Cute neighbor told me she wants to have a shower with me

[Alicanto]

My blonde cute (hot) neighbor, a little younger than me, told me she would love to have a shower with me, but there are some issues (of course. There's no magic -.-')

It happened exactly like this:
1. Started texting her with no intentions. Just to chat.
2. After some time we were already talking about sex.
3. She got aroused and told me this: "We could have a shower together some day"

I thought she was kidding me, but the she was pretty clear when I asked if she was serious about it.

We kept on talking about how we would do it (cause we both still live with our parents) until we were very sleepy.

The other day she was very cold. She didn't follow the sex conversation I tried to establish with her. So I backed off for 3 days.

On the 4th day I texted her the following, expecting she would feel challenged: "I think we shouldn't do it.. You're still a virgin. Maybe you're not prepared".

She answered right away: "I don't think being a virgin stops me from having sex. But if you don't want to, that's fine."

I was tempted to say something like: "I told you I fu**** wanted it too!! Why won't we fuc* already?!"

But I said: "I just think we should take things slowly."
She answered: "Okkk"
Me: "What you mean with a simple 'Ok'?"
She: "Whatever you want handsome "
Me: "You're confusing me..."

I think she lost interest when I agreed on having a shower with her.
But then got interested again when I said we shouldn't.

Don't know what to do anymore.
Should I do as I told her and go slowly?

 

[SpazzAttackk]

My blonde cute (hot) neighbor, a little younger than me, told me she would love to have a shower with me, but there are some issues (of course. There's no magic -.-')

It happened exactly like this:
1. Started texting her with no intentions. Just to chat.
2. After some time we were already talking about sex.
3. She got aroused and told me this: "We could have a shower together some day"

I thought she was kidding me, but the she was pretty clear when I asked if she was serious about it.

We kept on talking about how we would do it (cause we both still live with our parents) until we were very sleepy.

The other day she was very cold. She didn't follow the sex conversation I tried to establish with her. So I backed off for 3 days.

On the 4th day I texted her the following, expecting she would feel challenged: "I think we shouldn't do it.. You're still a virgin. Maybe you're not prepared".

She answered right away: "I don't think being a virgin stops me from having sex. But if you don't want to, that's fine."

I was tempted to say something like: "I told you I fu**** wanted it too!! Why won't we fuc* already?!"

But I said: "I just think we should take things slowly."
She answered: "Okkk"
Me: "What you mean with a simple 'Ok'?"
She: "Whatever you want handsome "
Me: "You're confusing me..."

I think she lost interest when I agreed on having a shower with her.
But then got interested again when I said we shouldn't.

Don't know what to do anymore.
Should I do as I told her and go slowly?

Should have ****ed her already man.
You said it yourself theres no magic, so you dont have to be worried about being tied down. She clearly wants it, so give it to her

 

[Who Dares Win]

I thinks she was just teasing you to being with, probably looking for some fun in that moment.

If I were dr Gregory House my diagnosis would be an uninterested girls, the symptoms are hot and cold, confusing you, playing hard to get, various mind**** and a gut feeling of games involved.

Most of the times when it doesnt work in the standard way it means that its broken not that you have to try in a different way.

 

[Alicanto]

I think she's interested, but I was too easy.

I was texting her a while ago. I've thrown some negs and think got her back into the mindset I need her

I'll post updates.

 

[pdx1138]

You shouldn't ever tell a girl you are "confused by her."

 

[Alicanto]

You shouldn't ever tell a girl you are "confused by her."

I negged her right after that.

 

[Smell The Glove]

You both live with parents, showering logistics are no good.

Take her for a walk, make out with her.

Stop focusing on the shower bull****, just have fun with the girl, if she doesn't go along with it, stop talking to her.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

My blonde cute (hot) neighbor, a little younger than me, told me she would love to have a shower with me, but there are some issues (of course. There's no magic -.-')

It happened exactly like this:
1. Started texting her with no intentions. Just to chat.
2. After some time we were already talking about sex.
3. She got aroused and told me this: "We could have a shower together some day"

I thought she was kidding me, but the she was pretty clear when I asked if she was serious about it.

We kept on talking about how we would do it (cause we both still live with our parents) until we were very sleepy.

The other day she was very cold. She didn't follow the sex conversation I tried to establish with her. So I backed off for 3 days.

