Confusing Polish Girl.

[Tabris]

So I met this girl, who is my friends girlfriends bestfriend. We would just talk online and whenver we saw each other, and we started to hit it off. The four of us would all hang out, go see movies, play pool, go out to eat and stuff like that. At first I could tell that she was quite the confusing girl, but I guess that was part of the allure. Whenever we would hang out, she would rest her head on me, grab my hand, take my hands and put them around her, sleep on my lap, genuine things that I would think she had some interest in me. One night after all hanging out together, my friend later mentioned that she was pretty upset that I didn't "make a move" or kiss her that night. I felt pretty stupid missing this oppurtunity.
Let me tell you, sometimes when we talk it's like we're just friends, and she'll seem like there is no interest in each other, yet in person it's completely different. It's quite weird.
Two days later her and I were going to a concert I had invited her to a month prior. For the entire concert she kept herself pretty much attatched to me, and whenever I looked at her she would smile. So during the last band, I made my move. It went over succsefully. We kissed a few more times that night, and she kissed me in the car going home. So, I was practically convinced that this was going to work out.
So now, last night I asked her if she wanted to go on a date somewhere, and her response was "no way". Now it's like she's no interested. It's weird. What the hell is going on, haha? Any advice or thoughts would be cool.

 

[dirtysouth]

Did you guys make out? Or was it just some isolated kisses?

Also, what happened from the car until the time you asked her out?

 

[Tabris]

First time was a make-outish kiss.
And from the car point to the asking out, was we saw one movie together. It was like a 3 day period in between.

 

[dirtysouth]

Sounds like she's playing games with you. Testing your interest level. The fact that she's kissed you coupled with the fact that she wanted you to make a move prove that she's interested. Plus it sounds like you already had a date with her at the movies.

Now, limit your time with her - get busy and let her guess your next move. She has to earn your time again, and she doesn't do that by playing games.

 

[Tabris]

Hmm thanks, I'll try that out for sure. : )

 

[banGbro]

Oh, jesus.


Do you think she likes you somewhat? Let me tell, she wants to fvck you. Can you picture a horny girl that you werent giving it to for how long?


Do you know where she lives? If so go to her door, ring the bell, and say hi. Look straight in her eyes for 5 or 10 seconds, only taking your eyes off her eyes to look at her lips. Tell her, "Mellissa you smell good!". Say it with confidence. When she giggles dont giggle with her, just look at her eyes and for a few more seconds, then come closer to her, take hands or put your arms on her hips, and get real close, like 6 inches close. Ask her "Would you like to kiss me?"

If she says no, tell her "I didnt say you could; I just thought you had something on your mind."

If shes not sure or hesitates. Tell her lets find out, and kiss.

Dont let it take you too long to kiss you. Just kiss. No tongue. Then lean back a little and go like hmmmm, as if you are thinking. Look in her eyes again, and kiss her again. This time make this one last, use tongue. Touch her upper arms. Brush her hair back, then place your hands on her back just above her a55.


Do it even if her parents are home. If they are home, you done that, tell her Im going to watch funny movie tonight, would you like to come with me? Make a date, tell her to keep herself available youll pick her up. Dont tell her time.

If parents not home, and this is what you will do at the movies (at your fvcking place).


Take her hand and lead her to your/her bedroom.

Sit on your bed, far away from her.

Give her a hand massage.

Get massage lotion or oil and use it, rub further up the arms. Stop, and lean back.

Put your hand out as if to take hers, and then when she gives it to you, give it back.

Turn her around and rub her shoulders for awhile.

If you need to learn, get massages and massage books to learn how. Stroke neck and exposed neck/shoulder skin very gently and slowly. Stop, and lean back.

Pull her over gently to cuddle, spoon and put arm around her and relax. Continue talking casually; say "You're comfy."

Smell her neck, then lean back and comment on her smell. Relax for a few minutes.

Smell her neck for 10 minutes straight, moving your nose on her neck. Pull her close as you're smelling and say "I want to bite you."

When you can tell she's VERY worked up tease her with an ‘almost kiss.’ Keep smelling, and touching/rubbing her in the NON-X rated areas.

Run your fingers around any seams where her skin is showing, even pull up her shirt slightly; tease.

Kiss her deeply, and keep pulling her towards you. Kiss for at least 10 or 15 minutes.

Stop and lean back, maybe take a break to use the restroom, get water, etc.

