dat feel when you comment and like on a girl's picture

[latino158]

pictures and posts, but they never reply to you or like your comment, let alone, like your pics and posts lol I mean, I can understand, if some girls won't like a guy's pictures because they don't want to boost the egos, whereas, men have no problem doing that, but if you receive a comment, especially one that is sincere, wishing the best, ****, at least, acknowledge me with a like or thanks. How difficult can this be? This is what facebook and its friends have done, they have turned average women into celebrities with fans and whiteknights following them.

A girl can post that she is not having a good day, or be having problems, and she will get thousands of comments, likes, support from females and whiteknights alike. If she posts a selfie, BOOM, a thousand likes and comments telling her, she is beautiful, gorgeous, etc.

happening right now with a girl I had sex with a long time ago, now she lives in another state, she friend requested me, but whenever I leave comment, which is rare, I may have commented 2 or 3 comments, in the span of months, with nothing out of the ordinary, no whiteknight, nothing offensive or related to the fact that we had sex or whatever, just kind comments, but she never replies or likes my comments, yet she gives like to other females and males, who I'm sure she knows from high school or childhood, which is understandable.

It must be because we ****ed, so she doesn't really trust me and probably in her mind, feels like is ok to be friends on facebook as long as i dont cross the line, but let's keep a distance, etc like she wants to keep limits and doesn't want to give me too much trust, so I don't cross the line or whatever lol

 

[dustmuffin]

pictures and posts, but they never reply to you or like your comment, let alone, like your pics and posts lol I mean, I can understand, if some girls won't like a guy's pictures because they don't want to boost the egos, whereas, men have no problem doing that, but if you receive a comment, especially one that is sincere, wishing the best, ****, at least, acknowledge me with a like or thanks. How difficult can this be? This is what facebook and its friends have done, they have turned average women into celebrities with fans and whiteknights following them.

A girl can post that she is not having a good day, or be having problems, and she will get thousands of comments, likes, support from females and whiteknights alike. If she posts a selfie, BOOM, a thousand likes and comments telling her, she is beautiful, gorgeous, etc.

happening right now with a girl I had sex with a long time ago, now she lives in another state, she friend requested me, but whenever I leave comment, which is rare, I may have commented 2 or 3 comments, in the span of months, with nothing out of the ordinary, no whiteknight, nothing offensive or related to the fact that we had sex or whatever, just kind comments, but she never replies or likes my comments, yet she gives like to other females and males, who I'm sure she knows from high school or childhood, which is understandable.

It must be because we ****ed, so she doesn't really trust me and probably in her mind, feels like is ok to be friends on facebook as long as i dont cross the line, but let's keep a distance, etc like she wants to keep limits and doesn't want to give me too much trust, so I don't cross the line or whatever lol

Tell me why you should care?

 

[Asmodeus]

You got to understand the dynamics here... In the minds of 99% of women MEN are the pursuers. WOMEN are the catch. Thus, do not expect a woman to go out of her way to like and comment on your picture.
Also, more attractive women often become immunized to ego validation. If she is a beautiful woman telling her she is beautiful is nothing to her, as she has had many other men tell her that. In fact, they come to expect it of men. However though if the woman is not beautiful then she will ttend to be more responsive to positive comments .
But for this case you are talking about... She likely has just moved on from you and sees no need to invest any time in you as you live in another state. She is going to comment on men's pictures that are potential suitors for her and ones that are better prospects because they are closer to her in geography, or because she simply does not have any interest in you anymore.
Most importantly, do not have oneitis... Do not get hung up over what this one woman does. There are too many woman in this world to fret over the actions of just one.

 

[Stugots26]

What I often do when a girl is obviously posting a selfie purely for validation is to pick something from the background or to the side of the picture and say something like "gorgeous fire hydrant" or "that mailbox looks awesome" - just to fuq with her a little. Either I say something like that or nothing at all, and I never "like" a photo unless it's a woman I'm exclusive with.

 

[fastlife]

My rule of thumb is to never send a text, comment, or social media ping if you care what the reaction'll be. Send it & forget it. Goes for girls or friends or whoever else.

I've been experimenting with social media game a little--nothing too out there but more actively reopening old connections I've let falter. If you just focus on giving value without expecting anything in return, there are some people who are eager to reciprocate and some people who aren't--but at that point positive responses totally overpower any non-responses. But you have oneitis.

 

[latino158]

such is the life of women

i wish i was a beautiful women

lol

 

[marmel75]

Why the fvck do you care? Are you 15 or something? Need their approval and validation to feel good about yourself?

