Control takes many forms
If its unreasonable requests then i Laugh. I always laugh at something i think is unreasonable. I then repeat back what they asked me to do and then tap on at the end, what do you take me for/ do you think im crazy? / i thought slavery was abolished years ago. Or something like awww, you clearly dont know me very well if you think imma going to do that. Or even, heeyyy i never knew you started a career in stand up comedy, your really good! Then there's always the counter to anything unreasonable to ask hey whats in it for me. You can even cuss them out. If it's in a silly fun way, you always get away with it. She knows she cant push you around, and you dont get into a fight either.