couldnt go inside her

joe45

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had sex with gf yesterday and i did everything like foreplay kiss on neck lick her down there just **** area or around but i couldnt get 2 fingers in. i just could get 25% of my 2 index and middle finger in and if i tried to go more in she says its pain. same went for my penis just like not even enter and she says pain.
i also use lube and nothing much.she says she inexperienced sexually but not virgin and im not a big **** either or fat fingers.
we went out 6xs . what can i do know. i cant get my penis into her since i think maybe her vagina muscle is clencing or closing it off.

i did my best and im also inexperienced.from sucking nipples to neck ......etc
she is early 20s and im early 30s

do you think she clenching her vagina muscles on purpose so i cant enter. is that even possible for a girl to do. i dont know since im a guy and inexperience about women parts. i didnt want to penetrate her since she say it hurt. i did everything possible from lube, foreplay and you name it.
she did say its kind of fast what we are doing . we went out out already 6xs and i notice she lies to me sometimes as her stories dont always add up and a lot of hestiation
 

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It's probably her birth control that is causing pain. I don't think it's widely known that BC can cause serious pain down there. Of course she should see her dr but I'm sure this is the problem
 

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This sounds like the exact situation I was in with my current GF.

Women who haven't had sex for quite a while (6 months or more) or have not had too many partners in life (which sounds like your girl because of her age and conservativeness) would have her vaginal canal much tighter due to not having been 'exercised' best way to describe it.

Also if she was a shy person who is not used to sexual intercourse, and shy by personality, that also contributes to her inability to relax which is pertinent to allowing her vaginal canal to accept you.

Those 2 factors would make the first few initial attempts to have intercourse very uncomfortable. It would be very tight for you in the first 10 times or so but eventually she will 'adjust' down there.

This is from personal experience and not some Urban Legend.

Good luck.

Exodus
 

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you gotta get her comfortable to get her juicies flowing, then you'll slip right into heaven.

Maybe more foreplay
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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^^ What gotED said, I experienced this with a girl last year, she was also pretty small (5'3")
 

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my **** can break through any *****, especially virgin *****
 

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Fatal Jay said:
my **** can break through any *****, especially virgin *****
What is this, Mad Libs?

I need a noun... ;)
 
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