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I'm curious as to why most white guys don't like chicks with a good size ass.

Yes, I am a brother and is curious to what scares:eek: them about women with JLO size asses or bigger, if that the case.

Feedback please.........
 

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I'm a white dude, which obviously makes me the optimal representative of my entire race.

Some dudes dig legs, some breasts, some butts. I just don't happen to be a butt man.

It probably has something to do with the fact that people gravitate towards their own race. White girls don't tend to have juicy rumps. So it makes sense that we wouldn't really dig it too much.

It could also have something to do with the fact that if a girl has a monster dumper if she isn't fat yet it seems possible that she will be.
 

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That's just sterotyping. I like girls with an ass on them. Love JLO's ass. In fact I like small asses too. :) But bigger asses are nice too.
 

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"I" like a nice firm, tonned, slim woman. "I" don't really like large breast's either, a handful is nice for "me".

Big butts don't necessarily 'scare' me so much as that i just view them as 'fat'. Fat to me is unhealthy and unattractive -This is being a little extreme, but i thought i'd leave it as an argument.

Use charlies Angels for example. Most of my friends think Drew is HOT, personally, if she wasn't a movie star i doubt i'd even look twice at her - she's not the build im attracted too.

J-LO, isn't bad. She's definately a hotty, but yeah, her butt is large in proportion to the rest of her body, maybe she's being doing too many squatts, it might be all muscle!

But, those women that model on catwalks and such, god...that is just wrong, EAT SOME FOOD!

That being said, there's a lot more to woman than just looks and ass. But, being a thread about ass's, i guess im aloud to be my usual picky self :)

Everyone is different and everyone has their own tastes.
 

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Those double-wide chicks just take up too much of the bed.
 

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Originally posted by Kodiac
"I" like a nice firm, tonned, slim woman. "I" don't really like large breast's either, a handful is nice for "me".

Big butts don't necessarily 'scare' me so much as that i just view them as 'fat'. Fat to me is unhealthy and unattractive -This is being a little extreme, but i thought i'd leave it as an argument.

Use charlies Angels for example. Most of my friends think Drew is HOT, personally, if she wasn't a movie star i doubt i'd even look twice at her - she's not the build im attracted too.

J-LO, isn't bad. She's definately a hotty, but yeah, her butt is large in proportion to the rest of her body, maybe she's being doing too many squatts, it might be all muscle!

But, those women that model on catwalks and such, god...that is just wrong, EAT SOME FOOD!

That being said, there's a lot more to woman than just looks and ass. But, being a thread about ass's, i guess im aloud to be my usual picky self :)

Everyone is different and everyone has their own tastes.

That's cool......no animosity here. Just wanted to know why b/c it was never address. To each is own.:)
 

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Big A$$ = fat chick

Big T!ts = fat chick

Don't get me wrong, I like chicks with round developed a$$es, but when they get too big...no.

Same with T1ts. Too big and it's a turn off.
 
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My white buddy seems to think it has to do with member size.

Girls with big butts tend to have bigger vaginal area's, He's noticed..and if you got any size down there it makes a better fit. If not then you feel small and uncomfortable.



Not to say all white guys have small dycks..and all brotha's have larger ones.

Let's look at it from a stand point of evolution:

Africa is a hot continent. In the heat testicles will grow away from the body to dissapait heat. Larger testicles mean more testostorone produced for erections and muscularity. Ever noticed how little black boys are way more developed muscle wise than little white boys...no Im not a fag...I am a personal trainer...it's my job to notice these things...especially being a father. My boys looked like they just stepped outta body building school for kids by the time they were 7 years old.

anyways:

More blood flow since the member is stretched out also to dissapate heat.

Northern Europe cold climate. Nuts come close to the body to absorb body heat. The body adapts to its environment.

Blackmen tend to have larger and rounder butts. Another heat distribution solved. Put the fat up there instead of down around the calves and ankles like say Irish men who have huge calves. Also large buttocks makes for faster starts in running from preditors.

White men tend to have small to flat asses. No need for muscle or fat to be stored there.

It is also a genetic fact that white's do carry more fat cells all over their bodies and hair than black men do...another heat problem solved.

Now to tie this all in:

Notice how women with larger butts tend to prefer black men also (white women). We tend to be attracted to things that are familiar to us. White wimmins tend not to have butts...they raise kids with little or no butts...these kids grow up and are attracted to women with no butts.