 

[CMNILS87]

Stop caring man. It's like you have pseudo feelings for this chick. You think you have history with her cause you boinked and your ego is spinning out of control cause she's not validating you by liking your comment of whatever that bull **** is. Why not just text her hey lets hang out? You need to start looking at the broader picture. If a chick is not exclusive and posting attention ***** selfies or posting pics with other dudes being all cuddly she's spinning a web of **** for beta orbiters. Like everyone else said make fun of her in her pic, or just not care.

 

[El Payaso]

Stop being so worried and delete her from your Facebook.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Why do you care bro? If you want to make a comment in one of her photos or whatever do so, but beacuse you want to, not beacuse you want some response from her. This means you are ego invested on her, you want her attention, and that means this girls is bad for your mental health and future actions towards her and other women. Stop doing that and hit the "stop following" button so you stop stalking her on facebook.

Too many guys with Facebook problems I see lately. I'm not with MaximumRex on Facebook being Satan himself, I like using it to share photos with friends and stuff; but if you are a guy that it's ****ing addicted to it and specially if you are stalking some girls' profiles, follow Rex's advice and only use it to keep in contact with close friends or delete it completely. Your first objective should always be having a good mental health, get rid of everything that makes you have insecurity feelings.

 

[Reykhel]

Wow, really??

Get a life crybaby.

 

[Floydispink01]

Men who 'like' a woman's selfie on social media are pathetic.....and that particular woman will think so as well.

 

[Reykhel]

My rule of thumb is to never send a text, comment, or social media ping if you care what the reaction'll be. Send it & forget it. Goes for girls or friends or whoever else.

I've been experimenting with social media game a little--nothing too out there but more actively reopening old connections I've let falter. If you just focus on giving value without expecting anything in return, there are some people who are eager to reciprocate and some people who aren't--but at that point positive responses totally overpower any non-responses. But you have oneitis.

"If you focus on giving value without expecting anything in return"

This little nugget needs to be highlighted........

 

[Yewki]

i wish i was a beautiful women

Caitlyn Jenner is that you?

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Dear God please stop turning this site into a b!tch and moan session about how some woman didn't like you on Facebook.

 

[Reykhel]

Always remember....

Criticism and compliments.....are two sides of the same coin...

If you're affected by either of them....it should be a danger sign...

If you're affected by either of them....you can be controlled and
manipulated by either of them....

Check yourself when you receive a compliment.....do you feel a nice warm
fuzzy feeling in the pit of your stomach?

....your feelings and emotions are being influenced by outside forces...

If someone has to the power to "make you feel good" by giving you a compliment,
rest assured....they have the power to "hurt you" with a criticism...

Know your own value...

In The Prince Machiavelli talks about avoiding flatterers lest you succumb to their flattery and fall victim to self-deception. It couldn't be more apt in describing the affect social media has had on these delusional b¡atches.........If only these beta orbitors like the OP would stop contributing to this vulgar display of delusional narcissism.....

"There is no other way to guard yourself against flattery than by making men understand that telling you the truth will not offend you"
Niccolò Machiavelli

 

[Reykhel]

Bruh...

Quit 'liking' photos in the first place.

I am a firm believer in the following mantra -

No Facebook. No Twitter. No Instagram. No Snapchat. No whatsapp.

When it comes to women, anyway.

I view social media, when used for personal reasons, as nothing more than an attention seeking, validation wanting cry for help.

I use Twitter for business-related activities.

Get a hobby. Stop posting mirror selfies and checking back every 3.246 minutes to see if you got any comments.

(punches nearest object hanging on wall)

100% agreed.

 

[JohnChops]

social media is trash. Why should she respond to your stupid, empty comment? What was it? "Oh look at you gorgeous" and it was her eating a ****ing big mac or some stupid **** like that.

The estrogen on this forum is too damn high.

 

[Reykhel]

social media is trash. Why should she respond to your stupid, empty comment? What was it? "Oh look at you gorgeous" and it was her eating a ****ing big mac or some stupid **** like that.

The estrogen on this forum is too damn high.

"Eating a bun. It's all right"

cue 50 likes....

 

[Infern0]

I never, ever, ever comment on a girls attention seeking social media selfies. Ever.

It actually makes me cringe when I click on the comments and see all the thirsty mofos kissing their asses and the only comments she's replying to are from her female friends.

Don't be that guy, that guy is not good.

You only give a female validation when she's earned it, its an asset, you don't give it away.