DaVinci's Steps to a better Don Juan

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Da Vinci

Leonardo Da Vinci was the Greatest mind of our time. Although he has nothing to do with women, he shows us a part of being a DJ that women don't. It has been said countless times that a Dj is not only being a Pick Up Artist but having a life. DaVinci like any Dj should knew a little of everything and a lot about a little.

He developed a shadow that is so deep and long that almost no man can fill it.

Although you might say, "but, DaVinci, knowing science and art don't get women."

Lets take another Example of a famous mind. Einstien. Marilyn Monroe said once he was the sexiest man she knew.

Take a look at Einstien... Does he look like a ladies man. Is his shirt bulding out with muscles. How bout his hair. Does it look like a hundred dollar doo,.. NO. So what can this man have that you don't. He has a goal, a motive, but more importantly a flame.

This same flame DaVinci had. It's the falme of a goal to be the best a man can be, the flame of creation, the flame of life.

This flame has so many names. This flame is what a true DJ should seek. Not women. But a purpose and a goal, and most importantly a life.
 

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A DJ Does not Obsess

Obsession is not just oneitis but food, exercise, drugs, gambling, anger, and all of the above.

A DJ should learn to avoid these. Some take Will power some take groups(AA, Rehab, Anger Managment) some take pills. You need to learn to cure them on your own.

"But, Whats so bad about getting angry once and a while?"

Absoulutly nothing. Anger is an expression of feelings. It's good for you. Drugs can be fun, eating is healty. But whats bad is taking these things to an exteme.

When You gamble away your house. Or you can explode and get into a fight over nothing.

Now you recognize those above. You think You'd realize your problem, right? Did you realize you were obsessed with a girl? Or did it take a beating into you when you came here?

"So how are we supposed to realize were obsessed"

1. You think about it more then three times a day every day of the week every week of the year.
2. People tell you your obsessed or hint that you are.
3. Search your soul and really think if your obsessed and is it harming your life.

Now there is a fine line between obsession and such things as hobbies. The line is divided between and obsession, something that controls your life to the point of harm, and hobbies, something that you enjoy doing but does not control your life or bring harm to you.

It's very hard to explain this. But you have to watch out for it. It's very easy to become obsessed and some people have addictive personalities. Here is a common list of obsessions.

Drugs(yes even weed)
Exercise
Anger
Vengence
Money(Job)
Family
Sports
Video Games
Alcohol
Eating
Dieting(Anerexic, Bulimic, Extreme Dieting)
Vainity
Gambling
Women

There are thousands more.
 

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Things can be taken too far though, mind the balance. It's not a whole lot of fun to fall into an austere and abnegated eschewing of women for the purpose of furthering gestation of your mental maggots. Being an ascetic may feel pious, though I am not really sure it is the way to go for all people.

I am uncertain of the benifits of fostering the 'flame' of creation for women (plural), but I am pretty sure that there is no spark quite like that ONE woman (singular) to light a conflagration fulgent like no other.
 

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Motivation

MOTIVATION 101

"I have run out of ways to fail; now I can only succeed!!!" -Rx

MUST READ

GET OUT OF THAT D*MN COMFORT ZONE

Hmmm.... So What do you want to remember???

But She's a Percfect Girl.... Right?

Whats this Suave DJ you want me to be???

Sooo.... How do I become this 'Don Juan' You talk of???

But I'm sooo Afraid of asking her out

Be STRONG and Don't halter

Sooo DJ Means a Jerk???

Hmmm... But Women are so Complex ...

A little Bathroom Reading

So What should I do now???

Take Action... But how???

Read This and be off on Your Don Juaning Ways...

Now that you've read that read this Rx....

1. Exercise and give yourself goals to meet every week.

2. Approach girls more often (even try Crash & Burn).

3. Write down 3 impressive things you do every day to remind yourself that you're the sh!t and any girl should be so fortunate to even have her presence known around you.