Atleast that is my preverted theory...lol

When I date white women they tend to have butts. Instead of those flat asses that jeans fall down. Although last summer I caught this tall swedish girl from Oregon.

She had no ass. 6' tall long blond hair and no ass...or atleast what I liked...What that rapper xhibit saw in her I don't know...except that she was very pretty.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
My white buddy seems to think it has to do with member size.

Girls with big butts tend to have bigger vaginal area's, He's noticed..and if you got any size down there it makes a better fit. If not then you feel small and uncomfortable.



Not to say all white guys have small dycks..and all brotha's have larger ones.

Let's look at it from a stand point of evolution:

Africa is a hot continent. In the heat testicles will grow away from the body to dissapait heat. Larger testicles mean more testostorone produced for erections and muscularity. Ever noticed how little black boys are way more developed muscle wise than little white boys...no Im not a fag...I am a personal trainer...it's my job to notice these things...especially being a father. My boys looked like they just stepped outta body building school for kids by the time they were 7 years old.

anyways:

More blood flow since the member is stretched out also to dissapate heat.

Northern Europe cold climate. Nuts come close to the body to absorb body heat. The body adapts to its environment.

Blackmen tend to have larger and rounder butts. Another heat distribution solved. Put the fat up there instead of down around the calves and ankles like say Irish men who have huge calves. Also large buttocks makes for faster starts in running from preditors.

White men tend to have small to flat asses. No need for muscle or fat to be stored there.

It is also a genetic fact that white's do carry more fat cells all over their bodies and hair than black men do...another heat problem solved.

Now to tie this all in:

Notice how women with larger butts tend to prefer black men also (white women). We tend to be attracted to things that are familiar to us. White wimmins tend not to have butts...they raise kids with little or no butts...these kids grow up and are attracted to women with no butts.

Atleast that is my preverted theory...lol

When I date white women they tend to have butts. Instead of those flat asses that jeans fall down. Although last summer I caught this tall swedish girl from Oregon.

She had no ass. 6' tall long blond hair and no ass...or atleast what I liked...What that rapper xhibit saw in her I don't know...except that she was very pretty.
Good theory, bruh!

I know everyone has a preference but it seems like when one of the fellas on here say something about big asses, they sound like they are regurgitating :eek:
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
White wimmins tend not to have butts...they raise kids with little or no butts...these kids grow up and are attracted to women with no butts.
mabye Frued was right about everyone wanting to fvck their own mothers!
 

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i think the reason black people are physically more fit than whites in America is something a little more test worthy than "evolution."

back when slavery was popular all the weak and physically unfit blacks died off quickly. what was left was an amazing crop of black folk with incredible bodies capable of withstanding heat and maximizing muscle use.
 
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Originally posted by Knicknack
i think the reason black people are physically more fit than whites in America is something a little more test worthy than "evolution."

back when slavery was popular all the weak and physically unfit blacks died off quickly. what was left was an amazing crop of black folk with incredible bodies capable of withstanding heat and maximizing muscle use.
that part is true also. it was hitlers theories put too use centurys before his time. selective breeding. My mom always said the darker the berry the sweeter the juice...that has been said for centuries.

but the issue is butt enjoyment. black women have large butts as well as black men. white folks do not. so we tend to like what we know. (generalizations here nothing more).
 

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Whats up guys i saw this post and thought it was great. Im a white guy and thought I might be able to put a few observations in. I have some black friends and when we go out we always start to talk about woman. And here are some of teh things we came up with.
1st. Have you seen the new video where Murphy Lee, Diddy and Nelly are sitting at a counter talking about what kind of girls they like? Right after they mention what things they like on a woman, their ideal chick walks by. I think its Murphy Lee who says he likes a girl who has a nice round butt and thick legs. And here comes the girl with all kinds of *** and leg. If you look she has all kinds of cellulite on her *** and legs. She dosnt even have a great looking face compared to the two other beauties. If a white girl had a body like hers she would look terrible. And heres why. Skin color helps hide many imperfections on a person. Like when I dont go tanning for awhile i tend to look flabby and loose but when Im tan my body looks smoother and more tone hiding imperfections. Black girls can have more fat on their legs and butt and still not look obese due to the darker skin blending the cellulite out.