On the 4th day I texted her the following, expecting she would feel challenged: "I think we shouldn't do it.. You're still a virgin. Maybe you're not prepared".

She answered right away: "I don't think being a virgin stops me from having sex. But if you don't want to, that's fine."

I was tempted to say something like: "I told you I fu**** wanted it too!! Why won't we fuc* already?!"

But I said: "I just think we should take things slowly."
She answered: "Okkk"
Me: "What you mean with a simple 'Ok'?"
She: "Whatever you want handsome "
Me: "You're confusing me..."

I think she lost interest when I agreed on having a shower with her.
But then got interested again when I said we shouldn't.

Don't know what to do anymore.
Should I do as I told her and go slowly?

From your version this chick sounds like though she may “somewhat” key word “somewhat” be interested in you she’s most likely an AW who thinks all dudes only want chicks for sex. So she uses that as her “trump” card. (Could be from something she read in a chick magazine, talks with girlfriends etc.) So in her way of "gaming" she starts talking sex and gets the guy “interested” then pushes him away (puts up barriers/excuses), then pulls him back with a vague suggestive response to make him think of sex with her. It’s a power trip. Some chicks unfortunately don’t know any other way to get dudes to “like” them as they have nothing more to offer than looks and the “promise” of some “sexx”.

Now since you were texting about sex and she didn’t mind that. Those messages have already been exchanged. So if those were exchanged..Then she shouldn’t have minded sending you a “pic” if she’s really “about it”.

How do you call her bluff next time ASAP? You ask her to text you a pic. If she doesn’t she more than likely isn’t down for what she claims and is completely full of it. IF she does send a pic. Then you text something back like: “nice . Let me see another”..you have to get them to “invest” something(in this case a pic or more) to possibly be able to continue to having REAL sex and not just BS “mental masturbation” talk. If she lives next door and sends you a pic she'll be more likely to follow through as YOU now have something of hers.

You screwed up on her test by going with it like all you wanted was sex (texted her the next day automatically talking sex). So she’s “proved” to herself all you or dudes want from her is sex so she’ll continue playing that weak game.

You have to call their bluff ASAP. They talk sex. You request a pic. IF they don’t. They’re just “fluffing” your c0ck for their own ego and what they’re worth = BS.

You have to ride the breaks at times and know that if the chick continues sex talk to at times talk about something else real quick to not come off as too thirsty for a piece. Some chicks may not send pics but you still have to ride the breaks and not initiate EVERY conversation about sex even IF she started it. Some chicks just try that sh1t to test you to see if you are a h0rny chump.

IF she does text you again and goes into sex talk TELL HER TO SEND YOU A PIC. If she declines. Don’t bother texting her again. Let HER come to you. If not. She can play that BS elsewhere while she justifies her nonsense as “oh he was just another guy who only wanted me for sex.” Chicks like that are clowns. Period.

So in closing: At this point DO NOT TEXT HER FIRST.

Four things SHE has to do to POSSIBLY have this further to sex due to HER investment should SHE choose to do so:

1)She initiates a text to you.

2) (You play it cool at that point) and let HER initiate the sex talk.

3) IF she does start talking sex again you IMMEDIATELY tell her to send you a pic.

4)IF she sends you a pic then you set up a time to meet and have fun. ACTION not BS.

(Don’t raunchy sex talk her if those things happen. You have to plant seeds in her imagination by painting a picture AFTER she sends you a pic or more. IE: Tell her you’ll give her a sensual massage in the bath, make sure she’s clean all over, and you want to taste her sweet juices in the shower while the water cascades down her sexy body and you gently but firmly spank her juicy azz. You want to turn her around and tease her with your tongue and tip of your c0ck then have her put her hands on the shower wall as you slowly enter her from behind till she’s taken you all the way in.. NOT just replying after the pic if she sends it with a raunchy h0rndog reply of IE: We’re going to FVCK like crazy!)

If none of those four things happen or she stalls etc. at any point. You lose her number, keep it cordial IRL and don't bother with her again. If she crosses your path in the future keep it at a non-caring friendly hello and goodbye.

 

[Alicanto]

Awesome.
Maybe you're right, Naughty Ninja.

Let's see if I can get some pics =P

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Awesome.
Maybe you're right, Naughty Ninja.

