Crossing the line

[whir]

Guys need some pointers here

How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..

recently I encounterd this problem...When I act like a super alpha male and super not desperate and challenging guy...Many girls appreciated me but they dont take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...And when I act im sweet to a girl and show that im serious they think youre freaking desperate or just sudenly losse their interest when they knew you like them..


ahhhhhh guys help me guide me..How should i balance this...

 

[edmond]

Just be friendly and casual, there is no need to be a clown or pimp.

 

[nvictor]

To get her into you, demonstrate value. Show her you can teach her a lot.
Look straight in her eyes: "I can tell, just by looking into your eyes that you're such and such... because I'm little like that, or because I have a sister that..." The idea is to build rapport, connection, spark emotion. Nothing builds rapport like psychology stuff.

 

[aelux]

My own experience has been that girls like me fine when I get my defenses down. The problem is when I become defensive... and defensive can be overdoing the alpha attitude in a subconscious attempt to control rather than seduce the girl.

 

[Kings_royalty]

How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..


Do what I posted above, and she'll know you are not desperate. She has to do something that warrants your affection or interest. Don't start showing either one just because she's 'pretty'.

She can do something small like give you good eye contact (girls flirt with their eyes), or offer to pay for something, give you KINO, maybe she cooks you dinner, or just calls to say hi. See what I'm saying? Don't give your affection away for free, ever.

Many girls appreciated me but they don’t take me seriously they thought im freaking womanizer and just playing with them...

Whatever dude, if a girl calls you a womanizer or player, respond with 'yeah, what's your point'. Show her you don't care what SHE thinks. You will get allot further with this attitude.

 

[Jack McCrack]

Edmond put it nicely.

There's no need to be a clown or pimp. Just simpy be.

 

[whir]

How to be sweet to a girl without looking like doormat...

When she has earned it.

How to show youre interested in her without looking like a desperate fool..

Same as above, she has to work for it.

How to show youre not desperate but at the same time youre serious about her (even though youre really not)..

Guys thanx for the replies...What is the signs that she earns it could you set an example of scenario..and how do alpha males do sweetness that not cheesy?

 

[donpepot]

still waiting for a good answer