Cutting Out P0rn

[Ice882]

I'm satisfying myself sexually, so when I'm with girls all I want is affection and intimacy. I don't think "wow, I could have so easily made a move there and hooked up with her last night" until the day after. If I don't mb, I think I'll be more sexually focused during dates.

 

[Jhcl4000]

If whacking it once a day makes you uninterested in girls sexually, you need to go to the doctor.

 

[sara145]

I myself desire the same , but I think I am somehow introvert.

 

[Ice882]

If whacking it once a day makes you uninterested in girls sexually, you need to go to the doctor.

It doesn't make me uninterested - I just no longer feel a pressing need to hook up with the girl I'm with. Like last night she was sitting on my lap and I had a boner, but I didn't make a move. I think its a confidence issue - I need to be super horny so that feeling can override my lack of confidence when it comes to k-closing and f-closing girls. I get to the "we're about to hook up" stage just fine, and my game to that point is tight - but after that I need that extra boost to make the move. That's why I wanna give up p-rn.

 

[corrector]

It doesn't make me uninterested - I just no longer feel a pressing need to hook up with the girl I'm with. Like last night she was sitting on my lap and I had a boner, but I didn't make a move. I think its a confidence issue - I need to be super horny so that feeling can override my lack of confidence when it comes to k-closing and f-closing girls. I get to the "we're about to hook up" stage just fine, and my game to that point is tight - but after that I need that extra boost to make the move. That's why I wanna give up p-rn.

So what? This means you didn't risk getting an STD, getting someone pregnant, risking false rape charges, breaking anyone's heart, etc.... porn and masturbation is very low risk sexual behaviour.

 

[The Piano Master]

So what? This means you didn't risk getting an STD, getting someone pregnant, risking false rape charges, breaking anyone's heart, etc.... porn and masturbation is very low risk sexual behaviour.

Wow dude, the world must be a scary place...

 

[Ice882]

Wow dude, the world must be a scary place...

Hahahahahahahaha, seriously.


I'm definitely not gonna just jack it in my basement because it'll protect me from rape charges. pretty sure I can keep myself from committing rape, don't worry. pretty sure I won't be raw dogging a wh0re either, so we're good on STD's, and I won't be banging any chicks without a wrapper until I'm much older and having a kid wouldn't fvck me incredibly hard in the @ss.

 

[corrector]

Hahahahahahahaha, seriously.


I'm definitely not gonna just jack it in my basement because it'll protect me from rape charges. pretty sure I can keep myself from committing rape, don't worry.

I said FALSE rape charges. That means, a woman can make up stories, the police and the legal system buy it up, and you end up in a jail cell awaiting bail for made up charges. You can definately google that matter and read other threads where this happened.

So, how do you protect yourself from a woman who loves making up stories and being a judicial attention hor?

pretty sure I won't be raw dogging a wh0re either, so we're good on STD's,

ANYONE who slept with anyone who has an STD can have an STD. Unless a girl is a VIRGIN, then it's likely she has an STD because she probably slept with someone who had an STD.

If a guy who sleeps with a tonne of chicks and have a tonne of STD passes that to a VIRGIN girl and you are the SECOND person that sleeps with her, how does that make her different than a hor that sleeps with many guys?

and I won't be banging any chicks without a wrapper until I'm much older

condoms do not protect from herpes and it's not foolproof.

and having a kid wouldn't fvck me incredibly hard in the @ss.

But the legal system that can force you to pay child support can.

 

[Just a Shot Away]

condoms do not protect from herpes and it's not foolproof.

Sorry to butt in here, but I had to correct this. Condoms DO protect against herpes. The virus cannot penetrate the latex. However, like any other preventative measure it's not 100% effective. That honor is reserved for abstinence.

 

[Ice882]

I understand all the risks and rewards of sex. You and I are coming from very different places, corrector. Nobody in my world comes up with false rape charges, and as a teenager where I live, most people are virgins or have only had sex 1 or 2 times. This is accurate, not naive.

I mb'd twice today out of boredom and procrastination. Lame. but my girl (main, anyway) is away for the semester.

 

[rocksoff]

http://www.xvideos.com/video226644/mature_milf_aletta_ocean

done with porn ....lol

 

[Schwank]

That's pretty stupid, Ice882. There is no correlation between jerking off and confidence. You don't sound too worldly...

Like last night she was sitting on my lap and I had a boner

This stopped happening after I turned sixteen. I gather you're around that age.

having a kid wouldn't fvck me incredibly hard in the @ss.

With this mentality you're better off just jerking it, kid. :moon:

 

[r0cky]

That's pretty stupid, Ice882. There is no correlation between jerking off and confidence. You don't sound too worldly...

