SickAgain said:
I mean that there are a lot of girls that miss out and never get the opportunity to form a relationship with an awesome guy because they are stubborn b!tches.
I know what you mean. I work with a girl, and I just want her, and feel she's missing out on tons. Same thing. She has a boyfriend.
I do agree with Zen on this...
What is the big fear about boyfriends?
"Plain and simple, if you are a much better man then her current bf. You stand a good chance.
However you've to make it clear your no side dish. Meaning if she offers you her hole, don't go in till she drops her bf."
The girl I like, her boyfriend happened to find some text messages from me, and she didnt know he sent me a text, and I told her and she was like.... Did you say anything? I was like NO. She said... I would have said something back.
Either she wanted to see drama, or she wanted to see if I would maybe fight for her. I DONT FIGHT FOR WOMEN. Women in general, nor women with boyfriends.
This girl KNOWS all she needs to know about me to make her move. I also dont talk to her non stop, and today when I left work, I didnt tell her goodbye or that I would see her in a few days.
You CANT look like you are desperate, and you cant make it look like you are her pet. Make it look like you are wanted, or just be wanted.
This girl at work saw me chatting with another girl, and it probably made her wonder why I gave attention to the other girl but not her.
Sometimes these things happen, and you have to leave it up to the woman. DONT EVER, settle for her being with you if she is cheating, cause it will happen to YOU as well.
There are MANY, women out there, and it will suck at times. I REALLY like this one too, but sometimes you just forget about it.
Commando said this in a post of mine I had once as a question, and here it what he said about stealing a woman from her boyfriend. I dont steal them, and dont think it is right, but read the below. I followed it, and left it at that.
"Either let the idea go and seek out an available girl. This is probably the best way to go.
Or, respectfully remind her that while she has a boyfriend, if she should find herself available that you would like to date her. However, also tell her that seeing each other may be inappropriate due to your romantic interest. Then leave her alone (no contact rewards or checking in). Let her do the work to be with you or stick it out with her dude. It is a win win.
You put it out there and leave with your respect in tact and her opinion level of you (respect points) will go up. She will think of you during bad times with her boyfriend. What she does about it is up to her. You leave the situation an honorable guy who expressed a respectful interest. Also, you will weed out the aw girl just looking to cheat on her man."
If the girl you like is SERIOUSLY tired of her man, and is like... You know i've been waiting for a guy like this to come around, it will work. Some women have boyfriends to just have them, or social status, or what ever. I had a girlfriend for a year once, and she was dull later on, and I stayed with her cause it was too much trouble to start over at the time. But if I had found a woman while I was dating her that could steal me from her or be the better woman, I would have broken up with her.
Same with the women side. Some are waiting on better guys to come along. You may or may not be that better guy. If not, dont worry about it. If so, great.