Controversial Topic - how do you feel about interracial dating?

[TonyBaloney]

So, yes, I have opened a can of worms.

But this is purely out of interest to see if all men of all colours, creeds, backgrounds etc share a view - or not.

My personal feeling (I am white, 38) is that I like to see white men/black girls but dont like black men/white girls. Is this social conditioning? Or an evolutionary response reaching back in the subconcious of "the tribe"

Would be keen to here all mens honest view on this. Its not a racist thing. Just a gene thing I guess....

 

[morepoonplease]

So, yes, I have opened a can of worms.

But this is purely out of interest to see if all men of all colours, creeds, backgrounds etc share a view - or not.

My personal feeling (I am white, 38) is that I like to see white men/black girls but dont like black men/white girls. Is this social conditioning? Or an evolutionary response reaching back in the subconcious of "the tribe"

Would be keen to here all mens honest view on this. Its not a racist thing. Just a gene thing I guess....

I really don't have much to say other than the fact that after I found out my ex hooked up with a black guy before me things were never the same and have ended after 6 mos of bs... I like to think I believe in fairness and equality but something about the mother of my children hooking up a black guy nerves me... Not like I asked her or anything she brought it up stupid tramp.

 

[MisterD]

I don't care who dates who. All i care about is my **** and the pussies it enters.

I'm puerto rican and I go for all colors of the rainbow

 

[BigJimbo]

I don't care who dates who. All i care about is my **** and the pussies it enters.

I'm puerto rican and I go for all colors of the rainbow

Uh, Puerto Ricans don't look at skin color? :crackup: Sure. White Puerto Ricans are not promoted more than black or mixed Puerto Ricans. Right...:crackup: . Get real.

BTW, most Puerto Ricans are "white". Puerto Rico is not Mexico.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.ne...19_502274646638_121700042_30000705_7065_n.jpg
I would say only one guy in this picture has "black" bloodlines.

 

[MisterD]

Uh, Puerto Ricans don't look at skin color? :crackup: Sure. White Puerto Ricans are not promoted more than black or mixed Puerto Ricans. Right...:crackup: . Get real.

BTW, most Puerto Ricans are "white". Puerto Rico is not Mexico.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.ne...19_502274646638_121700042_30000705_7065_n.jpg
I would say only one guy in this picture has "black" bloodlines.

not sure what this is supposed to mean? the topic asked for our take on interracial dating. my take is i dont care who dates who, also, i'm puerto rican and have no problems dating every and any other race.

 

[gspshields2]

I really don't have much to say other than the fact that after I found out my ex hooked up with a black guy before me things were never the same and have ended after 6 mos of bs... I like to think I believe in fairness and equality but something about the mother of my children hooking up a black guy nerves me... Not like I asked her or anything she brought it up stupid tramp.

So you are a 6'5" 300 pound former bounce who likes to beat people up at the bar and doesn't like when your gf dates black guys.

So not only do you like hurting your fellow man physically, you also hate black guys.

 

[Darth]

So, yes, I have opened a can of worms.

But this is purely out of interest to see if all men of all colours, creeds, backgrounds etc share a view - or not.

My personal feeling (I am white, 38) is that I like to see white men/black girls but dont like black men/white girls. Is this social conditioning? Or an evolutionary response reaching back in the subconcious of "the tribe"

Would be keen to here all mens honest view on this. Its not a racist thing. Just a gene thing I guess....

I'm the same. Black guys with white women usually get on my nerves. But I'll add the exception- if he is civilized (think Bill Cosby or Herman Cain) then I have absolutely no problem with it. So upon reflection I think it's a social thing. I don't like to see girls with the black ghetto types, is more where I stand on this. I wouldn't want my sisters going out with them, and that carries for any woman I have respect for.

 

[Deep Dish]

TonyBaloney:
My personal feeling (I am white, 38) is that I like to see white men/black girls but don’t like black men/white girls. Is this social conditioning? Or an evolutionary response reaching back in the subconscious of “the tribe.”

It is the latter.

It turns out that this subconscious association of good with European Americans is true for everyone, even African Americans, no matter how colorblind we all claim to be.

We are by nature sorters. Evolutionists theorize that we evolved in small bands of hunter-gatherers when there was a selection for within-group amity and between-group enmity. With our fellow in-group members, we are cooperative and altruistic. Unfortunately, the downside to this pro-social bonding is that we are also quite tribal and xenophobic to out-group members.