There's a strong correlation between those two. People with confidence seldom have to jerk off because they get all the pu55y they need and are too busy to be jerking off. I would'nt say that jerking off makes one confident or unconfident, but definetly, confident guys jerk off less often.
I know this b/c I've had phases of confidence and low confidence throughout my life, and the more confident I felt, the less I had the need for self satisfaction.

 

[Schwank]

People with confidence seldom have to jerk off because they get all the pu55y they need and are too busy to be jerking off.

Right, all you need is confidence to get some tail. Nevermind the fact that your face strikingly resembles a toad, nevermind the fact that your unemployed, nevermind the fact that your living with your parents at age 30, and nevermind the fact that your d*ck has worts contracted from a Red-Light District hooker. However, let's not get into all that he-said she-said crap. Let's get back on track. Yes, of course, if your getting endless p*ssy, then you won't be jerking it that often. That's logical.

I would'nt say that jerking off makes one confident or unconfident

I agree with this statement.

but definetly, confident guys jerk off less often.

But I don't agree with this statement. As I wrote above, confidence alone doesn't equate to tail, due to a myriad of other factors involved (e.g. looks, status, social skills, compatibility, personality...), and therefore my hypothetical screwed-up-yet-confident man in paragraph one will have masturbation IMPOSED on him.

I know this b/c I've had phases of confidence and low confidence throughout my life, and the more confident I felt, the less I had the need for self satisfaction.
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You know this soley because it happens to be the case with you? Well, ****, I suppose it's like that for everyone...

 

[r0cky]

Right, all you need is confidence to get some tail. Nevermind the fact that your face strikingly resembles a toad, nevermind the fact that your unemployed, nevermind the fact that your living with your parents at age 30, and nevermind the fact that your d*ck has worts contracted from a Red-Light District hooker. However, let's not get into all that he-said she-said crap. Let's get back on track. Yes, of course, if your getting endless p*ssy, then you won't be jerking it that often. That's logical.

But I don't agree with this statement. As I wrote above, confidence alone doesn't equate to tail, due to a myriad of other factors involved (e.g. looks, status, social skills, compatibility, personality...), and therefore my hypothetical screwed-up-yet-confident man in paragraph one will have masturbation IMPOSED on him.

I was about to call you ignorant but then i saw you're only a noob. Read the dj bible then retype that post.

 

[Proselytiser]

If you have a problem with ur confidence, u need to figure out that problem. What relevance does porn have???

If all u want from girls is affection and intimacy... well ur gonna come off as needy

Alot of u dudes are looking to girls for what you should be able to get from urselves

 

[Just a Shot Away]

I was about to call you ignorant but then i saw you're only a noob. Read the dj bible then retype that post.

Nice. It's always obvious who's read the Bible and who hasn't...especially when they start beating the drum for being good-looking and downplaying the importance of confidence.

 

[Ice882]

Yeah, all right, to everyone who's tried to sh1t on me...not working.

I'm 17. I don't have "confidence issues" I'm very confident in my basketball life, academic life, social life with friends AND girls, and I'm entirely comfortable with myself. I'm also good looking. I came on this site a year ago. It was a low point. Now I stick around to read the stories, cuz some of them are damn entertaining or poignant.

Anyway, the only issue I have is summoning the sexual drive and energy to make a move when I'm alone with the girl - and its not even a constant problem. It happens occasionally that I am not motivated. Its always when I've jacked it within the last 24 hours. Strong correlation suggests that stopping MB is the right course to take.

By the way, here's what I'm not:

- needy
- lame
- unfunny
- to modest/reserved
- a nice guy (oh jesus fin christ nice guys...some of the least nice people on the planet in reality)
- basically everything else that holds you back from getting girls. I get girls. A lot. My issue is that 1/2 the time I reel them in 95% of the way, and then I just don't go the last 5%, go for the kiss or whatever.

 

[Ice882]

That's pretty stupid, Ice882. There is no correlation between jerking off and confidence. You don't sound too worldly... You sound like a fvcking dipsh1t. Close your mouth, I've been to 4 Continents and been around people from the ghetto and people with millions at their disposal.

This stopped happening after I turned sixteen. I gather you're around that age. Like its a bad thing to be h-rny.

With this mentality you're better off just jerking it, kid. :moon:

With your mentality, you're better off being retarded. At least that way people will feel some sympathy for you when this kind of drivel sprays out your mouth.

 

[BigJimbo]

Sorry to butt in here, but I had to correct this. Condoms DO protect against herpes. The virus cannot penetrate the latex. However, like any other preventative measure it's not 100% effective. That honor is reserved for abstinence.

Total lie. HPV is the leading form of herpes and is NOT prevented by the use of condoms. Around a quarter of American females between 18-25 years of age have it. Have fun.