Curious about what made you change

[Aantwerp]

Hello all this will be my first post after reading the DJ bible .
I ended up here like most i guess being friends zoned by that one beautiful girl I devoted all my time too making sure my farts smelled like unicorns and rainbows everytime I was with her. but got torn appart when she said LJBF .

Read the DJ bible after this and now I can't even stand being at the same party as her seeing how she manipulated me

Now my question to you is kinda prior to this post
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/what-does-the-red-pill-mean-to-you.237395/

When did you're eyes open that red pill was the way to go from experiences and succes (preferably )
Think we heard enough sob story's

 

[dustmuffin]

I got dumped.

 

[Juanto]

Was unsure whether to dump or not

 

[SmooveMooves]

Girl ran all over me in the relationship. I showered her with "I love yous" & constantly texted her 24/7 with lols, smilies, etc. I think if I had of been texting I'M DESPERATE it wouldn't have been any different.

Eventually she stopped wanting to see me to which I begged her. "But please, I'm your boyfriend!" said SmooveMooves. After seeing me one last time she told me we were better as friends, my life was destroyed. I was depressed for months. Best moment in my life.

 

[narcissist]

Read the 48 laws of power. Then got cheated on.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I always kind of knew that something wasn't right with how the typical woman is vs how she is 'supposed' to be, same with men. After reading all this, it just made me embrace what I already knew and made me completely unafraid to go against the societal expectation of how you are supposed to treat women. I now know how to turn it around and flip the faults onto SJWs in a socially acceptable and understandable way if I am to be confronted for my ways too.

Overall I just applied some of the stuff I read here into the real world and saw results right away. Never looking back.

 

[Infern0]

Well I was raised HARD blue pill, my mum is crazy, emotionally unstable feminist and my dad a completely broken AFC

Anyway all the way until I was about 25 I just didn't know where I was going wrong, as I'm decent looking, athletic, guy and I treated women so well, why couldn't I get past the first 1 r 2 dates? Meanwhile guys who were far, shall we say "genetically inferior" had the girls I liked chasing them!!!

It'd be like I'd get initial interest from hot chicks but within a few weeks they would be seeing some guy who looked like he hadn't washed in months or ever set foot in a gym, and they'd be trying to set me up with their "nice" fat friend. And I'd be like WTF happened.

(Mr unwashed pencil neck was more alpha than me and knew how to treat a woman just the way they want...)

It was only after I got ****ing savaged by a bpd (diagnosed) and a bloke I met online had a word with me that I finally realized there was something badly wrong with the way I was going about things.

Found sosuave not long after, got the red pill down and haven't looked back.

It was a long hard road though for sure, I'm thinking of doing a youtube series "the AFC diaries" of all my stories.

 

[Skyline]

Had a 'relationship' with a girl in another state. Didn't work out and she cheated on me. Found te 'No Contact' thread and other various posts about psychology and personality disorders here.

I was 17 when I that happened and joined.

 

[Roober]

Well, everyone here probably created a thread about it...Mine is pretty straight forward like everyone else's...

April - Started out hot and heavy. Got constant texts, professed our love for each other, everything felt soooo fvcking perfect.

July - she became a little distant. We talked and "she wanted space", but we stayed together.

August - still pretty good, probably because we didn't get to talk much with busy schedules

September - She started getting much more distant. I was perplexed because I went on a weekend getaway with her best friend this month, and she setup a really nice dinner to meet her parents. I think she still had hope at this point. I had two "needy" breakdowns.

October - Distance got even worse, often not talking on weekends we weren't together. Which is okay for a normal person. Had another breakdown where I called her like 12 times one night... sigh... this is probably where she gave up...

Started googling what to do when she gets distant and I ended up here... Started a thread and the guys pretty much told me it's over, but I tried to be more aloof for two weeks. She said she "wants to be single" about two weeks ago. Hurts like all get out, but I am just going through the process.

Long story short, if I was mentally stronger, I would have backed off a while ago and we would probably still be together. Not saying it would have lasted, but it wouldn't have resulted in her losing complete respect for me. I think the mixed signals is what had me really perplexed. In reality, I believe she really loved me but began to realize that I was emotionally weak.


I will be better for it as it was a great learning experience. If she cut it off months ago, I wouldn't have learned anything. Looking at DJ bible.... I made sooooo many mistakes.... so many....

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

My wife was being a ***** despite us both doing marriage counselling and all that ****. After a vuolebt breakup someone suggested I read the red pill. Made sense, read that, and seduction on reddir. Next women I asked out, said she had a boyfriend, I persisted, she gave up the number. Hmmm I thought to myself. The old me would have juat backed off.
Next women I farked I told her I wasn't interested un being exclusive. She accepted it (not that she had a choice).

I learned that women are willing to share a man that gives them tingles than I realised.