Convo with new girl....tell me if i did good

[Legend]

Did i do good....i ahve only talked to this girl one other time.

Grl: i think i'm catchin a cold (
Me: yeah today was'nt the best day
Me: a good night sleep will take care of that
Grl: noo sir
Grl: i hope so
Me: i am sorta stressed
Me:with finals coming up....i'm really not prepared
Grl: yea i'm gettin a little crazy about that too
Me: did you have to work today?
Grl: oh did i ever
Grl: it suuuucked
Me: what!!
Grl: yup
Me: that must have been the hot spot in danbury with all this snow
Me: the minute i see a snow storm....i must get my nails done and a tan=o)
Grl: lol
Grl: you said it buddy
Me: are you a big fan of snow
Grl yup "o)
Grl )
Me: yeah me too
Grl: when i dont have to go anywhere or have anything to do, but when i have to shovel my car out to get to work, that just sucks
ME: aww
Me: you shovelled out your own car
Grl: well i started but then some dude saw me and he did it for me
ME: yeah damsel in distress
ME=o)
GRL: haha yup
GRL: thats me
GRL:shoveling snow isnt exactly my specialty
MEh really
ME : see i would have thought it was
GRL: lol yea you know, all 100 pounds of me, i can really haul that stuff
ME :you weigh only 100 pounds
GRL: 104
ME: thats cute
ME: guess my weight
GRL: i have no idea, i'm so bad at that
ME: true plus you dont really know me
ME: so i'll tell ya
ME: 110
GRL: no you dont
ME: ok ok..i cant fool ya
ME: 105
GRL: shuuuuut up
GRL: you do not
ME: yeah i know
ME: i'm about 190
ME: its beacuse i'm super tall at 5' and three quarters=o)
GRL: lol
ME: what are you doing now?
ME: its getting late....normally all the good girls are in bed sleeping
ME: i'm doing school work
GRL: i'm about to get into bed
ME: how come you have a picture of me as your icon?
GRL: lol i just couldnt resist
ME: haha
ME: you got my bad side though in the picture
ME: i'll let that slide this time
GRL: lol ok
GRL:alright i'm gonna get into bed
GRL: i need some rest
ME:i would say
ME: after all the shovelling=o)
GRL: its true! lol
GRL:alright i'll talk to you soon

Its nothing much ......but what do you guys think. I really need to get over my ex. P{lus i had this convo with her while i was drunk and still am.

Any input would be appreicated.

Thanksa

-John

 

[HuuBinh]

John, it seems to me like the convo. wasn't split evenly between you and her. You did most of the chatting and she only answers, low IL. I can tell you probably still have high interest in your ex. Oh yeah, end the convo. next time.

 

[Ice Cold]

It was a converstaion. A friendly one.

What do you expect us to say? She had fun, but you need to cause emotions and get into her head. Otherwise it's pointless.

Cheers

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

when u said u were drunk when u had convo - it became all clear to me - either that or u r in high school -- 2nd convo with her and no pursuit to hook up - whats up with that - y talk on phone rather b in person -- never never call a girl u just met when u r drunk - whats the point? she probably saw this as lack of courage when u r sober so he calls me when he is drunk.

your convo lead nowhere and lacked substance and direction as well as purpose -- not trying to b harsh -- just real - for your improvement

 

[Legend]

give me a break. For one she did'nt know i was drunk and two what do you except? This girl to sleep with a complete stranger? I mean give me a break. Never come on to strong. The convo was at 12:00 at night and was only the second time we talked. I think i did alright. Just trying to build a rapport, i dont want to ruin things by going to fast. I dont like to rush things.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by Legend
give me a break. For one she did'nt know i was drunk and two what do you except? This girl to sleep with a complete stranger? I mean give me a break. Never come on to strong. The convo was at 12:00 at night and was only the second time we talked. I think i did alright. Just trying to build a rapport, i dont want to ruin things by going to fast. I dont like to rush things.

It was good, don't worry about it, take your time. Just make sure next time you end it first, like someone else said, whether that involves blocking her or other means.

 

[duke007]

Me: i am sorta stressed
Me:with finals coming up....i'm really not prepared

This was a mistake. A DJ should always be in control and have supreme confidence.

Whingeing about stress 1 year ago is what turned away my oneitis.

 

[Deadpan]

All in all, it wasn't bad. Like the Duke said, you shouldn't have admitted weakness, but that can be rectified. You had some ****y and funny in there (the weight thing) but don't overdo it. You can be stupid and funny too.

Her "I Think I caught a cold."
You "Funny. I could've sworn I threw you a hot."

Stupid yes. She'll probably roll her eyes. But its still witty.

Her "Shuuuuut up."
You stay quiet for a bit. She asks "You there?" You say, "Sorry, I had to go cry into my pillow because you told me to shut up. I'm still a bit weepy, so say nice things for the next minute or so." When you phrase it like that she know's you're just being a smart aleck.

But she's got a picture of you as her icon. So far it seems as if things are in your favor. Just don't get too attached to the IM mode of communication. In person is always best, as I'm sure you know.

 

[Walden]

Thats not Djing.

Dude you had a conversation. I have funny conversations with my grandmother.

 

[drixsa]

i hate all this "a DJ says this" and a "dj says that" bullsh!t.

personally im not that open with my feelings but that is just me

the thing is for a normal convo (online i am guessing?) it was ok.

if you are trying to build up rapport it should be done only in person.

just a drunk convo. nothin special

legend are you really 5'3" and 190lbs?

keep talking to different girls

 

[Legend]

nah shes 5'3"

I'm 6'2" 190 pounds

Thats all the the infor and input...but she LJBF'd me real fast last night.

This right here was the line

her: well i have no idea what to
get any of my friends and this is my first yr in like
3 yrs w/o a real boyfriend.. and my kind of boyfriend
is coming home and i dont know what the hell to get
him if anything..
her: yes, i have a kind of
boyfriend lol
me: kind of a boyfriend
ME: lol yea
ME: i'm sure we could think of something
ME: ya see, he lives in south
carolina, so when hes home we're together, and when
hes not here we basically just do our own thing

-

I got a new "friend" on my hands now

haha