I don't want to "next" her as there are alot of good qualities she has however I need to sit her down and explain to her that:
1. I'm not there for her all the time. I have my own life.
2. Not to use emotional blackmail to get her own way. She uses the b.s. line of me not being as in to her as I was before hand when I don't do what she wants like talking on the phone at night.
I'm just planning to lay down the law and let the chips fall where they will. If she can't handle that then so be it.
Do you think this is the best strategy or is this perhaps a bit too far?
1. I'm not there for her all the time. I have my own life.
2. Not to use emotional blackmail to get her own way. She uses the b.s. line of me not being as in to her as I was before hand when I don't do what she wants like talking on the phone at night.
I'm just planning to lay down the law and let the chips fall where they will. If she can't handle that then so be it.
Do you think this is the best strategy or is this perhaps a bit too far?