I've never had any luck or success with women in the past, though my skills have improved a lot since reading sites like this and getting feedback from friends about what I do. And since I've worked on my appearance (losing weight, getting nicer clothes), I'm getting a lot more attention from women now. But, until recently, no dates.
I was recently introduced to a girl her friends had set me up with; she seems like a nice enough girl, and she's fairly attractive (7). We've been out twice, made out last time we went; she told me she liked me a lot and she wants to see me again. Things seem to be going great.
My problem is that, while she's cool and all, I'm not totally interested in her; at least, not in the way I was interested in others. I don't think about her much, nor do I really care to call her all that often (which is driving her nuts, according to her friends). I have fun when I'm with her, but that's about it. And, to top it all off, I'm suffering from a case of one-itis with another girl whom I've been friends with for two years, but won't take it any further.
Since I have so little experience around girls, I thought I'd date this girl just to make sure I've got some knowledge under my belt, but I feel like I'm not really getting what I want. I might grow to like her more in the future (that's happened to me in the past, where I won't like someone at first, I break it off, then I start wanting them again... wussy, I know...).
Anyway, should I keep seeing this girl? What does everyone think? Opinions, comments, verbal ass-kickings welcome.
I was recently introduced to a girl her friends had set me up with; she seems like a nice enough girl, and she's fairly attractive (7). We've been out twice, made out last time we went; she told me she liked me a lot and she wants to see me again. Things seem to be going great.
My problem is that, while she's cool and all, I'm not totally interested in her; at least, not in the way I was interested in others. I don't think about her much, nor do I really care to call her all that often (which is driving her nuts, according to her friends). I have fun when I'm with her, but that's about it. And, to top it all off, I'm suffering from a case of one-itis with another girl whom I've been friends with for two years, but won't take it any further.
Since I have so little experience around girls, I thought I'd date this girl just to make sure I've got some knowledge under my belt, but I feel like I'm not really getting what I want. I might grow to like her more in the future (that's happened to me in the past, where I won't like someone at first, I break it off, then I start wanting them again... wussy, I know...).
Anyway, should I keep seeing this girl? What does everyone think? Opinions, comments, verbal ass-kickings welcome.
I can see how my calm is really getting to her, it's natural since I'm just not that interested...