Dating women isn't for me, asexuality is.

[nonameok]

I now consider myself asexual. I do not desire females as companions or sexual companions anymore. I'm never going to attract women and being gay is not an option, so I have made up my mind to not care about females any more. In fact, I'm going to avoid them at all costs. I will condition myself to not get aroused at the sight of a sexy woman and hopefully I can get to the point that even if Jessica Biel strolls naked into my room and sit on my lap, my d*ck will stay limp like a wet rag.

Why have I come to this conclusion? I'm tired of lying to myself saying that I appeal to women. I don't and I recognize that now. I don't care how much I "find myself" or what hobbies I get, I just don't appeal to women and a woman will never be interested in being with me. I accept that. I'll be 25 years old this year and never held hands with a chick outside of church as a young teen. The only sex I had was sex I paid for. I've worked at numerous jobs and never had a chick interested in me. I've been to numerous places and never noticed signs a chick wants me to talk to her. All this says my romantic life is hopeless and I should leave the women to guys that are naturals or able to improve themselves enough to attract females. It will never happen to me.

 

[Pathgen]

some part of you must want this not to be true, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this for all of us to see. You expect us to come and baby you and tell you that you have the potential to get women.

Either earn it or go look for the ugliest girl on earth who feels the exact way as you. I am sure there is one. You should never give up, cause then no matter what you will have always lost

 

[nonameok]

Nah, I don't even want the ugliest girl. I'm just tired of the whole game.

 

[slickaz]

dude..
girls generally try not to show interest in any guy anyway..
unless they really really sl&tty n you're a football star or drive 6 lambos n ur **** comes in a hummer.

you're MEANT to go out and hunt yo food..yo foods not gonna come lie on yo plate n say here i am grill me..

get yo a55 out n go to the gym,
dont assume every you see is a lay..n get nervouse..
consider them just normal ppl..talk to em
with the right stuff to talk about, you will get a chic..

n plz..save yo money..dont pay for ass!!!

 

[JDA70]

Pretty negitive post nonameok.
You need to go back and work on your inner game.

 

[nonameok]

I will be happier in the long run being asexual.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

I say fruck em. If he doesn't have the balls to be a man then let him sink and don't waste one more word trying to pull his behind up.

Some males (can't call him a man) just don't have what it takes. Let's invest the energy into the guys on here who deserve some praise and good words and help. Guys who are trying hard to improve themselves. Facing the rejection and still standing like a man.

This post is a total insult to every male who has come here and started to work on themselves.

Ban this dood! Life is set up so that only the strong get to the top. It is too bad he beat the other sperm cells that were close by out and has ended like this.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

I will be happier in the long run being asexual.

buh bye...don't let the door hit you on the way out as they say! in fact I am surprised your still here...you must be looking for attention like a female.

 

[nonameok]

Your post doesn't make me feel bad one bit TheRealSupreme. But I sincerely hope YOU feel better.

 

[Voice]

All I can say is don't give up. It seems to me like you're placing way too much importance on getting chicks. Like said many times on this forum the focus should always be on you. YOU should be having fun. YOU should be happy. YOU should never stop improving yourself. YOU are the prize. Take a break from trying to game every girl you see. Like said before just focus on talking to them like they are human beings and you'll be surprised. You're not giving up on girls here man, you're giving up on yourself.

If you honestly gave up on improving yourself, then like supreme said you don't belong here.

 

[J Roc]

cool more women for us

 

[2.0]

I think it's okay as long as you're happy with yourself. You can (and many do) lead a fun, happy, fulfilling life without women. But if getting women is important to you, you don't need to give up. The Seduction Community commonly makes men feel hopeless but you're really not.

 

[OTB]

I now consider myself asexual. I do not desire females as companions or sexual companions anymore. I'm never going to attract women and being gay is not an option, so I have made up my mind to not care about females any more. In fact, I'm going to avoid them at all costs. I will condition myself to not get aroused at the sight of a sexy woman and hopefully I can get to the point that even if Jessica Biel strolls naked into my room and sit on my lap, my d*ck will stay limp like a wet rag.
Why have I come to this conclusion? I'm tired of lying to myself saying that I appeal to women. I don't and I recognize that now. I don't care how much I "find myself" or what hobbies I get, I just don't appeal to women and a woman will never be interested in being with me. I accept that. I'll be 25 years old this year and never held hands with a chick outside of church as a young teen. The only sex I had was sex I paid for. I've worked at numerous jobs and never had a chick interested in me. I've been to numerous places and never noticed signs a chick wants me to talk to her. All this says my romantic life is hopeless and I should leave the women to guys that are naturals or able to improve themselves enough to attract females. It will never happen to me.

This is by far the saddest thing I have ever read in my entire life!

My jaw just dropped when reading this post......

 

[OTB]

Some males (can't call him a man) just don't have what it takes.

Life is set up so that only the strong get to the top. It is too bad he beat the other sperm cells that were close by out and has ended like this.

Wow Supreme - Now that is harsh!

 

[dbot]

I will be happier in the long run being asexual.

Sounds like that will be very rewarding for you. Answer me this question... what's wrong with you that makes you unattractive to women? Are you ugly? Be specific. Are your teeth messed up? Are you overweight? Are your eyes too close together? What EXACTLY makes you so unattractive?

 

[DJVladdy]

The fact that you even name yourself no name ok
shows that you have no respect for yourself,
OR to anyone on this site, you've basically insulted anyone who's trying to learn and teach.

 

[Vice]

You're going to end up lik that dude on the 40 Year Old Virgin: your friends are going to keep busting your balls (literally) until you meet some hot-ass chick at a bar and make out with her right there.

Go.

 

[TheRealSupreme]

Wow Supreme - Now that is harsh!

Actually I think he is looking for attention but this will explain my position a bit more:

http://media.libsyn.com/media/playersupreme/A_lack_of_balls_fridays_show_up_early.mp3

 

[TheRealSupreme]

Your post doesn't make me feel bad one bit TheRealSupreme. But I sincerely hope YOU feel better.

Oh your still here huh...so then you were fishing for some attention and guys to beg yo arse.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

You sound like me in some ways,but I have no way considered myself asexual. I just lack motivation/improvement,or have been looking at things wrong my whole life. As in I don't have what it takes. This is where I have been confused the most: "dude..
girls generally try not to show interest in any guy anyway..
unless they really really sl&tty n you're a football star or drive 6 lambos n ur **** comes in a hummer.

you're MEANT to go out and hunt yo food..yo foods not gonna come lie on yo plate n say here i am grill me..

get yo a55 out n go to the gym,
dont assume every you see is a lay..n get nervouse..
consider them just normal ppl..talk to em
with the right stuff to talk about, you will get a chic..

n plz..save yo money..dont pay for ass!!!" I mean, why is it some girls go totally slutty for some dudes and not others? Plus,from listenting to tom leykis,I now realize how it's set up for the *****es. Maybe my hunt or drive or whatever isn't as strong,or maybe it's not from "being at the top" in life,all of which concerns,cause like he said here: "I say fruck em. If he doesn't have the balls to be a man then let him sink and don't waste one more word trying to pull his behind up.

Some males (can't call him a man) just don't have what it takes. Let's invest the energy into the guys on here who deserve some praise and good words and help. Guys who are trying hard to improve themselves. Facing the rejection and still standing like a man.

This post is a total insult to every male who has come here and started to work on themselves.

Ban this dood! Life is set up so that only the strong get to the top. It is too bad he beat the other sperm cells that were close by out and has ended like this." And that's the cold reality.