Damn.... im pretty down

[DasaniWater]

Well, i made this picture for my girl friend in photoshop, took me about 8 hours total, i went to walgreens had it printed off the cd at 8x10. Bought a picture frame, wrapping paper, tape, ruler, gift card and all that ****.

Took it home and put it together and wrapped it nicely. Took 30 minuet shower, i was expecting to get some tonite. when i called her she told me since the beginning that i couldnt stay over, she kept making excuses one after the other.

"I have to do homework tomorrow morning (she has student aid first period she could do it in there), "im tired i have to go to sleep" (she looked wide awake when i appeared at her house, probably from that 2 hour nap she took today), "my mom is still awake" (i could of easily just went upstairs in the game room, and waited until 1 or 2 am for her mom to fall asleep and for her to come in the other room.

Okay so im done taking a shower, put my cologne, dress up, put the package in a bag, then i go to her house. I see her and i give her a kiss. She takes it, but then she wont let me in. (Started using the same excuses listed above), and then i asked once more and i just said whatever in my mind, and she told me she loved me and tried to kiss me but i just took off cus i was pissed. I called her on my cell phone and we talked she told me she liked it and i asked her why i couldnt come over ,and if i could. (maybe i was being too pushy??), well she told me she was tired blah blah blah and i told her she was wide awake and she just hung up on me. Called her back 10 times she never picked up. The end


Laugh if you must, flame if u must. I just need to know, am i being too pushy and rude, or was it her that was rude? i was deciding to not call her for a week and not see her for 2 weeks and blow off any plan for the weekend. But i dont know maybe i shouldnt.. give me some helpful advice please.

 

[KillaCam]

Well, i made this picture for my girl friend in photoshop, took me about 8 hours total

There. I've narrowed it down for you. Find the problem in that sentence, and you get a lolly.

 

[DasaniWater]

I dont need useless advice from a 17 year old. go away.

 

[KillaCam]

I dont need useless advice from a 17 year old. go away.

I would much rather be 17 years old with balls, than whatever age you are and a whipping b1tch.

Age is just a number buddy.

 

[DasaniWater]

Stop trolling and get your a55 in the highschool forum please.

 

[KillaCam]

Stop trolling and get your a55 in the highschool forum please.

Why do you think I made my first post? So you could improve. My sincere apoligies, i'll let someone else tell you the exact same thing.

I don't go to school, so I don't think I belong in that forum.

Only trying to help buddy, but if you're intimidated by my age, or scared of taking advice from someone younger, that's your problem to deal with.

 

[DasaniWater]

Oh, no problem. I understand why you're so dumb now.


Yeah, this is seriously going to help me improve..

There. I've narrowed it down for you. Find the problem in that sentence, and you get a lolly.

 

[KillaCam]

Oh, no problem. I understand why you're so dumb now.

Heh, that's childish.

Yup, dumb to the tune of University Entrance and already on a salary. Gee, wish I was in a classroom.

Don't make this ugly. If you don't want my advice, fine. But i'm not the one spending 8 hours on a picture for a girl.

 

[DasaniWater]

University Entrance? Never heard of it. Are you sure it's not one of those schools that isn't made up and allows anyone to join?

 

[KillaCam]

University Entrance? Never heard of it. Are you sure it's not one of those schools that isn't made up and allows anyone to join?

Oh dear. It's lesson time. University Entrance means I have the grades to be given automatic entrance into University.

I'm not going to sit here and take shots at you. You come to a forum with a problem, and people give you advice on how to solve it. If you don't want it from me, fine, i'll take it elsewhere.

 

[DasaniWater]

LOL, are you bragging about how much of a hermit you are? That's cute.

 

[Blusher]

AFC behaviour
---> decrease of Interest Level + no flexibility
---> Reinforced by further AFC behaviour [you give her a gift, she should be calling to thanks you but since she's not into you anymore and is considering dumping you that was like handing her a hand grenade]
---> She feels guilt
---> ********
---> you sense something's wrong
---> AFC-stalking behaviour [you called 10 times? wtf? Have you ever read any of the LTR advice on this site?]
---> Further decrease of IL
---> Game Over

 

[KillaCam]

Oh, i'm sorry, you asked a question, how rude of me to answer it politely. This is getting quite childish.

 

[DasaniWater]

Any guidance or views would be much appreciated.

