N2Deeep
Don Juan
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https://therationalmale.com/2013/06/26/you-need-sex/
I am intrigued by this line in this post on The Rational Male:
"on a core level, women are psychologically insulted by men who actively desexualize themselves in order to get with them. Despite every verbal protestation women can muster, women are aroused by, and ego-affirmed by, Men who unashamedly display the covert social cues of wanting to **** them."
Recently, during my hours of web camming conversing one chick told me that leaning in close while in conversation is a good way of displaying sexual interest. She did stress not too close. Also she advised that "penetrating eye contact" was something I should adopt.. but not too penetrating where it gets creepy and lastly, she advised that I glance from her eyes to her lips while the woman is talking.
What do you guys think of this? My issue, as I have explained is that without intentionally wanting to, I give off a "let's be friends" vibe. I can chat up a woman at a bar anywhere from between 5 mins to an hour or more... Ultimately though, I go home alone and from my own sel analysis, I think its because Im not giving off the "covert social cues" that I need to because women "feel" while men "think". My logical brain is not tapping into women's emotions which triggers their sexual desires.
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated
I am intrigued by this line in this post on The Rational Male:
"on a core level, women are psychologically insulted by men who actively desexualize themselves in order to get with them. Despite every verbal protestation women can muster, women are aroused by, and ego-affirmed by, Men who unashamedly display the covert social cues of wanting to **** them."
Recently, during my hours of web camming conversing one chick told me that leaning in close while in conversation is a good way of displaying sexual interest. She did stress not too close. Also she advised that "penetrating eye contact" was something I should adopt.. but not too penetrating where it gets creepy and lastly, she advised that I glance from her eyes to her lips while the woman is talking.
What do you guys think of this? My issue, as I have explained is that without intentionally wanting to, I give off a "let's be friends" vibe. I can chat up a woman at a bar anywhere from between 5 mins to an hour or more... Ultimately though, I go home alone and from my own sel analysis, I think its because Im not giving off the "covert social cues" that I need to because women "feel" while men "think". My logical brain is not tapping into women's emotions which triggers their sexual desires.
Any feedback would be greatly appreciated