4. Make changes in your appearance that will attract (positive) attention. New haircut or new clothes works.

5. Smile more often.

6. Go on a diet.

7. Classical conditioning.

8. Limit masturbating.

9. Limit fantasizing about girls.

10. Stop watching pornography.

11. Never, ever boast about your sexual conquests.

12. Take dancing/martial arts lessons.

13. Never, ever allow envy to corrupt your perception of things.

14. Stop thinking about women all the time.

15. Stop reading what others brag about with women or learn to genuinely praise them without feelings of self-pity.

16. Eat more fruits.

17. Eat more vegetables.

18. Stop being selfish.

19. Become optimistic.

20. Stop touching your face (ACNE!).

21. Sing to music instead of listening to it.

22. Take a shower and sing.

23. Dance to music.

24. Learn to laugh at yourself.

25. Take insults with a grain of salt.

26. Instead of thinking "What If" all the time, DO IT instead sometmes.

27. Surround yourself with allies (friends, family) more often.

You'll be surprised to find all of these things will make you feel better. I didn't elaborate on any of these points because I felt it was unnecessary. If you don't understand the scientific background behind it, just do it anyways. All of the points are known ways to improve your confidence on a spiritual, emotional, physical and mental level. Do most of these and try to deny the power of improvement...

If anyone has any points to add to the list, please do so
 
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The Ultimate Thread

DV Rules,Virtues, and Links

.................................................................Golden Rule.....................................................................
............................................~Alpha~ A Don Juan Does Not Obsess ~Omega~ .....................................

____1. A Don Juan is free from others opinions and choices
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does listen and weigh other points of view
Exp......II. A DJ. can always explain and back up his position and is not pigheaded.
Exp.....III. A DJ. realizes he is not always right and is willing to admit and accept when he is wrong

____2. A Don Juan does not take an answer unless he himself wants or accpets that as an answer
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does what he wants with no fear of the outcome
Exp......II. A DJ does not do something blindsighted. He first realizes and weighs the consequences

____3. A Don Juan does not munipulate to hurt nor fear being hurt himself.
Exp.......I. A DJ. Does not avoid hurting others but does not do so as a main pupose of an action as shows obsession
____4. A Don Juans focus on life and lets the women follow.
Exp.......I. A DJ does not obsess with life so much that women can not fit in
____5. A Don Juan knows a little about a lot and a lot about a few things.

What is A DV???
 
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Virtues.

Comletion
A DJ. is complete without any pysical objects, including but not excluded to women, money, and property.

Celebacy
A DJ is recomened to complete an act of celebacy. Though not necissarily life-long, the act is used to provide a DJ with the power to seperate pysical and primal lusts and need from more important ones.

Mirror a Child
A DJ should mirror a child in there playful, spontaneous, creative, and equal love for everyone.

Choice
A DJ must be free to express his own choice. He must be seperate from the main media and fasions. Though he may follow and act on them, he must not rely on them.

Good Being
A DJ must not only posess but want a good being and to be healthy mentally with confidence and psyically with strength
 

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Step 1...

Shyness

Beat Self-Conciousness

The BrainWash Technique

Mr. Fingers.... Must I say more?

Some Tips

I'm running out of stuff to title these. :eek:

The Road To a Better Voice

Got the St-St-Stutterin Bug. - Thanks To Mercenary

A Book For Your Voice?

Again With The Fingers

Instilling that Confidence
*WARNING* I must tell you in advance all the advice you recieve here is a placebo. It boosts your confidence. You already have the DJ in you. You just need some confidence to bring it out. That being said. Here you are. *WARNING*

Pook

Eye Contact. Baby Steps

The Science of DJ

If You Don't take a shot. You Miss 100% of the time

An open Palm will make you feel like doing something

Well Ladies and Gents Pretty Much... You Gotta have FAITH... Yeah I said You gotta have FAITH.. Sing it with me now...you gotta have...FAITH

BoyScoutt Modo... Be Prepared

PUA theroy.

The Final Word on Confidence


Here's a Kick in the As*. Now go Out there and put this shi* into action

Like I said Get The F*CK out there


A Quick Word From our Sponser

Here are a few tips you can use to make your life easier when it comes to confronting girls:

1. When you first meet a girl, try to make eye contact with her. When she looks at you, give her a nice, casual smile. Her reaction to this is what can determine whether she is approachable or not.