Let's see if I can get some pics =P

You can also flip it on her to get her to possibly qualify herself to you if she starts with the text c0ck teasing again (but doesn't send pics) by simply replying to her: "Do you offer anything else to a real man besides just sex/sexting? That's good but I can pretty much get sex whenever I want. So tell me what else do you offer men of value?"

That reply may wind up flipping things to get her to think you are higher value than her and she might try something else to "prove" herself to you as I'm sure any other dude she pulls that "shower" talk with just runs with it like a h0rny spider monkey.

IF she does start qualifying herself. You run with a few more qualifying questions and then just STOP texting her. Let it marinate in her mind. She may just start chasing YOU.

Once she does. At times..RIDE THE BREAKS with light sex talk in between quick conversations and try to move quick to have a good time to "hang out" and or "have some fun".

In the meantime meet and get more chicks. This way you have plenty of options and don't waste your higher VALUE time on a sexting c0ck tease.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Just in case anyone missed it, if she's a virgin, the point of having sex in the shower is to not get blood on her sheets that her parents might see.

 

[5string]

Suggest you get some soap on a rope and call her.

 

[Kbomb]

Suggest you get some soap on a rope and call her.

What so she he can bash her over the head with it and drag her home? Is he living in prison? I don't get the soap on a rope.

 

[5string]

What so she he can bash her over the head with it and drag her home? Is he living in prison? I don't get the soap on a rope.

It was a joke brother. Just think he should call her up, take the shower and have some fun. I used to have soap on a roap years ago. Hung it on the shower head. Pretty convenient.

 

[Megaman XIV]

Women who typically advertise don't put out. Those who don't advertise typically do put out.

Judge by actions not words.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Women who typically advertise don't put out. Those who don't advertise typically do put out.

Judge by actions not words.

As a general rule I tend to agree.

The only case of women who advertise and then put out are the ones which already putted out to you before.

 

[dvjackson]

Here's what I think happened:
She's attracted to you and seriously proposed taking a shower together.
When you tried to "sext" the next day she simply wasn't in the mood or she was busy.
When you said you want to take it slowly, her interest may have slightly increased or decreased, but not enough to seriously change her mind in either direction.

IMO you're overanalyzing it. She's a virgin teenager(I mean, I assume you're both high school age if you live with your parents), she's not going to be complicated.

If you don't take this opportunity I guaran-****in-tee you'll be kicking yourself later. Just say "forget what I said earlier, when's the best time for me to come over" and go for it.

 

[scrouds]

stop talking, start doing. Meet up with her, take it from there. You may get it, you may not, but you have to go for it.

Nothing else matters.

 

[zinc4]

My blonde cute (hot) neighbor, a little younger than me, told me she would love to have a shower with me, but there are some issues (of course. There's no magic -.-')

It happened exactly like this:
1. Started texting her with no intentions. Just to chat.
2. After some time we were already talking about sex.
3. She got aroused and told me this: "We could have a shower together some day"

I thought she was kidding me, but the she was pretty clear when I asked if she was serious about it.

We kept on talking about how we would do it (cause we both still live with our parents) until we were very sleepy.

The other day she was very cold. She didn't follow the sex conversation I tried to establish with her. So I backed off for 3 days.

On the 4th day I texted her the following, expecting she would feel challenged: "I think we shouldn't do it.. You're still a virgin. Maybe you're not prepared".

She answered right away: "I don't think being a virgin stops me from having sex. But if you don't want to, that's fine."

I was tempted to say something like: "I told you I fu**** wanted it too!! Why won't we fuc* already?!"

But I said: "I just think we should take things slowly."
She answered: "Okkk"
Me: "What you mean with a simple 'Ok'?"
She: "Whatever you want handsome "
Me: "You're confusing me..."

I think she lost interest when I agreed on having a shower with her.
But then got interested again when I said we shouldn't.

Don't know what to do anymore.
Should I do as I told her and go slowly?

WTF is your problem man...should have banged her on the spot....you acted like a major puss%...stop talking and go bang her...if she rejects and is simply an AW then who cares at least you tried...however, IMO if you have any game this will be an easy lay....or at very least make out session

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

yeah...tricky with the young ones. They still have primal instincts though. One option, next time she's playing her little sex flirt games simply tell her, "I'm going to come over and **** you." then tell her to wear something sexy and to make sure she's showered and clean or else she's not getting your d1ck. One way or another you'll find out if she's serious.