This natural tendency to sort people into Within-Group/Good and Between-Group/Bad is shaped by culture, so that all Americans (including even those whose ancestry is African) implicitly inculcate the cultural association, which includes additional prejudices.

http://articles.latimes.com/2006/nov/24/opinion/oe-shermer24

Now wait for this thread to be closed.

 

[rum]

I'm a white guy...completely indifferent to it unless I see white girls with black guys. But usually it's a short, ugly, big assed white girl with some black guy. Even good looking black guys seem to dumpster dive with white girls

 

[Robert28]

I don't date anything besides caucasian women. I don't date white girls that do date, have dated other races. if you have mixed kids....bye. now, that's not to say that I don't find women of other races attractive because I do, doesn't mean I'll date them though.

I have always wondered why white girls that date black men hate white guys so much. i mean down right HATE white men. also, why do they have to talk ghetto? I can take a white girl who was an english teacher, set her up with a black guy, and next time she sees you she's like "yo hommie what's up? how you be?"lol wtf???? also why do white girls that date black men have big butts like most black women do? is there a special diet they go on or something? the rest of them is skinny, sorta, but their ass is HUGE. yet if they were dating a white guy, their ass would be proportinate with the rest of their body. i kid you not, notice that sometimes youll see what i mean! I also have yet to see a white girl that dates guys other then white drive a decent car.

 

[Down Low]

If you didn't know the theory of body types, you couldn't possibly categorize other men as "ecto, endo, meso" because those ideas wouldn't be in your brain. Same with "caucasoid, negroid, mongoloid." It's intellectual cowardice and a prejudice for one's own culture that causes people in the modern world to presume that all persons at all times "naturally" spent every minute of every day measuring and rating and categorizing other people as we do today.

To answer the question, yes I immediately make presumptions about everyone I see. I suppose I learned from my father to guess where someone's ancestors were from by facial and bodily features. So I see "mixed" in British faces that most people would quickly pass off as "just white."

 

[morepoonplease]

So you are a 6'5" 300 pound former bounce who likes to beat people up at the bar and doesn't like when your gf dates black guys.

So not only do you like hurting your fellow man physically, you also hate black guys.

6' 4" 247 actually, cutting weight for boxing I would like to be 220 which mean I have some muscle to lose :-(

 

[Thatfeel21]

I don't date anything besides caucasian women. I don't date white girls that do date, have dated other races. if you have mixed kids....bye. now, that's not to say that I don't find women of other races attractive because I do, doesn't mean I'll date them though.

I have always wondered why white girls that date black men hate white guys so much. i mean down right HATE white men. also, why do they have to talk ghetto? I can take a white girl who was an english teacher, set her up with a black guy, and next time she sees you she's like "yo hommie what's up? how you be?"lol wtf???? also why do white girls that date black men have big butts like most black women do? is there a special diet they go on or something? the rest of them is skinny, sorta, but their ass is HUGE. yet if they were dating a white guy, their ass would be proportinate with the rest of their body. i kid you not, notice that sometimes youll see what i mean! I also have yet to see a white girl that dates guys other then white drive a decent car.

You obviously watch TOO much TV, or have grown up in a sheltered neighborhood. In NJ and NY, white women who date black men maintain a normal dialect. I know that for a fact because black men do NOT still say 'hommie." White women love us because we are different from the typical preppy/redneck/douchebag personality. We literally have our own type of style, confidence and way about us. Deal with it. And ive seen too many white girls with normal white butts date black men; has nothing to do with that. And by 2050, caucasians will be in the minority, so adjust your views or remain prejudice, your choice.

 

[cablecow15]

6' 4" 247 actually, cutting weight for boxing I would like to be 220 which mean I have some muscle to lose :-(

Im 6'5, 200 ,a shame your not swapped with me , I couldn't imagine losing muscle its to much fun gaining it

And you have politician question answering skills lol totally deflect the question

 

[cablecow15]

You obviously watch TOO much TV, or have grown up in a sheltered neighborhood. In NJ and NY, white women who date black men maintain a normal dialect. I know that for a fact because black men do NOT still say 'hommie." White women love us because we are different from the typical preppy/redneck/douchebag personality. We literally have our own type of style, confidence and way about us. Deal with it. And ive seen too many white girls with normal white butts date black men; has nothing to do with that. And by 2050, caucasians will be in the minority, so adjust your views or remain prejudice, your choice.

couple things , 1 try 2850 ,

2 yes people of all colors still say hommie ,

3 girls to not transform because there with a black guy , black guys just prefer the big booty ghetto white girls , its more common to see them together , and in my experience ive only seen black guys with big booty white girls , or blonde ones.

