Dating Neighbors

[snackwitch]

Hey guys,

People with experience only please weigh in here. What are the pros and cons of dating a neighbor? I moved into an apartment complex and I want to talk to a chick who lives in a nearby apartment. I know I am probably over analyzing but I don't want to make a mistake here... give me some idea of the best way to go about this guys.

 

[Young Juan]

If you plan to date her then don't get attached and be conscious that if your just gonna be f-buddys, you'll likely see her with other guys as often as she'll see you with other girls. Establish whether drop-ins are allowed or a call first is mandatory. Besides that, easy access.

 

[Sofomore]

Hey man,
I've got a little experience. I am a sophomore in college and just moved into apartments. I met a girl who lives in the apartment across the way. We have fvcked a few times and as young juan has stated, we are fvck buddies. Both of us see eachother at parties. I see her around other guys but it DOESNT matter.

As long as you keep your options open and dont get oneitis, you should be ok.

LAST year I got oneitis for this girl on my floor. It ended in her being extremely jealous and attached. F*ck that.

Are you afraid of talking to this girl? Youre definitely over thinking it if youre worried already.

In short:

Pros
Easy to meet up
Potential for lots of fun
Lots of sex*

Cons
Easy to get jealous (goes both ways)
May have to see her for a while even if things are awkward
She will probably bone other guys (its cool, youre boning other girls)*

* = Key points

 

[cola]

Hey guys,

People with experience only please weigh in here. What are the pros and cons of dating a neighbor? I moved into an apartment complex and I want to talk to a chick who lives in a nearby apartment. I know I am probably over analyzing but I don't want to make a mistake here... give me some idea of the best way to go about this guys.

Pros

• Tons of sex.
• Tons of sex.
• Tons of sex.

Cons

• You'll get a lot slack if you bring home other chicks
• It'll be really weird if you two end the relationship on bad terms

Only cons I can think of.

** The guy above me nailed it. Almost word for word! Wow, great minds do think a like!