GOOD


smiles back

looks down then away

subtely opens up (brushes hair from face, unbuttons jacket, uncrosses arms, leans forward, etc.)

tilts head

increases blinking rate

BAD


immediately looks away

turns her head at all

subtely closes up (usually happens with girls who already have boyfriends)

NEUTRAL/TRY AGAIN


keeps staring

looks away (but not down first or immediately)

If you can weed out some girls that will shut you down, you can avoid the blow to self-esteem and time wasted when threy give you the shaft.

2. Now that you know which girls to approach, what do you say to them? What kind of opening line can you use without looking silly or stupid?

Answer: "Hi" with a nice, casual smile.

In a research project, 71% of women acknowledged and responded to men who opened up with that line. Needless to say, 100% of men did the same for women who approached and said, "Hi."

Conclusion? The odds are totally in your favor, especially after you've separated some of the 29% from the playing field.

3. OK, now I've really got her attention, but now what do I talk about?

This is usually where most men have the biggest problem: flirting. Here are some basic tips:


Keep the focus of the conversation about her. People love to talk about themselves, especially about their ambitions and dreams.

Try to make cute jokes, but never about her or yourself (example: I'm gay...just kidding!). This is a sign of weakness, especially during a first impression.

Always keep good eye contact, but never stare.

Never talk about guy stuff (cars, sports, sex, etc.) unless she brings it up.

If you need to initiate the conversation, find something unique on her body and ask her about it. My favorite is the design on the T-shirts, especially the part covering the t'its. This is an advertisement, so act like a client.

Only ask open-ended questions.

Avoid topics about politics or relationships.

Always keep the conversation upbeat.

We all know what a good conversation goes like, but we often make the mistake of letting it carry on for too long until the conversation gets boring. Learn to cut it off by telling her you have to take care of something. Ask for her number. If everything went fluidly, you've got yourself a winner.

4. Confidence, confidence, confidence, and, alas, confidence....I can never stress this point enough. You're preceived as you act.

5. Extra tidbits:


Once you feel that vibe between you and a girl, chances are she's feeling the exact same way. Take advantage of this opportunity to touch her arm or hand every now and then when you mention her.

If she initiates the conversation, you're in great luck.

If she's with friends, talk to the group and slowly narrow the conversation down to her, exclusively. It'll make her feel really special to be exclusive.

Never complain about anything unless you mean to joke (don't even try talking about the difference between sexes).

Stand still when you talk to her, and try not to make too many movements with your hands.

As we all should know by now, wait at least 3-4 days before calling her back.

Anytime you feel your insecurities holding you back, tell yourself, "I only live life once!" under your breath. Put your head down, full-steam ahead, and don't even look back!

If you've read this far, you have the ambition to succeed with girls. Go get 'em, Tiger!

I'm sure most of you are saying "duh, moron" at the moment, but let me finish here. I just figured out what "advice" is used for. The mere point here is that confidence comes with experience. BOMBSHELL WARNING: Any techniques you learn or read about are nothing more than a placebo. A placebo is like a sugar pill. It psychologically makes you believe you are doing better, hence the increase in confidence. Confidence is comfort. Comfort comes with experience. Using techniques to approach girls (experience) will make you more comfortable. You follow?
It's that annoying thing in your head that deters you from doing what you want. You must get rid of it! Throw your inhibitions to the floor! Do something that you would normally believe takes a lot of guts to do. Keep telling yourself you're going to do it. F*ck the pessimism going through your head! DO IT! Feel the adrenaline rush through your body as you begin to experience a euphoric high. Realize doing things like this will always make you feel this good! Become addicted to the high. It's good for you! Do it to the point where you channel out your shame.
Now it's time to approach girls with NO REGRETS!
Also, realize that each stage of the courtship requires experience and comfort before success can be attained.
Go get 'em, Tiger!

This is a tip that few people know about, but works very effectively:
When you smile, you physiologically raise the number of endorphines in your body, making you happier. Surprisingly, forcing yourself to smile has the same effect. The same goes for frowning and serotonin. Try it if you don't believe me.

