drift king
Master Don Juan
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here's the situation. hot hot HB on match.com looking for a guy of my ethnicity only, not only written in what she's looking for but actually in her profile. we have one bad boring phone call (1 hour long) and she flakes on meeting 2 days later. she's met guys from there before who she seem to get on with in writing but when she met them in person there was no chemistry, so she uses the phone as a screening test. which i've failed.
secondly, i live literally down the road from her, we're only 5 mins away from each other yet she can't seem to find time to come meet me. thirdly she claims to be depressed and not looking for the love of her life right now (yet her match profile indicates looking for a guy between 25 and 45) i understand low IL after the phone call, but it seems silly to me that she doesn't even want to meet up cos we live so close?
it just doesn't make sense to me, i'm her type physically, ethnicity wise, i live near her YET she still doesn't meet me. it's not as if she hasn't met other guys since. it just puzzles me, can anyone figure this out for me?
i followed up 2 weeks later to meet up that same day i.e. immediate date. she led me on making it sound like she was going to meet me, she didn't. i left it there. today 2 and half weeks later i decide to send 'so when me and you going to get together? '
still waiting for a reply. i should have applied the 2 strikes rule here, but whenever i see her profile i get infuriated cos it just seems to me there's no reason why she SHOULDN'T at least be meeting up with me given proximity etc
secondly, i live literally down the road from her, we're only 5 mins away from each other yet she can't seem to find time to come meet me. thirdly she claims to be depressed and not looking for the love of her life right now (yet her match profile indicates looking for a guy between 25 and 45) i understand low IL after the phone call, but it seems silly to me that she doesn't even want to meet up cos we live so close?
it just doesn't make sense to me, i'm her type physically, ethnicity wise, i live near her YET she still doesn't meet me. it's not as if she hasn't met other guys since. it just puzzles me, can anyone figure this out for me?
i followed up 2 weeks later to meet up that same day i.e. immediate date. she led me on making it sound like she was going to meet me, she didn't. i left it there. today 2 and half weeks later i decide to send 'so when me and you going to get together? '
still waiting for a reply. i should have applied the 2 strikes rule here, but whenever i see her profile i get infuriated cos it just seems to me there's no reason why she SHOULDN'T at least be meeting up with me given proximity etc