Crazy ex called me yesterday!!

[PTC]

My crazy ex called me yesterday morning while I was at work. I almost didn't answer the phone but my curiosity got the best of me. As soon as I answered I could tell by the tone of her voice she was pissed about something.
She's a hairstylist and she told me the last few weeks she has cut 3 diff guys hair that work for metro narcotics here where i live and she told me that they have been hearing that I've been telling police officers around town that the reason she left me and went back to her husband was because she was doing drugs!! hahaha First of all that was total bullsh!t, i couldn't believe what i was hearing. I do know alot of officers, city and state but i never talked to them about her!! I do live in a small town and most all my cop friends know my ex because her brother was a cop.
I was so pissed off I hung up on her and called my friend at Metro Narcotics which happens to be the head guy and told him what some of his guys were spreading around town. He told me "Dont worry about it PTC I'm going to take care of it right now." So she's in some **** now I'm sure. hehe I also called her mom and told her to tell her to quit calling me.

Now either she was trying to bluff me, which she is really good at or she was telling the truth.

Why would she call me and tell me that??

crazy...

 

[KontrollerX]

Her phone call acheived its purpose.

She effected you enough to make you angry even if the anger was short lived.

Thats what a Cluster B does when you are the one to leave them.

They will make many headaches for you if they can't hoover you back in.

Some tactics are worse then others ie claiming you raped them or something to get you in legal trouble.

 

[jophil28]

Her phone call acheived its purpose.

She effected you enough to make you angry even if the anger was short lived.

Thats what a Cluster B does when you are the one to leave them.

They will make many headaches for you if they can't hoover you back in.

Some tactics are worse then others ie claiming you raped them or something to get you in legal trouble.

Read what Kontroller X wrote above PTC - it is what PErsonality Disorderd women do when they get dumped. She is Lucifer's daughter. LOngterm,you dodged a bullet man. Imagine living with that banshee....

 

[penkitten]

drama queen, drama queen , where for art thou drama queen?
wtf would it matter if you told some officer friend of your that she left you bc she was doing drugs and going back to her ex hubby?
she can not prove you said it, it did not seem to hurt her business because she is still working, and no one went to search her house and came out empty handed.

she is creating drama for some attention.

do not continue to speak to her. block her number if you must, but that girl ain't nothing but trouble.

 

[PTC]

Believe me I see that more than ever now!!! U know its funny when the new sex phase hits you you dont see how crazy they really are or your blind to it! The way she's acted after i let her go is scary. It's amazing how well they hide it!!

Now I thank the lord that I didn't marry her. She's crazy!!!

 

[penkitten]

U know its funny when the new sex phase hits you you dont see how crazy they really are or your blind to it! The way she's acted after i let her go is scary. It's amazing how well they hide it!!
!

i call this the 90 day probation period.
no one shows their honest true colors in a brand new relationship for at least 90 days.
that is why it is crucial to date someone for a while to get to know them before you start moving in with them or marrying them.

 

[joekerr31]

well she never really hide it, you just didn't want to see it.

im glad you've updated us on your story. you are a great example of a guy who took the advice here to heart, even though it hurt, and how you saved yourself a bullet to the head as a result.

as for her calling you. chics like this just like to stay connected, they want to know how you are doing.

now you might say 'but how can she know how im doing from a 30 second phone call?"

chics know how you are doing by how you handle them. like if you had just hung up that would tell her one thing. if you tried to explain yourself and got into a long drawn out convo that would tell her another. if you raised your voice versus laughed at the whole matter that tells her another.

you handled it well though. you kept it short and got her off the phone. she knows you're your own man now and that her p*ssy power over you is gone.

trust me, that is going to REALLY piss her off

 

[joekerr31]

oh as for the 'new sex phase' and how it blinds men, its the number one issue that men have in relating to women.

if it weren't for the p*ssy power women would be f*cked with a capital F in this world.

this is why a woman has to break a man down before she removes the p*ssy. she has to make sure he's a good little afc that will never leave before she cuts down on his supply.

kind of sad when you think about it, the degree to which women will consciously use their p*ssy to get what they want.

thats why spin plates and they lose all power.

 

[MacAvoy]

she won, she achieved her purpose. you bought the bait

 

[PTC]

im glad you've updated us on your story. you are a great example of a guy who took the advice here to heart, even though it hurt, and how you saved yourself a bullet to the head as a result.

Yes I have to admit it was hard the first couple of weeks where all u think about is the good qualities u THINK she had but then u start thinkin about all the red flags and the crazy sh!t she did. And now,...well its a blessing cause i have really seen her horns come out and have seen what type of person she really is!! heartless!!

And yes she may have won that one minute she called me and tried to chew on me but in the end she's the loser not me