dating a 19 year old

[Gambit2318]

i just met this 19 year old girl and we really get along great by the way i am 23 and we really have alot in common and she knows what she wants out of life. I just want to know if i should try and get into a relationship with her i don't mind tha age but after reading some posts on this site some people think that girls this age should just be used to have sex with.

 

[nan3109]

It all depends on a womans' level of maturity.

 

[tiburon]

Maturity and wife material

Yes maturity and wife material...this should be your best indicators. Even if she is a bit inmature and you are mature enough as a man and read the Bible you can make it work. If not sex is always a good stress reliever lol.

Tiburon

 

[Gambit2318]

actually she is pretty mature for her age

 

[Krassus]

NEVER let a person's age alone determine how you see that person as an individual. There are 16-year-olds out there who are far more mature than some 32-year-olds and vice versa. While age usually does have an impact on a person's level of maturity and intelligence, there are always exceptions, and the effect age has on each person is different.

 

[Royal-tiger]

You should not follow everything you read here literally. We can only guide you based on whatever information is shared. Ultimately it is your life and nobody knows better than you in terms of what feels right (to you).

Just because she happens to be 19 is irrelevant. What matters is how you two "click". It appears there is a good spark and chemistry between you two. In my books, it is sufficient to pursue whatever comes next (without premptively worrying about what you read here).

Good luck and cherish!

 

[Shiftkey]

My 30 year old cousin has a 19 year old GF and they've been together for about 2 years (age of consent is 17 where they live FYI). He's kinda immature though hehe