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I remember when some fat chick around my college apartment started asking me stuff - and being cordial, I answered - and then she just brought out the IHAB line. I'm like WTF you cow?This is why you always question the IHAB line and use a boyfriend destroyer line. A lot of times, the boyfriend is fictional or the woman is unhappy in the relationship. It is astounding that she froze and made up a boyfriend when she actually didn't have one.
Why did she IHAB when she was fat and you weren't into fat women? This is why not to be a nice guy.I remember when some fat chick around my college apartment started asking me stuff - and being cordial, I answered - and then she just brought out the IHAB line. I'm like WTF you cow?
Till this day, I have no idea; perhaps she was playing a game trying to get me interested?Why did she IHAB when she was fat and you weren't into fat women? This is why not to be a nice guy.
Avoid singles events....most of my macking has been done at singles or near-singles events
I've had a much better success ratio at structured (or somewhat-structured) singles events than bars. I think it is because when a woman goes to a singles event, she realizes that she can't be as picky as she's been, and so she has a higher level of tolerance for short men. I have always been hopelessly HeightMogged at bars.Avoid singles events....
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Are Structured Singles Events a Waste of Time?
Mostly every unattached person has dealt with this. The potential invitation to a "singles event" or "singles mixer". It is a chance for unattached people to meet. It's not a general night out at a bar, which has unattached people interspersed with attached people. Everyone here is unattached by...www.sosuave.net
Going to regular bars is better than going to singles events.
In my experience, women at singles events have been equally fussy as any other real life venue. Maybe less fussy than a swipe app.I think it is because when a woman goes to a singles event, she realizes that she can't be as picky as she's been, and so she has a higher level of tolerance for short men.
You would be the shortest man at most bars most nights. Top tier men generally wouldn't waste their time at a singles event.I have always been hopelessly HeightMogged at bars.![]()
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And yes, singles events are much more sparse with decently attractive women, but that's an advantage as it keeps Chad away.