Set some mood by lighting candles, playing music, etc.

Start kissing again, and this time move her into different sexual positions.

When she's on her stomach, pull her hair while kissing her.

When she's completely hot and bothered, test to see if she's comfortable
being touched between the legs by putting your hand NEAR her crotch, but not on it for a few minutes, then taking it away. Repeat.

Touch her breasts through her clothes, and gently pinch her nipples.

If she's very turned on, run your hand from her upper leg up to her crotch as you're kissing her and rub her there for just a moment and make a deep "Mmm" sound. If she enjoys this, then stop it and just kiss, smell, and make out for awhile.

Reach down, and unbutton her top pants button, and put your fingers down the front of her panties... Touch her down there, and then put your finger in both of your mouths as you're kissing.

If she enjoys this, then take off her pants, and have sex. Tease her with your mouth or sexual tool. Keep building anticipation, all the way to the end.

You can naturally transition to all positions now, because you tried and tested them while kissing her.

Always use protection and take safe sex precautions!

After, if you really want to make the experience wonderful, feed her some chilled fruit like strawberries, share a bath, etc.



Its OK if you dont remember and screw things up. Do what feels natural. Pretend that you know what you doing. Remember, if you dont know what you doing, she has no way of knowing that.:flowers:


THE FOLLOWING IS TRUE AND YOU CAN BE SURE IT IS. THIS IS THE ONLY THING THAT SHOULD BE IN YOUR HEAD FROM NOW ON. SHE IS TIRED OF DATING YOU, SHE NOW WANTS SEX, SHE FINDS YOU HOT, SHE IS HORNY FOR YOU.

There is no IFs, BUTS, or MAYBEs. You will be a fool to think otherwise or reply to us with IFs, BUTs, or MAYBEs. Or further advice. Time to be a man.

 

[Strip Club Inspector]

It's possible she's lost interest, is in love with some ex, or is the type of person who has a hard time saying no when she feels obliged to do something. I'd give it a few days, and just be direct: I had a great time with you on X date. I thought we really connected. I'd like to take you to Y on Y date. Would you like to go?

If she says no, then call it a day. Women, like men, sometimes just change their minds or don't feel it. No big deal.

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

Hey BangBro - when you're not posting on here you really should consider writing romance novels :yes:

Good sh1t.

 

[EternalBachelor]

Yeah she wants you bro but probably thinks you are a bit of a *****. She is putting herself out there and making it obvious she likes you but you are not really doing much about it. So she may be losing interest or she may be cooling off and trying to play hard to get as throwing herself at you did not really achieve much.

Id recommend saying you wanna go to a club with her. A date sounds a bit gay because she is making it obvious she wants to hook up. Dance with her and when the dancing is getting sexual suggest that you "go someplace more private".

 

[realsmoothie]

So I met this girl, who is my friends girlfriends bestfriend. We would just talk online and whenver we saw each other, and we started to hit it off. The four of us would all hang out, go see movies, play pool, go out to eat and stuff like that. At first I could tell that she was quite the confusing girl, but I guess that was part of the allure. Whenever we would hang out, she would rest her head on me, grab my hand, take my hands and put them around her, sleep on my lap, genuine things that I would think she had some interest in me. One night after all hanging out together, my friend later mentioned that she was pretty upset that I didn't "make a move" or kiss her that night. I felt pretty stupid missing this oppurtunity.
Let me tell you, sometimes when we talk it's like we're just friends, and she'll seem like there is no interest in each other, yet in person it's completely different. It's quite weird.
Two days later her and I were going to a concert I had invited her to a month prior. For the entire concert she kept herself pretty much attatched to me, and whenever I looked at her she would smile. So during the last band, I made my move. It went over succsefully. We kissed a few more times that night, and she kissed me in the car going home. So, I was practically convinced that this was going to work out.
So now, last night I asked her if she wanted to go on a date somewhere, and her response was "no way". Now it's like she's no interested. It's weird. What the hell is going on, haha? Any advice or thoughts would be cool.

Uh, we'd probably need more details about what ELSE was said when she said "no way".

*ring ring*
YOU: Hey, PolishChick, want to see a movie with me tomorrow?
HER: NO WAY
YOU: OK, bye. *click*

I'm guessing there was something else here that you said where she was like "WTF buddy, forget you".

 

[djbr]

I sense you're her cuddle b!tch.

But I am a cynical bastard so beware.