2nd The white girls that date black guys around here are usually big bottomed girls. Even girls that would not usually date black guys due to what ever reason eventually do, because of lack of success with the white guys due to their lack of a nice body.

3rd Who are the most attractive black woman in the world? Correct me if im wrong, Halley Barry, Bionce Knowls, Naomie Cambell. All of these girls have what would be considered "white" features, straight hair, small narrow nose, nice equal curves. If a big butt and thick legs are truly the optimal black woman why isnt Queen Latifa, and Missy Elliot considered the benchmark for black beauty?

I personally have dated black woman, but, they had what I would consider "white" features. Thats just my personal taste.
 

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For me is the way it is formed: round, firm and the way the thong look too:p.

I just can't do someone with no ass. When you hit from the back, her spine show like a stegosaurous. :eek:

When I say fat ass, I'm talking about something that is nice and plump but at the same time tone up.


But like I said to each his own.
 
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Originally posted by Eyecandie4ya
For me is the way it is formed: round, firm and the way the thong look too:p.

I just can't do someone with no ass. When you hit from the back, her spine show like a stegosaurous. :eek:

When I say fat ass, I'm talking about something that is nice and plump but at the same time tone up.


But like I said to each his own.
You sound like a playa I know who used MackDaddyAtl as his handle.
 
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Originally posted by torqueboxer



****2nd , because of lack of success with the white guys due to their lack of a nice body.

I think they have nice bodies...I don't think skinny starving ones have nice bodies. I think like eyecandie said it's yo own prefference. but your right about the bigg butted ones who can't find white dudes to f*uck them...and there us brotha's looking for that type. Yeah Baby!

*****3rd Who are the most attractive black woman in the world? Correct me if im wrong, Halley Barry, Bionce Knowls, Naomie Cambell. All of these girls have what would be considered "white" features, straight hair, small narrow nose, nice equal curves. If a big butt and thick legs are truly the optimal black woman why isnt Queen Latifa, and Missy Elliot considered the benchmark for black beauty?

you forgot about the african looking sista's like vivica fox and all the others who are popular with the brotha's. How about byonce who has a big butt and large tit's..even though she wears those stupid weaves.
 

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Originally posted by Knicknack
i think the reason black people are physically more fit than whites in America is something a little more test worthy than "evolution."

LOL, thats hilarious. First of all, black people, on average, are no way even CLOSE to white people when it comes to health. They are, on average, when compared to whites,
1. More overweight
2. Die younger
3. More succeptable to cancer
4. More succeptable to heart disease
5. More succeptable to diabetes
6. Larger percentage of obesity

Most peoples viewpoints are skewed because they see black athletes on TV. But in reality, thats less than 1 percent of the population. Both black men and women are, in general, are less likely to compete in sports, more obese and at a greater risk for nearly every common disease known.

LOL with that out of the way, I think it comes down to this. White men, in general, are EXTREMELY sensitive to other people opinions of their girlfriends. Black men, in general, are not. Thus, white men are always searching for the hottest, thinnest, most athletically attractive person they can find. Black people, there more likely to date whomever they want to and could care less of what people think about who they date. So they don't mind a girl with a big as s and a few extra pounds. A white guy? He wants as a trim fit girl as he can score.
 

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Matters on the ass. I know a girl who has a medium sized ass and its nice and firm not fat.

Fat= bad

Muscle= Perfect.

So i a white boy like big asses that have a good amount of muscle in them.
 

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I just love Italian girls...Mmmm, so sexy. :D
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Originally posted by torqueboxer


*****3rd Who are the most attractive black woman in the world? Correct me if im wrong, Halley Barry, Bionce Knowls, Naomie Cambell. All of these girls have what would be considered "white" features, straight hair, small narrow nose, nice equal curves. If a big butt and thick legs are truly the optimal black woman why isnt Queen Latifa, and Missy Elliot considered the benchmark for black beauty?

you forgot about the african looking sista's like vivica fox and all the others who are popular with the brotha's. How about byonce who has a big butt and large tit's..even though she wears those stupid weaves.
The thing is Halle Berry and Beyonce Knowles are both of black-white mixed parents, so not exactly fully black. I think Naomi Campbell probably is though. However, Halle Berry is one of the hottest women on the planet, and I think that black-white mixes (or any mixed race for that matter) always tend to look better than a pure race.
 
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