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dealing with ****blocking

volkme68

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How do you deal with ****blocking when it is more passive and under the radar? I can deal with it when it is right up in your face or guys try to AMOG me. I have trouble when it is more soubtle though, like when a guy will come up to your target and just rub her back and be friendly to you. Or when they just won't leave you alone. If you confront the person, it seems to the girl like your a jealous guy or making something out of nothing. If you just let the guy go, you don't get any. What are your methods and techniques for dealing with this?
 

daygameguy

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If the guy comes in AFTER you have already attracted her - she gave you IOIs and you feel like she likes you - then you can simply acknowledge the guy, and TELL the girl to follow you, and MOVE her away to some private location. He won't have time to attract the girl, and she won't have time to think twice, and since she likes you already, she will most likely join you. He will feel like a tool.

If the guy comes in DURING your attraction game, then you will need to lower his authority by showing that you are more high value, and more interesting and more charismatic than him. It will be an uphill battle if he is more good looking and charming than you are, but use some AMOG tactics, or Mystery's group theory (neg the target, DHV to the guy, isolate the target)

Night game can be pretty tough sometimes because of these unwanted interruptions in your game. Day game ftw! ;)
 

volkme68

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well here is my situation: me and my roommate had a girl apiece over. both girls are friends with us and each other, but definitely open to more. We were just playing drinking games and the like. My other room mate comes back to the apartment and has a half dozen other guys who are common friends with him. One of them is drunk and won't leave my girl alone. he is just being there kinda creepy like. He wasn't even trying to hook up with her as much as just being in the way and making her feel wierd and not willing to put out. He is a good friend and he didnt realize what he was doing and I am always about bros before hoes. Plus, my experience with similar situatiions is that when you AMOG a guy in that situation it comes off really ****y (not confident) and toolish. What would you do?
 

volkme68

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yeah that would be good if the shindig wasn't at my apartment and neither one of us can drive to her place. any other ideas?
 

JDA70

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I know you are all about bros before hoes
but that was your girl and he was drunk and
being weird. You got to be alpha and confront
people on thier behavior.

I would have pulled him aside and said
" I'm trying to hook up with that girl
and your not making it any eaiser by the way your
acting." " Back off a bit." " I'd do it for you." :)
 

cockerdumbnuts

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yeah, my roomie trys to throw the bro's before hoes at me all the time. A lot of the time its bs. I just tell him, "yeah, bro's before hoes. So help your bro get some pvssy."
 

Bluesteak

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I had a "friend" say bros before hoes before and it turned out to be total bull****, he made out with the girl I was gaming and blamed it on him being drunk
I let him off easy but I should have kicked his ass
 
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