Dealing with doubts about your girl cheating on you

[wifehunter]

TLDR

Your doubts are real. Most women are conditioned to think that cheating is ok. Welcome to to this fukked up evil world. Enjoy your stay.

 

[Billtx49]

TLDR

Your doubts are real. Most women are conditioned to think that cheating is ok. Welcome to to this fukked up evil world. Enjoy your stay.

Yes, when it gets to the point that a man has doubts about her, with usually 3 or more consecutive occurrences over a decent amount of time as his trigger, it’s usually a serious decline in her interest level or possibly cheating. If it happens, he’s in gut check territory until a resolution of some type emerges or he preemptively ejects…

 

[Epic Days]

Usually, if you suspect a woman of cheating on you, it's because of how she treats you. So, what you should ask yourself is whether her behavior is acceptable, as long as she isn't cheating. If the answer is NO, then delving into whether she is or isn't cheating is a huge waste of time.

If it's a pattern of disrespect, over multiple relationships, the problem is probably the guy you see when you shave. Millions of parents have discipline problems with their children, but if the kids act like angels at home and terrorists at school, or vice versa, the problem is probably not a defective kid. Likewise, if your woman has tranformed from a goddess to a demon, you might need to consult the operator's manual, before you pick up a replacement model.

This is intuitive but the truth is actually counterintuitive. She starts disrespecting you AFTER she has cheated or is going to cheat. She is creating a justification for what she’s done or planning on doing.

She’s already not yours. She gone. Trying to hang onto her trying to prevent her from cheating or bouncing is a drill in futility. She’s in charge already and it means you have work to do. The desire is gone and it’s never coming back unless you kick her to the curb like a mongrel.

That’s if you feel you need a girlfriend which is the actual cause of the whole thing with the OP. That alone is naive and incredibly dense.