(Other names besides my own are changed )

A good friend of mine, named Jenny, is in a relationship that is more trouble than it's worth. Her boyfriend George is, well, a complete jerk. They have been on and off for about 4 months now, in which time she has always run back to him. George knows Jenny has an irrepressable soft spot for him, and he's pretty damn good at using that to his advantage.


I'm afraid though, besides all this, i'm developing feelings for her, again. In the past, i've fallen for her, even when I know circumstances around us have never helped. I don't doubt the fact I care about her as a friend, but at this point I don't know how much of it is actually my feelings for her. She has asked me whether I have feelings for her, and on the spot I had to say no, which isn't entirely true. George has a fair idea I have feelings for her, so do a lot of her mates, assuming they are feelings are not just an infatuation.

I don't know whether I should create some distance between us and try to work out my feelings, while risking her getting deeper into trouble with him. Or whether I should open up to her and be completely honest..or what, I don't know.

Thanks for your time should you lend it to me.

Alright, here's the low-down.

I'm in the friend-zone with a great chick (Sophie), we've been mates for a year and a half, but i'm thinking of wriggling..or storming my way out of that zone and into her pants, 'cause i'm not putting up with just mates. Anyway, i've been sharpening my game on her mate (Samantha), who has taken my full on flirting quite literally, as if I like her. Which she's just a piece of meat really, great body, lovely face, but absolutely no chemistry in terms of relationship material.

If Sam is pissed off, then her mates are pissed off, and that anger is gonna spread like cancer through the group, making it harder to get to Sophie. Actually, no wait, that gives me more chance to isolate her..

Obviously i'm the catch of the century, so any girl who misses out on me will be in tears. I'll make sure to bring a tissue box along for her, dont want her to ruin her makeup :yes:

Why did I spend 3min writing this down? I don't know. Thanks if you read though.

Hey guys, just a bit of a situation that has crept up over the past few months, and my failure to address it has caused an issue or two. Am seeking second opinions

(Name's changed for privacy reasons)

Me and Anna met through a friend. She has quite a reputation, same age as me (I'm 17 in just under a month), and in all honesty that reputation isn't good. everyday, although the going to lunch stage etc took a while to come about, it's here. I do feel a mutual attraction with her, she even admitted a strong connection was building, but now a new guy has come onto the scene.

He's 22, I believe part of the outer-group friend of a friend kinda circle. She's very naive when it comes to guys, and I feel he is trouble. He tries to limit/extinguish all other male contact with her, if a guy text's her he gets frustrated and jealous, and seems to have a particular and specific problem with me talking to her. I've never met the guy personally, nor do I really want to at this stage, but as a friend, and someone to possibly likes her more, i'm incredibly worried.

She is a great person, don't get me wrong. If you scratch under the surface, she is a fantastic, sweet, sensitive and geuine human being..and maybe the development of my feelings (although largely insignificant at this stage) are clouding my thought, but i'm geuinely worried. Do I open up to her and let it all out? Express concern and risk losing her friendship?

Any views would be great, thank you.

As Pook says: "Grab your balls, be A MAN!!!"

I would much rather be 17 years old with balls, than whatever age you are and a whipping b1tch.

LMAO?!

I dont need advice to someone who falls in love with girls and never does anything about it. Thank you.

 

[KillaCam]

I dont need advice to someone who falls in love with girls and never does anything about it. Thank you.

Falling in love? Hah, I was obsessed. An AFC. A soft-c0ck. Something i'm able to admit, but sure as hell not proud of.

I don't mean to put this down to maturity, but if you can't listen to sound advice because of someone's age, then maybe you're a little bit insecure. I will take my advice elsewhere, but someone else is bound to come along and say the exact same thing as I did.

Blusher put things very nicely for you as well. Take note

 

[KillaCam]

As well, take a good look at the date on the thread I started. I wonder if it's possible for people to change. Maybe not in your eyes.

 

[DasaniWater]

9/5/2006? Damn that was a long time ago wasn't it?

Like i said your advice was pointless, go back to highschool forum please. Calling me a ***** and trolling blah blah blah, you seem pretty mad. Maybe its because you cant even get a girl friend in the first place.

 

[KillaCam]

9/5/2006? Damn that was a long time ago wasn't it?

In my short life, that's a long time. Is it possible i've changed? Very much so.

 

[DasaniWater]

LMAO! Shut up kid.

 

[KillaCam]

LMAO! Shut up kid.

If this debate has come down to that as a whole post, then it's over.

I hope you get the advice you need, not just the advice you want to hear.

Good luck.

- Cam