Convo with Young Girls

[al77]

I noticed quite a lot of us, mature guys here love to pick up young women (21-24) for an obvious reason: good sexy body...

But guys, how can you handle women who are dumb and cannot hold a convo?

Example, I talked to some 23 y.o. girl:

In the middle of the convo after a small pause:
....
She: whats up
Me: up? The ceiling!
She: nothing
She: you there
...


At least from this forum I see guys at 20-24 are much more mature than girls at this age.
Just curious how do you older guys can date young girls... is it a constant action date when you dont have to talk at all and next stop is right at your bedroom?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I approach dating younger girls thinking that they just want me for sex, an experience, self validation, etc. Basically, I believe that younger girls will want to go out with an older guy for any reason other than for a relationship.

I don't try to connect with them on any level other than superficial. Most younger girls are very simple. Say to her: 'I love ice cream' . She'll probably respond with, 'OH, I LOVE CHOCOLATE ICE CREAM' - If you agree with her, by saying 'oh thats my fav too' it'll be a connection that she'll think is just super kewl lol. That kind of conversational agreement is big with them. Try not to disagree with them about anything. When I initailly meet one, I smile, laugh and talk with them, but don't go into my personal beliefs or anything that could be remotely 'deep'.

I don't use witty banter as they're probably not as good at it as I am, so it'll just confuse them. Of course, unless she initiates it. I stay away with clowning around with them. I'm just a nice guy who asks them tons of questions about themselves and gets them talking about what they want to talk about and BAM! I'm banging them

I try to stay simple, ask questions about them, don't talk about myself too much other than a few positive comments here and there and I'm good.

My goal with them is to get them back to my place alone (ASAP) and commence make-out session followed by deal closing :cheer:

Godspeed,

Eric

 

[bud1971]

A wise friend of mine once told me that the fastest way to get in a girls pants, whether she is 18 or 80......is to ask her about her relationship with her mother.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
I approach dating younger girls thinking that they just want me for sex, an experience, self validation, etc. Basically, I believe that younger girls will want to go out with an older guy for any reason other than for a relationship.

I don't try to connect with them on any level other than superficial.

Eric,

That was a great post! Very clear and very efficient.


... I am just scared really to fvck somebody so young that she doesn't get what I am saying. I'd prefer than not to talk to her at all... that would be easier.
Anyway, probably this is AFC in me talking...I need at least some connection with her cuz she would not be interesting after one date\one fvck.

So I conclude it is probably something wrong with me since I tend to be too picky...What should I do?
Maybe it is due to low testosterone level that I simply dont find attractive girls who are dumb?
What are ways to increase the level of testosterone?


bud1971:
When I ask her, she usually says "Oh, my mum is my best friend.. blah blah". How does it help to...?

 

[iveyleeger]

Great post, Eric! It is almost zen-like. Total opposite of me, I will have to try it.

Bud -- I didn't get the thing about asking a girl about her mother. Can you elaborate on that?

I ran into a girl at supermarket last night, she was talking on the phone with her mother when she walked in, though she didn't necessarily know that I heard her. I figured I should stay far away from the subject altogether -- it is of course death to mention your *own* mother to a girl in any situation -- but maybe that was a missed opportunity???

 

[bud1971]

It was actually a joke between us, because it seemed that a really high percentage of girls have issues with their mothers and would carry on for hours about it.

 

[bud1971]

I was seeing this hot 19y.o. not too long ago. My take on things is that you should always be yourself. Any young chick that is talking with a guy over 30 doesn't expect him to act like he is 19.

I did notice when I was being C/F that I could not incorporate 70's and 80's TV references.

This chick tried the let's just be friends thing, and I told her that we could not talk any more because I had enough friends and I was not interested in her for just friendship, and it worked.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by bud1971
I was seeing this hot 19y.o. not too long ago. My take on things is that you should always be yourself. Any young chick that is talking with a guy over 30 doesn't expect him to act like he is 19.

Yes, it might be a good idea to talk to her about her mum. Probably about her whole family would be good as well.
But usually any kind of girls at almost any age love to talk about her family.
As sombody said here women are simple, they talked only about 3 topics in mind:
1. Relationships
2. Materialism
3. Any kind of celebrities

So my point it does work to talk to her about her mum, though it would probably work for many women in different age categories...
What are the other good topics to talk about with young women?
...Ice cream was a good one!

 

[gixxer]

I usually talk about sex with them once they bring it up. This cutie little 18 y/o just sent me some nasty pics of her that her bf took last night?!?!?!?!?

They love to talk about sex - just let them bring it up first!

She keeps telling me that we can only be friends because of my age and her bf and I just lay back and let her mail me and pursue me - which she does.

I actually asked her if she wanted to help me mess with a girl and told her to post a comment to my myspace page about how hot she thinks I am and how she wants me. She did! There's no other girl I just wanted a comment like that from a hottie for all the other hotties to see

Also have a 20 y/o and a 19 y/o that claims to love rough sex in the pipeline

gixx