Now go look in the mirror and give yourself the c0ckiest, most confident, bad-boyish kind of sneer. Use your eyes and other features to accentuate that c0cky look. When you feel like getting in the mood, put this face on anytime and start approaching girls. Surprisingly, you'll find your confidence at a high level, a combination of your body's natural reaction to the sneer and sometime's that "jerk" look girls respond to better than the "nice guy." Use few, small words, and lots of slang (like 'K instead of OK).

You don't necessarily need to use the bad boy image at the end, but remember that the sneer does physiologically raise your confidence.
Your Daily Rx

Arguablly this was not really that much about confidence. It was more the first steps to overcoming AFCdom
So In that regard. The best way to overcome the AFC bug is to go out there. The next section will contain skill that will help you do so.

You Got the confidence. Now shape yourself into who you want to be.Now Put those Dreams into Effect
 
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My friend I think you missed my point.
Although the conflagration of the heart yearning for that one women is strong. My point was that a man should have a flame to be something to do something with there life. Not be the average joe.
Though reaching for greatness assures no prosperity, Reaching for nothing assures a man of failure.
this was just a link from a different post of mine. One of the rules of that post was DO NOT OBSESS. Which would give that balance you were talking about.

Obsession no matter if it be women or science is an unbalancing of your life. Though intrest is not bad, nor is the love of something. But when that object brings harm.

Ehue, amicus my point was to show that women are not ones life, Ergo ones life was a balance of a 'flame' of creation and others, meaning women and friends.

What was the point of putting plural and singular. The a and the e should have been self-explanatory
 
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Step 3. Better Tommorows

The Devil in the Flesh... Yeah Acme

Quick Guide to Acme

Best Face Care Thread Yet

Designer Colonge... Or BO...???

Most mentioned Colonges on DJ fourm.

Some Colonges Rated

Ultimate Colonge Poll

Really Isn't worthy but... Axe... yeah I said it... Sh*t in a bottle:rolleyes:

Now You Got it... How do You use It???

Deodarant.com

Diet and exercise

Bulk Up

Cut Up

25 Power Foods

The BF% of Abbs???

Look For all you Guys. All you need is to look fit... not Ripped. :rolleyes:

If you Look there's tons more in the Health Fourm.

Race

lol. I could post links to this. But really race does not play that much into DJing.If you like the hype look it up yourself. If you can Dj once race you can DJ another. :D

Learn to accept it.

As to how different girls of different races act it goes something like

White- All over the chart. From shy to wild
Black- More on the wild side
Latino-Aslo on the wild side
Arabian- little more laid back and AFC chick type
Japanese, Chinese- AFC chick like above, like to stay within there own race
Korean, Vietmanese(sp?)- More laid back to multi-racial relationships
Eupopeans and Canadians- A little more pleasant then Americans and easier to Kino and start a convo. with

I think I got that right.

Yeah man Threads and hairdues

A Good basic Wordrobe..2 Plain white t-shirts, Black t-shirt, Long Sleeved White shirt, Grey t-shirt, Black Jeans,Light blue Jeans, Medium Jeans(faded jeans are a plus) 1 kaki colred pants, Leather Jacket. 1 Hoodie, Italian Belt, 4 Button shirts(differnt styles and colors.), 4 T-shirts ,4 Polo Shirts, White socks, and a pair of dark dress socks, One suit(JC Penny has decent suits), 2 ties. 1 dress shoe, 1 casual, 1 sneaker, 1 golf shoe. 1 golf glove.

Brand Names to look for...
Tommy Hilfiger
Ralph Lauren
Nautica
Polo
A&F
Structure
Banna Republic
Gap
Gucci
Diesel
Error
Parasuco
Armani
Von Dutch
Anthing Italian Really
Ect,

Shoes

Jeans

Hair. Alot of tips in here

(It's not up at the time of this posting)But it lets you see what the hair style looks like on you.

Another Wardrobe

Good Hairstyle site

Good Tips

An example of a nice polo shirt.lol. Hell I'm bored(it's an exapmle of a fun shirt to the above post)

Color Contacts for that extra Umphh... Yes or No?

Laundry Time!!!!!!!!

