Thank you
@Zimbabwe @SetinStone22 @Pan87 @Family Man for spending your time responding to this thread. The consensus answer, which I agree with, is that she is no longer interested really. I am in the feminine position right now by reacting negatively to her not responding. As a rule of thumb, any girl who doesn't respond and I have to double text, is gone 95% of the time. If I do text again, it's simply to test new texting ideas/sequences.
I read back through it and came up with the following ideas for improvement:
Image 1, when she asked for my card, instead of saying "nice to meet you", say something cheeky like "Hit me up if you ever want to buy that motorhome and need insurance"... We talked briefly about motorhomes, and this would spark a conversation easily.
Image 1, remove "i have a question"(self explainatory)
Image 2, after hella energy, don't go for the close there, say instead "Yea when I'm super happy and feeling myself I think I could squat 1000 pounds" or something similar. Basically a statement agreeing and amplifying.
Image 2, after "how are you", don't reply logically to her. Instead, "i saw a commercial for (lifting product) and thought of you" or something, basically a statement
Image 3, "Don't work too hard" or something to that effect, not a question. Basically in all the texts, less questions, more statements that amplify what she is saying and puts your own twist on it.
She went cold. You have your answer man.
If a girl goes cold then it's over, unless SHE decides that she wants to revisit it. There's this idea in PUA that you can turn a cold girl into a Yes girl with PUA magic. Incorrect. Once she's decided she's not attracted to you then your only move is to disappear.
If you want a girl to be attracted to you, then you have to get it right from the beginning. If you cold approach, get a number, she goes cold, then you have to match her and go cold too. Women absolutely despise persistent guys who can't take a hint. Your value tumbles ever lower with each successive attempt you make.
You want her to be chasing you. You want her wondering why YOU have gone cold.
You're basically in the feminine position at the moment, freaking out over what she thinks about you. Men don't do that.
Absolutely bro. Thank you for replying.
There were some mistakes up front that have already been covered, but at the end when she said 8am...
you said 'oh nvm nxt week then.'
In a way, you blew her off. You could've set it up for 7am.
I could have made that "nvm" text sound a bit better, I agree. But I'm not waking up early to meet a girl for coffee because there is 0 chance of escalation(she has work) and I value my sleep more than a date with a girl who is being difficult(like this one).
Double text doesnt mean anything with 100% of women. With some women, they want to test you by seeing if you're really serious about them or you simply approach many girls and crack whatever one comes easy. So they'll purposely ignore a text or two , especially initially to see how you react. ---- The spectrum goin from dudes who get pis.ssed and say some insultin sht to the girl, to guys who simply dont text again and leave the balll in her court completely.. you fell right in the middle which aint bad
But besides dat homie, ya text game comes off as super eager.. You coulda let the convo cook more, develop some rapport and curiosity.
Always incite curiosity and interest in a woman first, then everything else comes easy.
To each their own when it comes to style but---- Why i dont like this type of game that u runnin is simple: You really never make ya intention wit the woman clear cut. and thats fine.. With abundance comes more risk anyways. For me, I try to make it as clear as possible int he way i talk to them... but check-- the way i come across to a woman is gon be diff than you do-- cuz i talk a certain way, dress a certain way-- my whole aura speaks purveyor of sexual pleasure and fun, excitement and not much else--
so what i want you to know is--: you can be a bit more flirty dawg, aint no trouble in that-- you can be flirty with out bein eager.. a slight flirtacious comment jus gives her the hint that she understands where this sht goes.. so he doesnt think ur jus some weirdo who wants to meet and talk to her just cuz u really are lonely and have no friends or something
--Lastly, I want you to know when she said "I didnt get the business card" this was yo queue to tell her, while you are an insurance dude, you really trna insure that body of hers before u break it in-- but in the nicest way possible you fill me? she was testin u to see if u was cappin or what your intention was... when she replied There ya gooo it just feels like she was like "oh he was serious... i thought he was being clever and cunning to get what he really wants which is me"
Agree that I need to be less eager. I should have matched her mood.
Agree about her "forgetting". I already had a feeling on that double text it was dead, but I'm persistent regardless.
I don't really do calls because I'm talking to mostly college aged women who never call anyone
Agree. "forgetting" doesn't happen if a girl really likes you.
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