4 as for my preference , I prefer white girls myself (im white) but I will consider other nationalities if they are if they can speak proper english and don't carry a heavy accent , but then again im used to being around other races growing up in Florida .

 

[Masculinity]

It is very sad and disappointing to hear how prejudiced some of you are. Who gives a flying fvck if some white girl is dating a black guy or vice versa. That is none of your business. By the way, white women date men of color because they have enough of white men's manginaness. Men of color--on average--tend to be more aggressive, assertive, and overall approach more women than white men (all non PUA's/DJ's). So don't take out your frustration on men of color because your white girl craves some brown sugar.

something about the mother of my children hooking up a black guy nerves me...

This is the Black dude that you DO know about.

Black guys with white women usually get on my nerves. But I'll add the exception- if he is civilized (think Bill Cosby or Herman Cain) then I have absolutely no problem with it.

Civilized, are you serious!? Does that mean that all other blacks are savages?
Wow, talk about the king of prejudice.

I don't date anything besides caucasian women. I don't date white girls that do date, have dated other races. if you have mixed kids....bye. now, that's not to say that I don't find women of other races attractive because I do, doesn't mean I'll date them though.

Keyword: ANYTHING, which suggests that people who aren't white aren't even people, but more like THINGS in your view. And they say racism is almost over? Duuude, please...

White women love us because we are different from the typical preppy/redneck/douchebag personality. We literally have our own type of style, confidence and way about us. Deal with it. And ive seen too many white girls with normal white butts date black men; has nothing to do with that. And by 2050, caucasians will be in the minority, so adjust your views or remain prejudice, your choice.

Amen! In California Latinos are ALREADY the majority and Whites are a minority. There are many things that Latinos and Blacks have to offer White women that White men don't have and will never understand.

Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)

 

[Robert28]

You obviously watch TOO much TV, or have grown up in a sheltered neighborhood. In NJ and NY, white women who date black men maintain a normal dialect. I know that for a fact because black men do NOT still say 'hommie." White women love us because we are different from the typical preppy/redneck/douchebag personality. We literally have our own type of style, confidence and way about us. Deal with it. And ive seen too many white girls with normal white butts date black men; has nothing to do with that. And by 2050, caucasians will be in the minority, so adjust your views or remain prejudice, your choice.

and you obviously think society follows everything that has to do with NY or NJ. i wouldn't call me prejudice when you referred to myself, as well as ALL white men as rednecks and douchebags. i never said white girls that dated black guys or spanish guys was wrong, i just said that i wouldn't have anything to do with them. maybe by the time we become the minority i can finally get to be on welfare, get food stamps, have medicaid, drive a $300 car with $5000 rims and live in a $1000 house, wear my pants around my ass, etc. only 38 more years to go

 

[Robert28]

It is very sad and disappointing to hear how prejudiced some of you are. Who gives a flying fvck if some white girl is dating a black guy or vice versa. That is none of your business. By the way, white women date men of color because they have enough of white men's manginaness. Men of color--on average--tend to be more aggressive, assertive, and overall approach more women than white men (all non PUA's/DJ's). So don't take out your frustration on men of color because your white girl craves some brown sugar.



This is the Black dude that you DO know about.




Civilized, are you serious!? Does that mean that all other blacks are savages?
Wow, talk about the king of prejudice.



Keyword: ANYTHING, which suggests that people who aren't white aren't even people, but more like THINGS in your view. And they say racism is almost over? Duuude, please...



Amen! In California Latinos are ALREADY the majority and Whites are a minority. There are many things that Latinos and Blacks have to offer White women that White men don't have and will never understand.

Trust me though, there is a reason why they pick us (besides bigger d!cks and more manhood)

you're a liberal aren't you? i can tell because you took ONE word and blew it WAY out of context of how it was meant. the word anything all of a sudden makes me think any race but whites arent human.lol what a moron. no wonder we have Obama.

 

[cablecow15]

and you obviously think society follows everything that has to do with NY or NJ. i wouldn't call me prejudice when you referred to myself, as well as ALL white men as rednecks and douche bags. I never said white girls that dated black guys or Spanish guys was wrong, i just said that i wouldn't have anything to do with them. maybe by the time we become the minority i can finally get to be on welfare, get food stamps, have medicaid, drive a $300 car with $5000 rims and live in a $1000 house, wear my pants around my ass, etc. only 38 more years to go

don't forget , we can blame "the man"

 

[perseverance]

I'm a white man and I couldn't care less about interracial dating. I'll date a woman of any race, providing she is a decent human being, compliments me well and is someone I want to be with.

Whoever someone else dates or doesn't date is not my concern.