Watch thread. Yeah There the expensive ones

If you just want a decent watch go to a JCpennys or whatever and buy a plain silver watch. Skip the gold lines and all that. Just Get a plain silver. It's simple and plain. Golds really for older people and player want-to-be's. Silver is sleak and new. Plus it's simple and looks good.
 
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:rolleyes:

It should also be noted that DaVinci was a flaming homosexual.

As for Ms. Monroes comments, it is foolish to listen to what women say. Look who she ended up boning.. Joe Dimaggio, Arthur Miller and JFK. You have a star athlete, a world famous writer and the most infamous American president of our century. Her words say she is turned on by intellect, but her actions show that, like all women, she was into muscles, creativity, fame and POWER.

Stop trying to glamourize nerdiness..it wont get you laid.
 

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I'm not glamorizing nerdiness. I'm trying to point out it's best to not obsess over just women but to have an equal passion for having a life and other things.
I was just using them as exapmles, Thought there probably were better was of explaining this
 

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I thought DaVinci lost his cherry when he was 60 or something ....
 

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Don't know if these geniuses are what we should think of as DJ's.

If my memory serves me correct, Da Vinci died as a virgin (except one experience with a guy). Isaac Newton only got rejections for his marriage proposals. I don't know much about Einstein, but from his quotes, he had some nice social skills as well as logical.

Anyway, there is some nice links there. Especially the rogerlove.com looks promising. You allso have some great things to say yourself. I really liked your golden rules, and the tip about mirroring a child. There's a few points I'll have to disagree with tho.

1) Forget about those AI's (Approach Invitations). Waiting for them is an excuse for not approaching. A trained eye may calibrate his approach if he see one before approaching tho.

Especially forget the negative AI's. They are easilly re-framed to positive AI's. The re-frames are usually true, and thinking about the negative will absolutely suck out your self-esteem.
- immediately looks away -> She get's nervous looking at me
- turns her head at all (slowly?) -> She pretends to ignore you, to get you interested
- subtely closes up (usually happens with girls who already have boyfriends) -> She's thinking about having sex with you.

2) No problem talking about relationships and sex.

3) No problem making jokes about yourself and her. But leave out any excuses/explanation, and add some ****iness. We're not entertainer after all... (Well, perhaps this was what you meant about CUTE jokes)

The rest of the post sounds like great work tho.
 

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daaaaaaamn

bump this sh!t up there.

Half the links aren't working though:(
 

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i drink, smoke weed and gamble and I'm as 'DJ' as I wanna be

To be honest mate, you sound like the bible-bashers that wake me up every other Sunday morning with their bloody leaflets and all that crap. lol
 
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DaVinci said:
Obsession is not just oneitis but food, exercise, drugs, gambling, anger, and all of the above.

A DJ should learn to avoid these. Some take Will power some take groups(AA, Rehab, Anger Managment) some take pills. You need to learn to cure them on your own.

"But, Whats so bad about getting angry once and a while?"

Absoulutly nothing. Anger is an expression of feelings. It's good for you. Drugs can be fun, eating is healty. But whats bad is taking these things to an exteme.

When You gamble away your house. Or you can explode and get into a fight over nothing.

Now you recognize those above. You think You'd realize your problem, right? Did you realize you were obsessed with a girl? Or did it take a beating into you when you came here?

"So how are we supposed to realize were obsessed"

1. You think about it more then three times a day every day of the week every week of the year.
2. People tell you your obsessed or hint that you are.
3. Search your soul and really think if your obsessed and is it harming your life.

Now there is a fine line between obsession and such things as hobbies. The line is divided between and obsession, something that controls your life to the point of harm, and hobbies, something that you enjoy doing but does not control your life or bring harm to you.

It's very hard to explain this. But you have to watch out for it. It's very easy to become obsessed and some people have addictive personalities. Here is a common list of obsessions.

Drugs(yes even weed)
Exercise
Anger
Vengence
Money(Job)
Family
Sports
Video Games
Alcohol
Eating
Dieting(Anerexic, Bulimic, Extreme Dieting)
Vainity
Gambling
Women

There are thousands more.

how would one get rid of such obsessions? (even ones not on the list?)
 
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