to get her back?
I can't believe that this is what you said after everything you wrote about her. What the fvck is wrong with you? Grab your shoes and RUN LIKE HELL! Why would you want to get back a chick who keeps dumping you? This is... beyond words. Jesus christ, grow some balls brother!
 

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Laws:

1. Forget the exes and female friends. Common sense says it’s easier to kindle the flame with a friend, or re-kindle it with an ex, than meet and attract a woman who is a total stranger . . . well common sense is dead wrong! Real experience shows that once a woman has decided you are not relationship material, a switch is thrown in her mind. It can’t be changed back. Starting over with a stranger is vastly easier, in fact.
 

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Why don't you accept it rather than fight it.....

Ignorance is bliss.... just let it happen.. Be the non-AFC guy that she has always dreamed of and she will always drop the loser AFC attention giver and come running to the airport to reunite with her lover...

Of course, I'd only use her for sex.... go find some other chick...
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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