funny and true story.
My ex GF had this obsession with Pharrell of the Neptunes. I mean all she could talk about was him, and don't let one of his songs come on the radio. had all of their CD's, hell she even had all of the songs he made beats for other people for.
She is from VA, so one day we decide, out of the blue, hey, let's go see your sisters and neices in VA. So we on a whem, fly down there for the weekend, and both of her older sisters want to go clubbin.
SO i say, what the hell, and we go out. I forgot the name of the place.
anyway, it was packed, and about an hour after we get there, just guess who she runs into.
I guess he lived there or something.
Anyway, I could care less, I mean I like his music and all but i mean.. he's a dude.
So I am on the dancefloor and my GF at the time is at the bar and he is actually hitting on her.
So they chit chat for a while and like 10 mintues later she comes and finds me on the dance floor.
So I ask her "isn't she going to leave with her BF?" (Because in all honestly, bull**** aside.. I would have had a tough decision to make if I would have saw say.. Jennifer Ellison and she was clearly interested in me.. That would have been the moment of truth for our relationship)
Of course in a joking manner
So she says that he's cute and all but she for some reason she wasn't feeling him like she though she would. She said that every other word that came out of his mouth was he was pharrell and he was rich.. knowing my GF at the time, I knew what they wouldn't work. She excused herself from him and came to dance with me.
In short, it's just a fantasy, even if they don't realize it. All you can know is how someone looks, you have no idea what they are like outside of the camera, or how their personalitiies are.
I know a couple of players in the NBA, one of them, who's a pretty well known player, you wouldn't even be able to tell he was famous or rich unless he told you.. or unless you realized he was 6'8 and about 230 and drove expensive cars.. Extremely down to earth. There have been towns he would be in town and we would run into each other and just kick it, come over my house, go over his house, go out, doesn't matter. Doesn't throw what he does into every converstation
I have a cousin, who played for Arkansas but isn't in the NBA, and you would think he is Tim Duncan or something, he's the biggest prema donna i know. He plays in the NBDL... it's so bad that he leases a car that I don't know how he pays for it, guess his parents, just so he can live up to the hype. I went out with him one time and he was telling this girl he was in the league.. I mean, he is 6'10 and dresses nice, so I mean, it's believable, but he's not.
Different people have different personalities, and that can't be factored in unless you meet someone
