Ok chumps. If you are intelligent enough to grasp this concept, then all these useless crap posts and replies we have now will be eliminated. Oh yeah, for all of you b1tches complaining about getting used all the time, this is your solution, unless you yourself are the user. Then you are crazy and shouldnt read any further.
I have a seemingly unique ability to read people and more usefully, read girls.
The key to being able to read anyone is to simply ask yourself Why? Why is the key, remember that.
Realise this. Everyone, yes EVERYONE has an agenda. But this agenda more often than not is a secret kept only in that persons mind. They will try to achieve this agenda always, and they will try and hide this agenda from everyone else. Interesting, no? These people will try and bend you to them, in order to achieve their agenda. They will drill you for information in a concealed manner, to try and trick you into helping them with their goal.
Information is power, remember?
Ok you understand now that everyone has their own agenda (including you). But what you dont yet know is how to detect what their agenda is, and when they are trying to manipulate you in order to achieve it.
And by the way, there are many crazy people and girls in this world(yes even hot girls), their agendas will also be crazy and you will not understand them because insanity is impossible to understand. If a you detect a crazy person is trying to manipulate you and use you to complete their insane agendas the only thing you can do is cut off contact from this crazy person(girl).
This is how you detect a persons agenda. You MUST analyze any communication, verbal and non-verbal, that comes from that person directed at you or anyone else. There are patterns of normal conversation. These normal conversation patterns are logical.
Examples: Having fun, making jokes, being silly etc.
Questions with clear and explicit meaning. Such as, "Wheres the ketchup?". Obviously a person asking you this will most often have only one agenda in mind with it, but there are always exceptions.
Talking about girls is a mission related and or bragging conversation. Bragging isnt necessarily a bad thing among friends tho. If the person talking to you about girls isnt your friend, then that person most definitely does have a hidden agenda.
Trying to find something fun to do. Like say, Lets play halo. Do you want to go surfing? How about some hold 'em this friday?
Thats all straight talk, i realise you knew that but i had to make the contrast clear.
Keep in mind all of these quotes are situational based and the meanings will be hard to communicate.
A girl you've gone on a few dates says "Me and my friend Justin hung out today at the beach and had so much fun". Theres a red flag. Immediately you should ask yourself these questions. Were we just talking about the beach? Does it relate to our conversation in any applicable, fun or mission related way?
If no, then ask yourself then why should she state this information. What was her agenda. What reaction did she expect you to show after this statement. What did she want to see?
Most likely it was to see if you got jealous or not. She was trying to establish your interest-level in HER by testing you to see if you got jealous. Do not give her this information, remember, information is power. Do not let her weild power. If she is trying to obtain it, she will manipulate you with it. Instead respond in puzzlement, with such aloof words as "Ok" or "thats cool". Do not let her know that you know her game. She will change it and hide it if she thinks you are on to her.
Sick **** isnt it?
im bored of writing this now, but you get the idea. Just look for things that dont "fit". Things that arent logical to say, that serve no apparent purpose. Then analyze them for meaning. Never give up the information if you dont have to.
if you want more help, IM me. YogurtTastesGo0d
the 0 is a zero.
I have a seemingly unique ability to read people and more usefully, read girls.
The key to being able to read anyone is to simply ask yourself Why? Why is the key, remember that.
Realise this. Everyone, yes EVERYONE has an agenda. But this agenda more often than not is a secret kept only in that persons mind. They will try to achieve this agenda always, and they will try and hide this agenda from everyone else. Interesting, no? These people will try and bend you to them, in order to achieve their agenda. They will drill you for information in a concealed manner, to try and trick you into helping them with their goal.
Information is power, remember?
Ok you understand now that everyone has their own agenda (including you). But what you dont yet know is how to detect what their agenda is, and when they are trying to manipulate you in order to achieve it.
And by the way, there are many crazy people and girls in this world(yes even hot girls), their agendas will also be crazy and you will not understand them because insanity is impossible to understand. If a you detect a crazy person is trying to manipulate you and use you to complete their insane agendas the only thing you can do is cut off contact from this crazy person(girl).
This is how you detect a persons agenda. You MUST analyze any communication, verbal and non-verbal, that comes from that person directed at you or anyone else. There are patterns of normal conversation. These normal conversation patterns are logical.
Examples: Having fun, making jokes, being silly etc.
Questions with clear and explicit meaning. Such as, "Wheres the ketchup?". Obviously a person asking you this will most often have only one agenda in mind with it, but there are always exceptions.
Talking about girls is a mission related and or bragging conversation. Bragging isnt necessarily a bad thing among friends tho. If the person talking to you about girls isnt your friend, then that person most definitely does have a hidden agenda.
Trying to find something fun to do. Like say, Lets play halo. Do you want to go surfing? How about some hold 'em this friday?
Thats all straight talk, i realise you knew that but i had to make the contrast clear.
Keep in mind all of these quotes are situational based and the meanings will be hard to communicate.
A girl you've gone on a few dates says "Me and my friend Justin hung out today at the beach and had so much fun". Theres a red flag. Immediately you should ask yourself these questions. Were we just talking about the beach? Does it relate to our conversation in any applicable, fun or mission related way?
If no, then ask yourself then why should she state this information. What was her agenda. What reaction did she expect you to show after this statement. What did she want to see?
Most likely it was to see if you got jealous or not. She was trying to establish your interest-level in HER by testing you to see if you got jealous. Do not give her this information, remember, information is power. Do not let her weild power. If she is trying to obtain it, she will manipulate you with it. Instead respond in puzzlement, with such aloof words as "Ok" or "thats cool". Do not let her know that you know her game. She will change it and hide it if she thinks you are on to her.
Sick **** isnt it?
im bored of writing this now, but you get the idea. Just look for things that dont "fit". Things that arent logical to say, that serve no apparent purpose. Then analyze them for meaning. Never give up the information if you dont have to.
if you want more help, IM me. YogurtTastesGo0d
the 0 is a zero.
