Dammnit man do something with your life

[intraining]

Ahh oka 22 year old virgin here with 4-5 dates under his belt has never had sex and has never had a girlfriend.Does life suck or am i just making it suck for myself.Ive been rejected and played with and just have given up at times and i really need to do something for myself.The most recent thing thing to happen to me was this girl at work.She told me she liked me we hanged out a few times i even went to her house(should have ****ed her then)and watched a movie and cuddled.That fling ended very quickly(bf asked for her to come back)so i was played and it sucked so bad.They broke up again and he called her to come back yesterday but she soon found out he had a gf on the side.Man ive never seen her so sad but yet i enjoy seeing it cuz she ****ed with my head.

After being played by that girl my confidence dropped a bit and ive been really wanting to see someone worth my time.The only problem is i cant seem to gather myself like i did with her and approach someone.Ive been told im handsome and cute but why cant it just break out of my shell and do something about my situation.Im watching my life cruise right by me and i have never really done anything to slow it down.I want to have sex i want to go out on dates and i want a relationship.I kick myself in the ass everyday knowing that my friends are doing all these things while i work and work and work.Thats what my life consists of work work work and hanging out with friends with the two days that i have off every week.I do not want to say i need a girl to be happy but it would be nice to have someone there

 

[intraining]

wow still havent done a thing to improve my situation

 

[Dole]

You may not have girl's going for you, but there are other great thing's that are going for you. Judging by your post work is going very well for you and you must be making mad cash. Only advice I can give you is you need more female friend's. Read some article's on the website it will make it obvious why.

 

[penkitten]

with a thread topic called "dammnit do something with your life" i have to admit that i thought there would be more tips to get others motivated.
however, its really called "dammnit help me do something with my life."
and you know what, i think it is great that you are wanting to make a change in your life to do something.

i am going to give you some advice that i would give my own brothers if they needed it... stand up and grab your balls tight... and remember that you are a man. you are the man in control of yourself.
do you want to make a change?
stop being so dammmn shy.
look into a mirror if you have to and tell yourself, "i am smart, i am funny and dog gone it people like me."
get out there and sell yourself just like you would sell a car if you were a car salesman.
because that is the only difference between you and the other guys that are getting the girls that you want.
they can sale the car, but you are too afraid to put yourself out there.
stop stopping yourself by asking yourself , "what if they don't like the interior"?
start starting yourself by asking yourself, "what if they do like the interior"?
rev your engine up, put it out on the block, show it off in town and sale it to anyone in the buyer's market and build your confidence up.

 

[marinetti]

the thread's should actually be called "dammit do something to my life for me"

then this guy posts to admit that, after almost three months, he's still done nothing?

you gotta want to change in order to change something.

oh, and that girl wasn't a *****. you were a wimp.

 

[EFFORT]

To add on to what penkitten said.

(The Bigger Picture)

You have to figure out what it is you want out of life man, you only get 1. Like really figure it out (don't let others/society define your life for you, so many people live a meaningless unhappy life because they let external forces dictate there life for them instead of dictaing there own life), may take awhile, but once you figure that out you'll have purpose and your main focus will always be on that, which is what all men need. Women can't be your purpose. Read The Way of the Superior Man.

(Women)

Your not a special case. Getting good with women is just like getting good at anything else. Just like learning to play a sport, muscial instrument, drive a car, build something, fishing, whatever it is, you start out, you suck, you keep doing it, you look for resources to help you and just keep progressing, then in 2-5 years your as good as anyone else. You should really get the Foundations by Tyler at RSD. If you just made it a goal to approach 35 women a week no matter what, and really did it, and stuck with that for 2-5 years, you'd have that area of your life handled.

 

[intraining]

the thread's should actually be called "dammit do something to my life for me"

then this guy posts to admit that, after almost three months, he's still done nothing?

you gotta want to change in order to change something.

oh, and that girl wasn't a *****. you were a wimp.

Maybe things were easy for you and you never had a problem like mine.Its really hard for me to do something about my situation even though i think about it all the time and my friends see my attitude.How in the hell am i a wimp? i cant say that i did everything right and im sure i ****ed up but then again this was my first time.My confidence level was sky high at this point and now its back on the ground after all that.

 

[PerfectCircle]

Not long ago. Like Half a year ago. I was completely unable to talk to women completely, I had never had a girlfriend, a kiss, a date, sex.. not even close. I didnt even have female friends. I never talked to women, I was the most nervous person in the world around them. I had no job, I was behind in school, I had almost no friends, I played video games all day, I was ugly, hated myself, ect.

Its frustrating, really. I know what its like, I had the worst case of "AFC" (Im not sure if thats the right word for it im kinda new here) In the world. I used to think Id go my whole life without experiencing sex.

Today, I really honest to god believe im close to being perfect. My confidence is through the roof, I never feel embarresed, Nervous, uncomfortable anymore like I constantly used to. I always go for what I want, Im happy, I take care of myself, (but never do i think to myself I need to improve myself to get a woman).

Right now, Ive got a few women intrested in me (about 6), Im dating 2 women (which no.. isnt good.. Im going to have to leave 1 soon) and Im fully experienced with women.

Getting women comes down to how good you are at talking to them, You can only become good at it by truely not caring what they or anyone else thinks. If you think about a girl you like for more then a minute a day, then your not there yet. Live in the moment.

 

[backbreaker]

what I find sad is you say you need to do something with your life, and the only thing you can think about is something pink and wet (hopefully)?

that's a damn shame

 

[intraining]

oka maybe i should have reworded

 

[Being_the_Don]

the only difference between you and the other guys that are getting the girls that you want.

Good adice but it only goes so far. What if you're constantly c*ckblocked by pee-ons who are jealous of you? Or whisper things behind your back, eh? Because they know you're better looking than they are so they tell lies to get women not to talk to you. Huh? Huh?

 

[aliasguy]

Good adice but it only goes so far. What if you're constantly c*ckblocked by pee-ons who are jealous of you? Or whisper things behind your back, eh? Because they know you're better looking than they are so they tell lies to get women not to talk to you. Huh? Huh?

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Part of the game, man.

People talk sh*t about me all the time. Some of it is true, some isn't.

People who don't really know me, sometimes have all KINDSA misconceptions about me.

SO WHAT?



That stuff is gonna happen. Accept it.


What MATTERS is how you make women FEEL. What matters is your game.

Quit making excuses. The whole of mankind has to deal with c*ckblockers, too.

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[Being_the_Don]

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Part of the game, man.

People talk sh*t about me all the time. Some of it is true, some isn't.

People who don't really know me, sometimes have all KINDSA misconceptions about me.

SO WHAT?



That stuff is gonna happen. Accept it.


What MATTERS is how you make women FEEL. What matters is your game.

Quit making excuses. The whole of mankind has to deal with c*ckblockers, too.

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My game is fine, I can easily get women to talk to me. But some creeps have been telling folks that I'm a player, etc. etc. So when certain women that I see one week act different the next. And on a college campus who wants that?

 

[Potbelly]

wow still havent done a thing to improve my situation

Something about this is FVCKING HILARIOUS. Then I noticed it was posted BY THE OP THREE WHOLE MONTHS AFTER HIS OP.

ROFL!!! You made my day bro.

 

[crackers444]

Hey
I can relate to your thread I have never had a gf and have only been on 4 dates. I am almost 24,don't really have many friends, can't seem to find a job and live at home! I have been chatting with a girl online, my internet gf. We have similar interests, personality and share the same birthday.

 

[intraining]

I dont think i can do the internet thing